SHAMSUDIN HAKIMI help you break the Love Pattern that keeps choosing the wrong person.

Are you a serial 'Fixer'? This checklist is about to change every relationship you enter. 🚩👀

6 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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A checklist for people who habitually try to fix their partners. Your person should already be whole, not need saving, choose you voluntarily, reciprocate care equally, and let you be human. Avoid people who are broken or have addictions, or you'll repeat the same unhealthy pattern.

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Bottom line for fixers, you need someone who. One is already whole, not a project. Two doesn't need you to save them. They choose you and they don't need you. Number three reciprocates care partnership, not rescue. Number four, let you be human, not just a fixer. If someone checks all four, then that's your match. And here's who fixers should avoid. Worst match. Is anyone broken? Now, it's already a given that this is a toxic match. And this is what they look like. They have addictions.