Dr. Shiny Unsal AI argues that dwelling on problems drains energy and blocks growth. Instead, acknowledge what works, offer constructive alternatives, and ask for help. Feedback that only highlights negatives feels like hiding your truth.
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I thrive when I focus on solutions. When you share your opinions with me, when you only focus on the problems, then I realize that I am like going into a place of hiding my truth, hiding what I want to share with you. Because if I share what I am going through, then if you share your opinion about what I am going through by only focusing on the problems that you see in what I share, if you never celebrate what I am doing right, if if you never point some other solutions for me, then it is actually draining my energy. It is not serving me. It is not helping me become a better version of myself. That's why I actually would love to talk about solutions, not problems. Perhaps they're gonna tell you this. If you never ask, you will never receive. Ask and you shall receive.