Someone reflects on coaching sessions that transformed them through a group with opposite personalities who listened to each other without jealousy. The yin-yang dynamic created mutual awareness and empathy, making the experience both healthy and enjoyable.
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Everyone I've had a session with, I've been like changed, really truly. So there's a couple I haven't had a session with, but everyone that I have had a session with, I really— I'm so grateful. This was such a good group match. I've said that a million times, but really, I really believe it. I think we were such a good yin and yang because I think we're both at the extremes of what the opposite— like, I don't think she wanted what I had because she doesn't have it, because what I'm dealing with is an extreme version of it. And I also don't want— like, we didn't— I don't think we were like jealous of each other at all. Like, oh, you should be more grateful for what you have. What we should be more grateful for what you— it wasn't like that at all. It was like we both were listening to each other and trying to understand where the other person was coming from. A lot of active listening. And I think it was really healthy to be in two very different places and really put yourself in that position and be able to, and be able to offer the awareness. It was really cool. It was really fun. Yeah.