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You're probably doing the thing wrong, not the wrong thing. Unconscious bias and false beliefs blind you to your own limits, so you need mentors, coaches, or a community to spot what you can't see about yourself.

You're probably doing the thing wrong, not the wrong thing. Unconscious bias and false beliefs blind you to your own limits, so you need mentors, coaches, or a community to spot what you can't see about yourself.
when we are trying to do everything by ourselves, there's so many things that we don't see, and we are so prone to fall prey to our unconscious and subconscious biases and false beliefs. Because oftentimes it's not that you're doing the wrong thing, it's you're doing the thing wrong. And it's really hard to read the prescription from inside the bottle, which is why mentors, coaches, communities like this, anything that gives you an opportunity to see limits that you're not seeing and to see alternatives for removing limits, because, you know, we put blinders on.

Stoics Don't Suppress Emotions, They Do This Instead #stoicism #emotionalintelligence #mindset