Dr Shiny Unsal breaks charisma into two parts from Princeton research: warmth and competence. Too much of either backfires. Your amygdala scans for threat six times a second, so balance matters. Show your hands, hold eye contact, smile, and develop real skills to activate charisma when you need it.
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Today you are going to shine your mind and those cute little neurons of yours by talking about charisma and how you can enhance your charisma and feel charismatic, baby! Enhance your charisma in only 6 minutes. And I have 2 incredibly amazing tips to enhance your charisma quickly. If you're ready, let's go. Let's talk about charisma and define what charisma is first. According to a study by the Princeton University, charisma can be broken into 2 components: Warmth and competence. So competence is about your competencies, your abilities, and your skills, right? And right here we have warmth, how warm you are, how friendly you are, and how friendly you are perceived by others. And for you to enhance your charisma, what you wanna do is to combine your warmth and competence somewhere in the middle. So think of it as a spectrum, right? So this is zero warmth, like you are cold as ice. People do not want to approach you, right? So that can be zero warmth. And if you are way too warm, like more than 90%, you are way too much. You talk too much, you share too much, you call, text, you just, you are just a lot of information for anybody to, to handle. You know what I'm saying? So that can be too much and you don't want to go there. And about competence here. So if you don't have any competencies, if you don't have any credibility, your skills, education, your talent, your authority, that is like zero, right? You know nothing, you do nothing, and you represent nothing. So that is an extreme case of zero. When you take this zero all the way up to more than 50%, now you have credibility, authority, and you know what you're talking about. You have competencies, baby. When you have too much power, then you intimidate people and people are scared to be around you. Why? Because you are in the danger zone. What do I mean by danger zone? So I need my brain to explain that. Where's my brain? My brain. Yes, my brain shows up. And when I have my brain, I do feel so competent. Don't you feel the same, my shiny minds? Okay, so too much warmth here. Let's go to the competency. So this part of your brain, again, we're going to talk about amygdala. If you are watching my videos, you are pretty amazingly well educated about amygdala, right? So amygdala scans the environment for any potential dangers 6 times a second. Imagine 6 times a second. Like, that was a second. Like, this is a second. Like, you already scanned your environment 6 times for any potential danger. So imagine you being a little bit too much powerful, a little bit too much authority. Like, just, you keep telling people what to do. You just scare them away. And that's what happens. Your amygdala is just like so scared, so they want to run away from you. And that's why you don't want to do that. What do you want to do then? How do you enhance your charisma? Well, my shiny mind, you have a brilliant, enlightened mind, so you'll understand that it needs a balance. A little bit of warmth, a little bit of competence, and you mix them in the middle, and you combine the power of your mind with the wisdom of your heart right there in the middle, and you enhance your charisma. And here are some specific tools to become warmer. You can talk friendlier. When you show your hands, it feels much safer for the people around you because it is something unconscious, right? So you don't drive people nuts by not showing your hands. When you just hide your hands, it is something from our nervous system programming. It just scares people away. Just show your hands, create eye contact, and have your friendly mimics and smile, and have your tonality, and maybe you want to tilt your head a little bit, so that adds up a little bit of warmth. On the other hand, if you need more competence, invest in your skills. Learn how to communicate, learn how to write, how to talk, how to walk, You got the idea. So when you combine both of these things, my friend, you enhance your charisma. So I hope you like this very, very quick formula, and I am curious, how do you enhance your charisma? What do you do for that? Leave a comment below and let me know what you think. And of course, you want to put a like, you want to subscribe to my channel, you want to share this video with everybody around you. Because you love charisma, don't you? And of course you love shiny minds, so that together you and I, we can create a much better world with a lot of love and shiny minds.
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