In this testimonial, Stacy, a 36‑year‑old wellness doctor, shares her journey before, during, and after joining the Leap Into Love program with coach Sami Wunder. She describes her prior pattern of dating unavailable men and operating from a masculine, goal‑oriented "doing" mode, which masked intimacy fears. Through the program she learned to shift into a feminine, receptive stance, clarified what she truly wanted in a relationship, and practiced rotational dating by creating a simple profile on dating apps. One of the dates progressed quickly, leading to a clear, committed partnership and an engagement within a year. Stacy highlights key program components—a retreat, a supportive Facebook community, and ongoing guidance—and emphasizes the personal growth she experienced beyond finding a partner. She concludes with an enthusiastic call to action, urging viewers to join Leap Into Love 3.0, noting the priceless value of the relationship and personal transformation.
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Hello, I'm Stacy. I'm 36 years old and I'm a wellness doctor. I want to talk to you guys a little bit about Leap Into Love and working with Sami. Um, before starting Leap Into Love and coming across Sami, I, I'm— I've never really been an overgiver. I was a hard worker, go-getter type person, so I was— I would say I was more in my masculine, definitely more so than an overgiver or the terribly nice girl, um, because I did stand my ground when I needed to. But I will say, except for when I came across guys that I really liked, which was few and far in between, so that made me a little bit lucky, but it still didn't matter because that one guy who got to be on a pedestal when it should have been me, um, made a difference. So before Leap Into Love, I Dated a lot of unavailable men in terms of maybe distance, which you guys may not think about. So I always kind of subconsciously made sure that they weren't close by so we couldn't spend a lot of time together. Somehow that always happened. Emotionally would be another way that could be the case, or physically. So physically we kind of talked about, but emotionally as well. So if they Could not be there, whether it was for work or involvement with someone else. In addition, all of those things played a role. And so that kept me safe in a way which I did not understand. And that's a version of intimacy fears that you'll learn more about if you decide to take the leap into the program. And I hope you do. And so during the program, I really learned how to show up as the woman that we are created to be. As women and allowing men to be who they are created to be, who they're yearning to be, even more so now than ever. So I really enjoyed the program, going through the steps, really getting clear on what I wanted in my life, what I wanted in a relationship, and how I needed to show up if I wanted to be that— who I needed to be, not just what I needed to do. And so as a go-getter professional goal, I just love my goals and reaching my goals. I was always in my masculine, so I was looking for things to do, and I wasn't really understanding who I needed to be to show up and to date in a way that I would meet a man that met the qualities that I would want, and not just a relationship and a boyfriend, but a husband. And also, Sami will talk to you guys more about that in the program too, how you no longer have space For a boyfriend. Yeah. So you'll learn more about that if you join the program. But I really learned those core essential things that were really important for me to really show up in who I need to be, because I know I wanted a relationship where the man would take the lead, where the man would be present in his fullness so that I can relax and take a deep breath. Because what I learned later on in the program is that I did not want to be in the doing mode. I just felt like I had to be in that place. And so as a result of taking Leap Into Love and working with Sami, because I did attend a retreat, which was really fun, within a year— let me tell you guys, before I get to this point, I want to tell you, and you don't have to do everything right, because that was the thing that I really fell into in terms of I just put my hand in front of the camera. Hey, this is real and raw. But in terms of anything I did, I wanted to make sure I did it right. I wanted to make sure that I got the best results I could get, and I tried to get everything perfect, and it either slowed down my action or I just didn't take any action at all, which is not the point of the program. It's not the point of anything we're doing when we want to grow in life. Right. Right. Right. So I want to tell you a little story. So I was really reluctant to start dating again because I'm like, what is this dating thing? I didn't really understand the concept of dating. You met somebody, you liked them, you became boyfriend-girlfriend, and you stayed together until you broke up. That's what I was used to from middle school, high school on through college. So this new concept of dating and rotational dating, which you'll learn more about in the program as well, was really new to me and foreign. So I, out of this resistance and reluctance, which was more on a subconscious level, I just threw up a 3-sentence dating profile with probably like 3 to 5 pictures, recent pictures of myself on about 5 major dating apps. And I'm like, I'm just going to see where it goes. I really don't care where it goes. I just checked that off the list. And people started responding and I started getting dates here and there. Most of the dates were like one here, one date here, second date here. And then it will fizzle out. I didn't care because more than likely we weren't a match anyway. So I wasn't too tied up on any of the guys I was meeting initially. Then this one guy I met, still didn't care as much because I'm like, hey, this is just a date. I'm just getting some practice in. And he just kept showing up, kept stepping up, kept calling first. In this day and age, he actually wanted to set up real dates. There was one time where he tried to slip with that, but he corrected himself really fast. And that's another thing, ladies, when a guy wants you, he's going to do what he needs to do to show up, no matter what he's done and who he's been with other women before. When he wants you, he's going to make that super clear. You won't have to guess. Didn't have to guess with this guy. And then within a year of dating, He proposed, and it was just crazy. I was just like, what? Is this really happening? Wow. So don't put a time limit on anything. Just stay present, be who you are, focus on learning and growing more in who you are, and that man who's meant for you will show up, and it will be super clear that he's your man. Because my man made it super clear. My fiancé made it super clear. And so there was a lot of intimacy fears that I had to work through to even get to the point of being more present and being— you see, I'm putting emphasis on being— myself throughout the engagement process. So we've worked through a lot of things together, and we're still together. We're still stronger. And it's just journeying. It's never going to stop. You're always going to be learning. So that's another thing I liked about the program, which I do recommend you sign up if you want that type of relationship. You want that dynamic between you and your husband where he is the lead and you get to be more of the receiver and the queen in the relationship. And you still get to shine because that was the big thing for me in terms of like, I'm smart, I, I'm pretty intelligent, I know how to figure a lot of things out too. But the thing is, just because we do know how to do those things, that doesn't mean we have to. We only do those things because we have to right now. And so it becomes really refreshing when you can just step back and be the woman that you were created to be. So if you want that type of dynamic in your relationship, please, please, please do yourself a favor and sign up for Leap Into Love 3.0. I signed up in the first group. So I get to have fun and dip into 3.0 with you guys. If you join, you're going to get in a Facebook group. We're all there. We're really supportive because sometimes you can't really talk to your family and friends, no matter how well-meaning they are, about the journey that you're starting when you sign up for Leap Into Love. So we're going to be there supporting you in the Facebook group. So I hope you join. You won't regret it. The investment is paid back in ways I could never have imagined. And just having a guy who shows up for me no matter what, no matter what mess I'm going through in my own life, um, it's priceless. What's even more priceless is who I've become in the process. And I've come back to more of who I am regardless of the guy. And that You can't put a price tag on. So stop thinking, just jump into the program. Let us support you. And I look forward to hearing about your dating journey and you finding the man of your dreams.
