Being chosen means your partner wants you; being needed means they depend on you to feel whole. Healthy love requires independence and mutual building, not a savior complex. The difference is the gap between a partner with their own career and goals who picks you, versus someone who needs you to complete them.
No. She has her own life. She's not codependent. She's not waiting for him to complete her. She has her career, her goals, her own identity. That's match number two. She doesn't need him to over function. Here's why this matters. The performer is attracted to people who need their performance. People say, you're my hero. I don't know what I'd do without you. But Cedric's fiance, She'd be fine without him. She chooses him. That's different. She doesn't need him to save her. She wants him to build with her.
