SHAMSUDIN HAKIMI help you break the Love Pattern that keeps choosing the wrong person.

Is your heart still leased to your ex?

8 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief segment, the presenter (Speaker A) outlines a client case study of Sharon, highlighting that her emotional capacity remains tied to a former partner, leaving no room for new love. Sharon receives an "alignment score" of 5/10, indicating moderate compatibility with her own values and self‑awareness, yet her relationship pillar is weak, causing her sense of self to be overly dependent on others and resulting in a loss of passion and joy. The speaker then signals a transition to Sharon’s own words from a therapy session, setting up a deeper, narrative‑driven exploration of her experience.

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Not because she doesn't want love, but because her heart is still leased to her ex. She's emotionally occupied. There's no vacancy. Her alignment score is 5 out of 10. She has strong self awareness, strong values. But her relationship pillar is suffering. Her sense of self is tied to others and she's lost her passion and joy. That's Sharon on paper. But the real story. The real story is in her words. So let me take you through her session. When I asked Sharon to tell me what was going on, here's what she said.