Dr Shiny UnsalConsciousness Architect, ICF MCC, Distinguished Coach Educator, NLP Trainer, Academy Of Neuro-Shine Technology™ · Awaken to your power within. Align with your truth.

“It’s not always about pointing it out — it’s about guiding them there.” 🎯

4 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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A coach learns to stop immediately pointing out what they see in clients and instead guide them to discover it themselves. The shift from direct observation to gentle questioning makes insights stick better and builds real self-awareness.

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I guess sometimes I have the tendency wanting to point out things right away, certain awareness I see in a, you know, a certain pattern, whatever. I think what I'm learning from you is just to kind of go around, you know, in a subtle way to kind of guide the client to come up with their own awareness. So I think that's something I'm going to work on. More because I tend to be more direct and maybe I need to take the opposite, just kind of go around and kind of lead them to it. So that's what I'm taking away. So thank you for that.