Shamsudin Hakim tells the story of Marcus, who swore never to let anyone hurt him and ended up avoiding every meaningful relationship. If you recognize this pattern in yourself, take the free INTACT assessment at theintactlife.com to identify your attachment style.
They're made of a boy's promise to himself. Nobody will ever get close enough to hurt me again. And he's kept that promise at the cost of every relationship he's ever wanted. Have you just heard Marcus's story and something inside you went quiet? If you recognize the avoidance, the surface fixation, the passivity, the anger when someone gets too close, take the free INTACT assessment at theintactlife.com. It shows you which love pattern is running and which pillar is taking the hit.
