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What To Say When He Says He Needs Space | Sami Wunder #shorts

14 Aug 2022 · 1 min

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In this short relationship‑advice video, Sami Wunder tells women the most high‑value, feminine‑energy way to answer a man who says he’s not feeling the relationship, needs space, or isn’t in love. She advises a calm, appreciative reply – “Okay, thank you for letting me know. That hurts, but I respect your choice.” – emphasizing that the response should avoid chasing, trying to change his mind, or proving one’s worth. Wunder frames this as a “diva, feminine energy” stance that maintains self‑respect. She also references her ELEVATE coaching program, noting that, based on client experience, men often return when women give this type of high‑value response to withdrawal.

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What is the most feminine energy response that you can give when a man says that he's not feeling it for you, he wants space, he needs a break, or that he is not in love with you, even though he loves you? Well, the most high-value thing you can do in such a scenario is to say, Okay, thank you for letting me know. That hurts, but I respect your choice. Now, this is very powerful because it means you're not chasing the man. It means you're not trying to change his opinion. It means you're not trying to convince him of your value. It means you're not working hard to make him want to work on the relationship. And this is all high-value, diva, feminine energy. And what we've seen with our clients inside ELEVATE, which is, by the way, currently enrolling, is that men most often come back when women offer this high-value response to a man's withdrawal.