Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Your smile attracts him to you

4 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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In this short video, Sami Wunder explains that a woman's smile is the first cue men notice from a distance. A genuine, warm smile signals approachability, positivity, and non‑threatening intent, making men more likely to initiate conversation. Conversely, a stressed, serious, or expressionless (poker‑face) demeanor signals that a woman is unapproachable, prompting men to stay away. Wunder emphasizes that while a perfect smile isn’t required, open body language combined with a warm smile can significantly increase the chance of attracting the right man in a social setting.

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The first thing a man is going to notice about you from a distance is your smile. A good smile denotes to men that you're approachable, that you are somebody who is positive, and that you won't bite if he walked up to you and started a conversation. So your smile and your overall mood, vibe, and energy is something that men want to gauge from a distance. If you look too stressed out, if you look too serious, have a poker face, no expressions, that will tell a man, stay away. These are all signals that men notice. So it is in your best interest to have that approachable smile. This does not mean that you have to smile all the time, fakely, that you have to have the perfect smile. You don't have to be perfect to attract a great guy. In a room of eligible bachelors, a warm, open body language with a warm smile will go a long way in pulling the right man to you.