SHAMSUDIN HAKIMI help you break the Love Pattern that keeps choosing the wrong person.

The secret to real connection? It's Intentional Dating. 🤯

6 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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In this segment, the speaker outlines the concept of intentional dating, emphasizing that successful connections arise when partners are purposeful about what they want and avoid playing games. Intentional daters clearly communicate their needs, prioritize partnership over perfection, and value both effort and rest. They align on shared values, goals, and pace, and actively provide feedback—such as calling out over‑functioning—to ensure each person’s needs are met. This intentional approach creates a solid, mutually supportive relationship rather than a drift‑based one.

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Match number three is the intentional data. This is a solid match. Now, what you need to look for is that they're purposeful about what they want. They're not playing games or seeing what happens. They communicate their needs clearly. They're looking for partnership and not perfection. They value effort, but also value your rest. Why it Works the intentional data isn't just drifting. They're building. Just like you. They want a partner who's aligned on values, goals, and their pace. And because they're intentional, they'll tell you you when you're over function, they'll say, hey, I didn't ask you to do all that. What do you need? That's the interruption the performer needs.