The speaker argues that expecting a partner to complete you sets up dependency and heartbreak. Instead, find someone who compliments an already whole life. He offers five questions to check if you're ready to date.
This is the most important one. Are you looking for someone to complete you? To fill the gaps? To make you feel whole? Or are you looking for someone to compliment you? To add to an already full life? To build with you, not for you. Completion is a trap because if they complete you, what happens when they leave? You're incomplete again. Compliment is sustainable because you're already whole. They just make life better. If you answer yes to all five, you're ready. Go find your person.
