Shamsudin Hakim presents a checklist to identify how childhood wounds shape your love life. If you check six or more items, surface fixes like dating tips won't work. You need to heal the deeper pattern first.
If you checked 3 or more, there may be an invisible prison running your love life. Not a character flaw, not a lack of confidence, a pattern that started before you were old enough to understand it. If you checked 6 or more, the pattern is deeply embedded and it's not going away with dating tips, workout plans, or just be more confident. You need to go back before you can go forward. If you checked 8 or more, then brother, you're carrying something you were never supposed to carry along.
