Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Why SPARK AND DESIRE Go Away In the Relationship 💔 And How To Fix It

7 Jul 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder introduces the concept of polarity as a crucial factor for maintaining desire and spark in long-term relationships. She defines polarity as the presence of opposite energies—masculine (doing, giving) and feminine (receiving, leaning back)—within a partnership. Wunder observes that many of her clients, who are often strong, successful women, tend to adopt a dominant masculine, doing energy in their relationships. According to the Law of Polarity, this shift causes their male partners to become more passive, feminine, and less active, while the women become more activated and giving. This imbalance, she argues, leads to a loss of attraction, spark, and overall relationship vitality.

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Polarity is such an amazing ingredient to increasing desire and spark in your relationship. And if you've never heard of polarity, it's the presence of polar opposite energies inside any long-term relationship, where one person is carrying more of the masculine, doing, giving energy, and another person is carrying more of the feminine, receiving, leaning back energy. And what happens with my clients, because they tend to be more like me, you know, strong, successful, is that very often we are stepping more our doing, giving, masculine energy in our relationship, which is very natural for women like you and me. But when we bring that energy into our marriage or into our relationship, based on the Law of Polarity, our men tend to get more passive and more feminine and more lazy, and we tend to get more activated and doing more and giving more. And this really kills the spark and attraction.