Shamsudin Hakim ends two years of patience with his spouse, imposing a 90-day no-contact rule. He demands genuine change: therapy and accountability, not money or visits. If nothing shifts, he files for divorce, calling it self-love, not hatred.
I spent 2 years hoping you will fight for this marriage. I've given you space, I've given you time, and I've been giving you grace. Starting today, I'm going no contact for 90 days. During those 90 days, if you want to fight for us, here's what that looks like. Therapy, accountability, change behavior. Not money, not driving by my house, not monitoring. If at the end of 90 days I haven't seen that fight, I'm filing for divorce. Not because I hate you, because I love myself. And I'm done standing in the doorway.
