Relationship coach Champ explores why people keep dating the same type of person in different bodies. He spent 25 years coaching others before recognizing his own pattern: staying with someone who couldn't love him back because he believed his value came from being needed and that his love could fix her.
But before we get into that, let me ask you have you ever felt like you're dating the same person in different bodies? If so, this episode is for you. I'm Champ. Sadine. Hakeem. And for 25 years, I've been coaching people through relationship patterns, helping them to find that match and find that true love. But before I coached anyone else, I had to first coach myself, because I was stuck in a loop. Also, I was what you would call a fixer. See, I dated someone for several years who couldn't love me back. And I stayed. Not because I was weak, but because I believe my value was in being needed by that person. She was broken, and I thought that I could fix her. I thought if I just loved her hard enough that she'd heal. And when she was healed, she finally loved the way I loved her. She ended up leaving.
