Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Why He Is NOT Chasing You 💕 How to Fix It With the Power of FEMININE ENERGY 💕 ✨

6 Jun 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder argues that men will not continue to chase women who do not show interest or give them signals of appreciation. She critiques the common interpretation of feminine energy as passive and non‑forward, explaining that while women may think they should avoid appearing too eager, men actually crave feminine expression manifested as warmth, touch, flirting, and especially verbal appreciation and validation. Wunder emphasizes that women should actively gift men with thanks, compliments, and acknowledgment—telling them they look great or make her happy—because without feeling they can "win" with a woman, a man’s self‑respect will prevent him from persisting in pursuit.

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No man with an ounce of self-respect is going to keep chasing a woman who is not showing interest in him. You see, I think so often women take the whole feminine energy and leaning back to mean that, you know, you should not appear too forward, you should not appear to pursue a man, and all of that is fine, but I think men are still craving to experience a woman's femininity in the form of flow, in the form of, you know, touch, in the form of flirting, in the form of appreciation, in the form of warmth. And I think it's so important that women gift men with appreciation, thanks, validation, that feels good, this is amazing, you look great, you make me happy, because no man is just gonna keep blindly pursuing a woman that is not showing him that he can win with her.