Shamsudin Hakim tells Tanya that her divorce doesn't define her and isn't a failure. He describes her two-year journey of working, traveling, and rebuilding her life as an act of courage, refusing to settle for crumbs when a feast awaits.
So I gave her what I call a prophetic word, not prophecy in the church sense, but truly spoken with spiritual authority. And here's what I said. Tanya, you are not your parents. Their divorce is not your destiny. And filing for divorce doesn't mean you failed. It means you had the courage to stop settling for crumbs when God has a feast waiting for you. You left the marriage 2 years ago because you were losing yourself. And for 2 years, you've been finding yourself working, going to church, spending time with family, hanging out with friends, going on trips, thriving and independent.
