Dr. Shiny Unsal explains why women withdraw intimacy: feeling unseen, misunderstood, or unsafe. She offers three fixes: give consistent attention, listen without trying to solve things, and be trustworthy and reassuring.
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3 reasons why she isn't intimate and more. Combines the power of the mind with the wisdom of your heart, and it just helps you to unlock your potential. Hey everyone, welcome to my Shiny Minds Show. My name is Shiny Unsal. I am the proud creator of Neuroshine technology, the Shiny Minds Show, and your Neuroshine coach. Let's talk about relationships and let's talk about why she is not that intimate with you anymore. Guys and girls, listen to me. There is this topic around being feminine and masculine in your energy, and we need to understand it a bit deeper so that we can dive into our relationships more intelligently. And I'm going to talk about feminine energy qualities and also the qualities of masculine energy so that once we go through them, we understand what's going on and how we can approach our relationships. And we can understand if you're doing something wrong and we can fix it accordingly. All right. So here we go. Picture this with me. You have the qualities. There's a list of qualities written right here. For the feminine energy. And right here you have a list of qualities for the masculine energy. And it doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, right? It doesn't matter if you're a woman or a man. You might be a good looking man and still have a lot of feminine energy or vice versa. You might be a gorgeous woman and you can still be more in your masculine energy. That's why it's important for you to Take a look at the qualities and measure where you are. It's really important because it affects your relationship. All right. All right. So feminine, feminine energy is the energy that tries to fill up because there is this emptiness in the feminine energy. On the contrary, masculine energy tries to empty that cup. Feminine energy wants love. Masculine energy, you guessed it right, wants freedom. Feminine energy hangs on to things. Masculine energy just lets go. Feminine energy remembers things. Masculine forgets. Feminine energy wants to be understood, and masculine energy wants to be appreciated. Feminine energy wants to be owned. Guess what? Masculine energy wants freedom. Feminine energy is stimulated by praise, beauty, and masculine energy is stimulated by a good challenge. So here are some things to consider and look at where you are with your energy. And now let's talk about 3 reasons why she isn't intimate with you anymore. First reason why she isn't intimate with you is because she might be feeling unseen. Like we covered in the qualities of the feminine energy, feminine energy wants to be loved, wants to be understood, and wants to be seen. And if she doesn't feel seen, heard, and understood, she is not going to give it to you. She's not going to be intimate with you. She is going to pull away and she's going to feel like, you know, nobody cares about me. I'm not important in this relationship. I'm not valued. I'm not worthy. So they don't feel good enough. Feminine energy really needs that attention. What is the solution? Give her attention. See her, hear her all the time. Not only one time and that's enough. Feminine, you, you ladies, you hear me, you agree with me, right? When do we want the attention? All the time, right? So give the attention, be present, and show up for this feminine energy. That's the solution. Second reason why she is an intimate with you, because she's feeling not understood. Remember, feminine energy is all about wanting to be understood, wanting to be owned, wanting to be loved. And if she feels not understood, which means she's gonna feel not enough, she's gonna feel unworthy, and that's gonna affect her, and she's not gonna show up in that relationship. What can you do as a solution? Listen to her. Again, in order for you to understand her, first you need to Listen to her. When you listen to her, you will also realize that you can stop trying to fix her problems because that's not what she wants. She just wants you to listen to her, not to fix her problems. She's capable of fixing problems. Trust me, she knows how to do it exactly. But that's not what she wants. She doesn't want you to fix her problems. She wants you to listen to her. That's very feminine, right ladies? You listen to me, you agree? Number 3, the third reason why she isn't intimate with you anymore is because she feels unsafe. You see, all of these 3 U's, unseen, not understood, unsafe, all the U's, they are problems, okay? If a lady feels unsafe, oh my, She doesn't trust you and she's gonna try to control you. And that's not nice. That's not good. I don't see anything good about that. So what is your solution? Be trustworthy all the time because she's gonna need reassurance. She's gonna want to hear it. You're just gonna tell her, baby, I love you. And then 2 minutes later, she's gonna want to hear it again. Because she wants to trust you. She wants to know that you are here and you are present and you're not going anywhere. Remember, masculine energy leaves. Masculine energy wants freedom, and the feminine energy knows that. And that's why she wants to be owned and she wants to be understood and she wants to be safe because she knows that The masculine energy can go anytime. So I hope this video helped you, and I hope you're going to understand what you might be doing wrong right now. If you liked it, please like it and share it with your friends and maybe with your partner so that you can improve and deepen your relationships together and create that intimacy, ignite that fire again in your relationship, because relationships are a big part of your happiness. And when you are happy, you make other people happy, and we create a happier world together. Subscribe to my channel because you're gonna hear more about this content, and you're going to start shining your minds just like we want in the world. 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