Soul Contract Symbol #14: If You Have a 14 in Your Soul Contract (Decode Your Genius)

14. So this is really the energy of the mirror and it's mirroring back to people, the shadows within themselves. And if they're ready for it, that can be a wonderful gift that helps expedite their self reflection and then in turn their self growth. However, if people aren't ready for it or if the person with the 14 isn't aware of, can create drama in its resistance pattern, unnecessary, intense relationships, because it's essentially reflecting back and forth the shadow parts of a person, which are the parts of themselves that they don't like. And it's basically the worst parts of themselves. And we have all got shadows. It's the resistance patterns that we each have in our maps. So, and the resistance pattern is intense relationship after another after another, oftentimes simultaneously and unnecessary and unneeded drama, which can burn people out. So the key here is to realize that you have a unique ability to reflect back to somebody parts of them that they need to own to take the next step. So I see this in coaches from time to time, oftentimes because it's essentially, that's what it's doing. It's reflecting back to them what needs to change in their psyche to take the next step. So a few things about this is learning self acceptance. That's really what this journey is for the other person as well as the 14. So as a 14, you're here to master this of self reflection and self discovery, Owning the parts of yourself, that's who you are. Owning the shadow parts of yourself, owning the resistance patterns of yourself and then working on those. Because if we don't own our resistance patterns, we're never going to change them. Never. We got to first own them, and then we can use our specific strategy for them. And it's something just to take note of, is if you ever feel like your relationship is getting way too intense, because oftentimes the 14 doesn't even realize they have intense relationships, because that's all you ever know. But. But someone on the outside looking in is like, man, it's always intense for that person. So the key is to understand that through your relationships, the 14 learns about itself through its relationships. And so just knowing that is very, very helpful because you can take a look at your relationships and say, what? What am I learning from each of these relationships? As opposed to it just being something where, you know, maybe you're getting what you want or you're not getting what you want. You can take a look at each relationship. Okay, what am I getting from these relationship. What am I learning? About myself, because there's a, you know, a phrase I first heard, excuse me, I first heard from Joseph, that says people come into our lifetimes for either a reason, a season or a lifetime. People come into our lives for either a reason, a season or a lifetime. And sometimes the intensity of a relationship doesn't need to last very long, but it is because there's not ownership happening. So taking, taking stock of your relationships right now as an ongoing practice, if you notice it getting intense, being like, then taking a pause and saying, okay, what am I learning about myself in this? And if you get the things, you know, as you write them down, if you collect the things that you were meant to learn from it, you can shorten the period of that intensity. Because essentially in life, we continue to get the things we're supposed to get until we realize what they are. So the quicker that a person can realize what they need and collect them and integrate them, then life doesn't have to keep showing the same pattern over and over again. And so this, as this goes into the genius talent, this is the guide that people can go to to really see parts of themselves that it would have taken them a lot longer without the guide to see. So imagine you at the 14, you have this ability to. It's like you're holding up a big mirror and people come to you and you show them they this mirror and they look into it and they're like, oh, I didn't realize that thing about myself. I didn't realize that part or that part. And then they can learn. And, you know, sometimes it's parts about themselves that they don't want to see, but they need to see it to take the next step. And this also is a very like, intuitive ability as well as you can imagine, ability to sense what that person needs next. And people need to. People need to opt in, you know, because it's like, you know, you might be able to see what that person needs next, or you might be able to see that shadow that the person has. But a general rule for having a smooth journey through life is letting people opt in for that. You know, telling people what they're not ready to hear oftentimes just creates more of the drama. Unnecessary, intense relationships. So that's just a word of. Just to keep in mind that you might see it very quickly and it's something to let people ask for it. Okay, so a keynote on this to wrap up for this symbol is the reflection. Intensity is designed to empower the person to see the truth and break through it's. Like you're wearing a mirror suit in a room of mirrors designed to trigger people so that you can step. So that they can step back outside of the hidden mirrors and work on that thing that takes them to the next level.