People who seem emotionally unavailable often start out eager, replying fast and making plans, then disappear. Real emotional availability shows up in consistency over weeks and months, not just early interest.
Everyone says they want someone emotionally available. But what does that actually mean? Because here's the problem. Unavailable people don't walk around with signs that say, I'm unavailable. They don't introduce themselves as I'm John and I'll disappear in three months. They seem available at first. They show interest. They text back. They make plans. And then slowly, gradually, they're not. So let me give you the real signs of emotional availability. Not what they say in the first two weeks, what they do over time. Sign number one. They're consistent, not just interested.
