Feng Shui for Love & Intimacy with Siobhan Wilcox Session 4 Measuring Your Home

Foreign. Hi, and welcome back again. This is Siobhan Wilcox. Here we are together discussing feng shui for love and intimacy. And I really want to help you understand in this module how you can work with the energy matrix of your home. So this is the energy matrix of your home, or traditionally it can also be called a bagua. Why it's called a bagua is each of these sections are called GWAs. There's nine gauze in total. We have each one representing a different energy that you can harness and turn on in your home to support your desires. Now, some people will say, oh, well, I've done feng shui before and this is a different layout. This is based on classical feng shui. If you've done feng shui before and it's based on a different layout of gwas or bagua or matrix than this one, it's because you've studied black hat or Westernized feng shui. And this, I personally have done both. I've studied black hash feng shui and I've studied classical feng shui. And I personally found the classical feng shui, when created alongside intentional feng shui, is so much more powerful. So this is what I'm teaching you today. So you can see that there are areas obviously linked to love. It's called love and marriage. Or this one here, which is about new beginnings, creativity, inner child. Here is about unity and self love and self acceptance and health, which is actually also really important for romance and love. And over here is family and community and soul groups. And this is really important if you're in a marriage or a family unit, to enhance this area. So I'm going to be teaching you how to enhance all of these areas with intentional feng shui. Inside of this training, I'll also be teaching you, based on classical feng shui, the ideal remedies to put in for these areas. And also where this year there is ways of enhancing romance at a higher level. So here we have Love Always, Love Always, Love Always and Love Always. But this year, 2024, and if you're watching this in another year, I will have made a video for that year is where we can enhance what's called Peach Blossom. And I will have a whole module on how to explain Peach Blossom to you. But Peach Blossom is activated for romance. If you're single or in a solid relationship, but not if you want to rebuild a relationship that has had challenges or issues, then you do not enhance Peach Blossom because it can actually go into the opposite direction. Instead of increasing romance and intimacy, if your relationship Is already vulnerable. It can actually affect the relationship to pull in affairs, either on the man side or the woman side, depending on the astrology for that year. So this is really important, how to figure out your directions so you know exactly where to place that gwa, that matrix down and figure out where are the areas in your home. You all have a compass app on your phone. You remove all metals, you go outside, you stand with your back to the front door. You set up the compass app on your phone, and you see which way the energy is flowing into your home. They're not usually as exact as I would need to do classical feng shui, which is why I use satellites and mapping software. But it is perfectly acceptable to discover how the energy enters your home. And then you mark this on your energy matrix. So in this case, the energy is flowing in from the north and it's coming in. So then the north is where the front door is, and the back of the house is where potentially the south is in this, depending on how your house is laid out. So you mark where that entrance energy comes in. Then, if you want to, this is what I recommend to most people. This is a feng shui consultation I was doing for a client where I use software to actually create a floor plan of their property. And then I laid out the. The bagua or the matrix on top of that. So it's very helpful for you just to see this. Now, this is north door coming in. This whole area, which was their bathroom and their foyer and part of their sitting room was all part of this north section. Then this center of their home, they had this very large piece of closet and a storage section. And then they had their two bedrooms, which you can see were divided between three different energy spaces. One bedroom was all in this northeast. Wisdom and intuition, knowledge. Then the master bedroom was divided between these two energies. Then you can see that their main area here was partly for fame and reputation, was partly in the bathroom and partly in the kitchen. And the kitchen stretched out here into the love and marriage section and their dining room. This was an open area that they had in their home. So you can just see and get an idea of how this would lay down on your property. Now, if you say have missing areas in your home, maybe this area here was a courtyard, and you had an exit here and an exit here to this courtyard. People say, well, how do I deal with that? Because it means the southeast, prosperity and money is actually all outdoors on my property. Then you put a mirror here facing the wall. A mirror here facing the wall. And something here in this corner that represents prosperity. Maybe it's a bamboo growing in a pot, maybe it's a statue that represents prosperity. Or maybe it's a fountain flowing towards your house in this corner. And this will help to activate this area. Then for prosperity and money, I have included a bonus piece in this to show you how to do intentional feng shui for your prosperity and money. Not because it's directly linked to family, to love and intimacy, but be honest, if you are not flowing in prosperity, it really influences your quality of your relationships and creates strain. So I have included how to remedy the southeast area of your home as well. So how do we measure it? You know, I have this laser technology that I use when I come to people's homes that I measure their homes with. So we get a accurate down to very, very millimeters. However, that's expensive piece of technology and you don't need that when you're not a professional. So your best bet is to use, as we used to do probably in kindergarten and first grade, to learn how to measure things. Right. We would use our steps so we can step across. Now, if you have a lot of walls in your home and you can't walk from one side of the home to the other, you can do this outside, perhaps, unless you're in an apartment below the, above the, the first floor. But most of us can walk the side of the building outside to get the full length of the building and the full width of the building. And then once you get that number, you divide it by three. For example, if you did 18 steps for the length of your house, you divide it by three, so that's six feet or six steps. If it was 12 for the width, you divide it by three, which would be four feet, four steps. So then what I do and I say is just get a little bit of tape and then on the inside of the house you can go six steps, put a little tape down, four steps, put a little bit of tape down. That's the energy matrix of one of the sections of your house. You can write on a little piece of paper or a post it pad what area that is. Say it's the southeast or the southwest or the north. So you know exactly when you come to put remedies and you know exactly the area you're working with. So this is the completion of this section because this takes time to do. But you can print out the matrix and then you can start measuring your home, figuring out exactly the areas in your home that are associated with love and marriage. And intimacy and family and health and unity and prosperity. And then when you go on to the next section, it'll make more sense to you when we're talking about the elements, because the next section I'm going to talk about how the elements interact with each other. And so the creative, the destruction, the creative process these elements have, the destructive process these elements have. And how we can anchor in the elements in an environment to help them co create with us for our desires and what it is we really, really want to achieve. See you on the other side.