Mike Melton tells men who snap at their families that it's pain with nowhere to go, not who they are. He calls it a loss of discipline and offers Standards 12 as a framework to regain control and redirect anger into action.
You're sitting there snapping at your wife. You know, you're sitting there losing it on your kids over nothing, absolutely nothing. And you don't even know why. Listen to me, that anger ain't who you are. That's the pain with no place to go, brother. You didn't go bad. You just went soft on your damn discipline. You went soft on your damn standards. That's what the Standards 12 is. This is how a real man gets itself back.
