Dr. Shiny Unsal explains three reasons to adopt a coaching mindset: you learn to coach yourself through problems and anxiety, you deepen relationships through a solution-focused approach, and you master reading people and behavior. She uses the PERMA model from positive psychology as a framework for measuring life quality.
My name is Shiny Unsal. I am the proud creator of Neuroshine technology, also the proud creator of This Shiny Mind Show, and your proud Neuroshine coach.
Are you ready to shine? Come on, it's the shiny one.
You got this. If you wanna go, and today, you know what we're gonna talk about? We're gonna talk about why you need to have a coaching mindset, and I will give you 3 benefits. I mean, there are more benefits. I will share only 3 of them with you. So before I talk about those 3 benefits of having a coaching mindset, I want you to take a look at this. This is the PERMA model from positive psychology. These are the 5 ingredients of your psychology and what makes you really happy. P stands for positive emotions. E stands for engagement. R is your relationships. M is the meaning that you have in your life. And A is your achievements. Those are the 5 things that really make you happy and fulfilled. And that's how you can score the quality of your life. So I'm gonna talk about these 3 benefits of having a coaching mindset and how it relates to your overall happiness. Ready? Let's go. Number 1, you will know and learn and master how to coach yourself. Coaching mindset is not only a concept, a phenomenon, it's something like, woo-hoo, it's a skill. Okay. Coaching, if you ask me, because I am an ICF certified coach myself and I also certify coaches because my training is approved from ICF, International Coaching Federation. If you ask me what is coaching, coaching is the way you formulate your communication to help people maximize their potential. That's it. It's not you trying to fix their problems. It's not you giving them advice. It's not you interrupting them and telling them what to do. None of those. It is you helping them, being there for them so that they can find their own solutions and maximize their own potential. So for that reason, having a coaching mindset in your life overall, not only with your clients, but also with your friends, family, colleagues, teams, networking, it's amazing. I wish everybody had a coaching mindset. When you learn what a coaching mindset is, when you learn how to maximize human potential, it's gonna get addictive. And once you apply it to yourself, when you start coaching yourself, oh my gosh, it's delicious. You're gonna wanna do it every single day, actually every single moment, because it's amazing, it's phenomenal. You're gonna be unstoppable. Problems, not a problem. Anxiety, not a problem. Emotions, you got this. You will absolutely be unstoppable and you will love it. And that's the first benefit of having a coaching mindset. Number 2 is you'll improve your relationships. So remember what I shared before from positive psychology. Martin Seligman made that study and came up with that terminology, PERMA model. And PERMA model starts with positive emotions and engagement and relationships, right? So when you look at your relationships in life, no matter what is the nature of that relationship, you need to have fulfillment in that relationship. And when you have that coaching mindset, oof, all of a sudden your relationships are going to go deeper, more meaningful, more positive, more supportive. Everybody will see the difference in you. They will feel appreciated. They will feel understood because you will be a different person. And guess what? People like people like themselves and they want to work with them. So you're going to build better business relationships. You're gonna get more clients. Everybody's gonna love you and you're gonna know how to love them too. Isn't that amazing? And benefit number 3 is you will know how to win in every single case, in every single situation, no matter what. Do you know why? You will master human psychology. You will master the mind, master communication, language, emotions, behaviors, mindset, everything. And that's what makes us human. And when you know that, when you master being a human, what ends up happening is you get everybody, right? You understand that when somebody looks this way to you or does that to you or uses a different tonality, or there is like this energy shift, you start catching them and you start feeling and hearing and understanding what is not verbally said to you. You get smarter. That's why it helps you to win every single time. Like I said, it's so beneficial. So those are the 3 reasons. I mean, only 3 reasons I am sharing in this video with you that you need a coaching mindset. So I hope this video helps you. Please like it and share it with your friends. So that they also understand the importance of having a coaching mindset. And subscribe to my channel so that you get to learn more about coaching, NLP, emotional intelligence, positive psychology, and even more, so that together, all of us, we can create a better world with more love in our shiny minds.
And she definitely knows your name. It's today, say yes! She'll give you her love. My love! And give you her time. 'Cause she's the shiny one, shiny one, shiny one. I'm the shiny one! You know she's lots of fun, lots of fun, lots of fun. We're making fun of you! 'Cause she's the shiny one, shiny one, shiny one. Change with fun. Lots of fun. Lots of fun. Lots of fun. Change with fun. You got this.
