Dr Shiny UnsalConsciousness Architect, ICF MCC, Distinguished Coach Educator, NLP Trainer, Academy Of Neuro-Shine Technology™ · Awaken to your power within. Align with your truth.

🔩✨ “It’s never about the nail…”

19 Sept 2025 · 1 min

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When someone projects a problem or criticism onto you, the instinct is to grab it and focus on fixing it. Instead, step back, get curious, and create emotional space. The nail loses its grip and falls away on its own.

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It's never about the nail, but it's such— it's so easy to get caught up in the nail. And every time I do, doesn't seem to work out very well. So especially when someone tries to like send their nail at you and tack it on you, you know, how to not receive— like receive the nail because it's there, but to realize like that's not the thing I need to respond to. But let's see if we can step back and develop that curiosity and space. And, um, because then that nail will probably drop away on its own, or maybe it won't, but at least it won't be the focus. Yeah, you're talking about