Soul Contract Symbol #13: If You Have a 13 in Your Soul Contract (Decode Your Genius)

13. Okay. So the core theme of the 13 is unconditional love. So in the resistance pattern, it's closed hearted, neglecting others, non committal, basically not even thinking of others, just oneself. So this in the system, the one is very much the archetype of the masculine energy at its best. The 13 is really the feminine energy at its best. And that doesn't mean that if you're a man, you can't have this. That's not the case. It's just that when we think of, it's easiest to think of this as the mother, where it's unconditional love, it's nurturing, it's wisdom. And again, don't get hung up on, you know, the gender in this. But it's just that feeling. And so a way of looking at this is like a pond, you know, a pond that all the animals come to drink from. And no matter what the animal is, at some point they're gonna get thirsty. At some point they need the nurturing sustenance of the water to come drink. And it's like a peaceful ground because all the animals understand that they gotta drink to survive. So this is the energy of the 13 and it's also, it's a patient energy when it's in its genius talent. Because just like with the pond, at some point the animals need to come and drink. So it might take a little bit of time, but always an animal needs the water. And that's with this love energy, is that it's patiently waiting for people to come on their own terms. Not really on their own terms, but when they're ready. So with this and the resistance pattern, it's close hearted to that. It's not patient with people, it's neglecting others, it's not giving the loving energy, it's the hardness, close, hard. So it's interesting because the sevens are very magnetic, but the 13 is like the has a hidden magnetism to it because again, it's like everybody needs that unconditional love and everybody's yearning from it. Just like the animals, all the animals need that water from the pond. So there's a patience here and there's a wisdom. And it's also connected to unity consciousness because unity consciousness allows us to step into unconditional love because it allows us to understand and feel that we are all connected on a certain level. And on that connection is how we relate to each other. And that's how we can understand and have compassion for each other. And that's the source of this unconditional love. And also I think it's an important distinction with this, is that unconditional love doesn't just mean letting people use and abuse you. It absolutely need to have proper boundaries. You absolutely have to have self respect. You have to absolutely communicate what you need to function and thrive. And this is an underlying love for humanity, underlying love for all that is. And you can still have love for someone and not allow them in your life. You can love them from afar, you know, and so the resistance pattern of this is not having that love connection for others, of being close hearted, of being disconnected and zero connection with others in the terms of a heart to heart loving connection. So the process here is, and usually a person has the resistance pattern of this because that's how they, they grew up in certain way. They never received that, that loving, unconditional, loving energy. So it's a process of feeling what that unconditional love is first and foremost, what's it like to be loved regardless of the mistakes you make. And again, that's not condoning people make mistakes. This is just a very solid current of nurturing love. It's very special. So it's first exploring into that because it is especially for someone who hasn't felt it. I mean it's completely, completely new. And also it kind of defies certain things, but it's definitely there. And as a person feels that, it's starting to feel that for themselves, melting the hard, rigid walls around the heart. Because as humans we have flaws and we're gonna make mistakes. And we can do everything in our power to make sure that we don't make mistakes. And that's a very admirable thing to do, is to make, to strive to not make mistakes. And it's still gonna happen. So it's having this love for oneself amidst the mistakes while still striving to be as effective and powerful as possible. And as that happens, as we're able to do that for ourselves, that extends out into others. And that's where it's like this hidden magnetism because ultimately that's a beautiful thing for a human to feel that warmth, that nurturing unconditional love. And so this is where again it's helpful to think about is like the, out of the higher power, the one is the more masculine expression of the higher power and the 13 is the more feminine expression of the higher power. And another keynote of this is like I shared with the pond, this is the still water which all beings come to eventually for nourishment. It just waits for them to come. So Patience is a wisdom and it's drawing people through, through the heart. And this is especially useful as the genius talent is activated. And again, men or women, doesn't matter. Still very effective as this genius talent is opening, the heart of unconditional love is just radiating like a sun out. It draws people to it and it's completely. I mean it's very effective, especially in areas and situations where people haven't had any love. You know, things that come to mind are say homeless people or kids who've been through specific traumas. And it also helps bridge the gap between groups of understanding others. Because there's so many groups, there's so many philosophies that are going head to head with each other. And it's just they're entrenched in only their way of seeing things. Well, that's not going to help humanity move forward at all. We're just going to go back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And that's why this energy is especially important at this time, because it's unity consciousness. That's the only way that unconditional love can come through, is understanding that we're all part of the same whole. Unconditional love is not possible if it's just a duality world where it's us versus them, it's impossible. And a duality world where it's us versus them. There's no long lasting harmony. It's just one side gets the upper hand, keeps the other down for a period of time, then the other one rebels, reclaims the top spot, pushes the other ones down, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, on and on and on. And here, especially at this time, we're here to break that pattern. And that's with a unity consciousness and this 13 energies coming more and more into the world. People are starting to realize, hey, we're all part of the same A world and B race. And we've got to figure out a way to still have our differences and respect our differences. And we don't have to agree on everything yet. We got to figure out a way to work together. That's where this unconditional love is so absolutely crucial for this time of humanity. I mean all times, but especially now, we're making a shift into a more collaborative chapter of our species. And when this genius talent activates, people are actually able to hear each other. Because imagine two people, totally different belief systems on one side of the fence and on the other side of the fence, but they're both connected with the genuine love for A the world, B humanity and our progression to a better, a better existence. Okay? With that foundation, anything is possible. So having this is a very, very important thing. And in your business, this is something double down on as well, is that nurturing, loving energy that helps people open up. People are. You have so many scars, so many wounds from different things. And without this energy, it's very hard to open up to that. But this is the energy that helps open up those wounds, open up those walls and help heal them and help hear each other. This is in the manual talks about, this is like mother mirror type energies and as well as in Christianity like the Christ energies. Because it's unity consciousness, bringing both together with unconditional love. And there's a great strength in that, by the way, that's usually lost in translation because if you know somebody loves you absolutely 100,000% and there's nothing that you can do to shake that, yet that person has wisdom and oftentimes knows what's best for you. It's like that's something you don't want to let down. Some of you want to strive to be better for. And that's how you with 13 can do for your teams and for your people around you. So the thing that I'll close off this with is helping people connect to the bigger picture for themselves, the higher power. And when we expand beyond our little bubble, our world, that's the only way we can truly connect to unconditional love. There's many ways to do it. It's about finding your own way and helping other people find their ways, but helping them connect to the bigger picture, to the team, to the shared vision. And only once that is done, then can we come together and still honor our differences. We don't have to all agree, we don't all have to be clun. It's not what we're here for. We're here to have different ideas, different philosophies, different purposes, and still have a core connecting thread of all of us which is being part of the family, of the human species and of the world.