Dr Shiny Unsal, an ICF-certified coach, argues that responsibility means owning your language, behaviors, and outcomes. Three signs you're avoiding it: getting corrective feedback often, staying stuck in areas you want to change, and missing the flow state that comes with accountability.
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Hello everyone, my name is Shiny Unsal. I am the proud creator of Neuroshine Technology, an ICF certified coach, ICF certified coach trainer, and a licensed trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming. Are you ready to shine?
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Today we're talking about responsibility and 3 signs that are going to show you that you really don't take responsibility. As well as you should. You know, it's kind of like hard to understand where responsibility begins and where it ends. As part of your mindset tools, responsibility is going to remind you that this is your life and you need to take accountability. You need to take ownership of your life. It's nobody's business. It's your life, your language, your behaviors, and you are responsible for them. It's nobody else's business to be responsible for that. And if you are not responsible, guess what happens? You don't improve, you don't take action, and you don't change anything. And at the end, you're not happy. So it all comes down to happiness and living your best life as your best version. For that reason, I want to share my experience, my observation, after doing trainings for 9.5 years and share 3 signs that you may not be taking your full responsibility. Number 1: People tell you. People will tell you and give you feedback immediately because, you know, if your actions, language, and behaviors, if they bother them or Oh, you will hear from them. They will gladly tell you how they feel, why it is not okay for them to accept that kind of behaviors from you. And it'll remind you, hmm, maybe I am not taking as much responsibility as I should. And I am hoping it will so that you can improve it. Number 2, speaking of you don't improve. If there is a certain area of your life that you feel not happy about, you want to change, but you don't change. You want to improve, but you cannot improve. Think about that area of your life. Why do you think you don't improve? Because you don't take responsibility. Let's say your financial life. If you take full responsibility, you're going to sit down and talk to yourself and coach yourself and tell you to do different things. But if you're not doing them, if you're not taking action, guess what's not going to happen? Improvement is not gonna happen and you won't improve that area. And that's how you understand that it is a sign. If you're not improving, you're not taking enough responsibility. Number 3 is you don't experience flow. The flow mindset and the flow concept has been researched for over years, especially by the co-founder of positive psychology. And flow mindset is something that you are going to be able to experience when you have enough responsibility, when you have taken enough action, and then you are 100% responsible and you have ownership of your life so that you experience things coming to you, coming with the flow, just coming and going with ease. It's just easy for you to attract them to you because you are in that flow. It is what you do. If you are not experiencing that kind of flow, if you are struggling, if you are stuck, if you're not improving, if you are not changing, and if you're hearing from people, those are the signs that you're not taking responsibility. So there you have it, 3 signs. I hope you liked this video. If you did, please put a like on it and share it with your friends. And of course, subscribe to my channel. Why wouldn't you? It's an awesome channel. Listen, I created Shiny Minds Show with a lot of love because I do want to create a better world with more love, and shiny minds, obviously. And I do want you to become one of them. And I do want you to become a part of this community by subscribing to my channel and sharing it with your own community. So that, you know what we're going to do? We're going to create a better world with more love and shiny minds.
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