Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Who are you ATTRACTED to? 🧐

16 Dec 2023 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Sami Wunder asks viewers whether they find themselves drawn to men who are neglectful, emotionally unavailable, or hot‑and‑cold, noting that such men often feel more sexually arousing because of their mystery, edge, and perceived seductive charm. She contrasts this with “nice,” stable, and consistently present men—who have good jobs and looks—arguing that they are perceived as less attractive due to a lack of intrigue. The content highlights a common relational pattern where people are attracted to the very traits that can lead to unhealthy dynamics.

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Are you attracted to men who are ignoring you, neglecting you, and not showing full interest in you? Do you find yourself getting sexually more aroused and seduced by men when they are not kind to you and are hot and cold towards you, whereas the nice guys, the good guys, the stable guys, the guys who also have good jobs, and the guys who also look good, but who show up more consistently in your life and on your dating apps, You don't find them attractive because they lack that edge, and they lack that mystery, and they lack that charm and seductive factor.