Feng Shui for Love & Intimacy with Siobhan Wilcox Session 6

Hi and welcome back again. This is Siobhan Wilcox. I hope you're enjoying this series so far. I'm really, really excited and passionate to share this work with you. It is some of my favorite things to work on with clients is opening up their home to create the future they are looking for for themselves. Said this before, but feng shui is not about focusing on your past. It's about dreaming big. And then it's about harnessing your home and property to be your success partner inside of your vision and desires and dreams. But what is most important to you? I want to get some clarity. You know, we say, well, I want more romance or I want more love or I want more money or I really want to call him my beloved. Well, let's go deeper together. I'd like you to get your journal out and start to consider some of these words I'm putting in front of you to see what resonates with you. What is it that you find most important to have in your life as a consistent way of being, as a consistent support system, as a consistent life that you perceive you are able to receive? And that's something we're going to look at next after this exercise is what are you willing to to receive? What are you willing to allow? So harmony, peace, health, love, success, joy, abundance, recognition, romance, family, wisdom, creativity, legacy, support, security, partnership. So what inside of these words? Just sit for a moment, you can pause the video now if you like, and just look at these words on the screen and see what resonates. What I like to do is allow myself to see the energy of how I interact with each word. So maybe I would look at love and see, okay, how do I feel in alignment with love at this moment in time? And breathe into that space and see if there feels like there's an expansion in your body or your energy field, your thoughts, and then take another word, write it down. Love feels contracted, expansive, heavy light, and so on and so forth. This is where you're going to notice where you are holding energy that isn't serving you in the receiving of what it is you desire. To take a moment to do that now. So after doing that exercise, I hope you have a deeper understanding of what it is you're actually allowing. Where were your, where were the moments of expansion in the words? Where was the contraction in the words? I'm going to bring you on a journey now because I want you to really recognize for you to allow and receive what it is you deserve and desire sometimes requires not your just your environment to Shift. Often we try and change our environment, then we try and change the people around us. And sometimes the issue is really just in our own space. A lot of the times that is coming from our past lives. Sometimes it's coming from this lifetime where we've had really painful experiences that shut us down. A marriage that dissolved, a parent that wasn't in alignment with giving a self confidence, a peer group that at one time made us feel insignificant or unloved, and so on and so forth. And these situations influence the amount of love we let in, the amount of joy we allow ourselves, the amount of goodness. I love what the Dalai Lama says. It's my favorite quote from him. And he says we need to be wisely selfish because we're raised primarily to believe not to be selfish. It's a bad thing. But his definition of wisely selfish is to see that we are very valuable and that we can influence others around us to feel better about themselves. If we feel better about ourselves and if we give ourselves time and space for nurturing self love. Taking workshops that expand our consciousness, such as this one that you're taking right now, which is amazing for supporting you and your environment. The fact that you said yes to this workshop means that you are looking to evolve, looking to change, looking to release, looking to say yes to an even more expanded version of yourself. You are being wisely selfish. You are taking time to focus on what it is you really are desiring. So in this very moment in time, I'm going to get you to close your eyes, if that's an appropriate thing for you to do. Right now you're in an environment that you can actually do that in. I'm going to get you to recognize that your breath is entering the body through the nose of the mouth. I'm going to get you to really feel into the chair beneath you, supporting you right now. And notice where in the body is touching the chair. All the points of contact, from the back of the legs to the bottom to the back, depending on the size of the chair, the texture of the chair beneath you. Is it soft? Is it hard? Then I want you to become aware right now of your feet on the floor grounding you, going to feel into the earth beneath you, supporting you. I want you to really feel that connection through the soles of your feet with the earth. What does she have to say to you at this very moment in time? I want you to now become aware of your body in time and space. Crown of the head, forehead, back of the head, face. Relaxing the jaw Melting away all the tension into the back of the neck, the throat, the shoulders, melting, softening, releasing and letting go. All the way down into the full body, front of the body, back of the body, releasing, melting and letting go all the way down into the hips, the thighs, the knees, the lower legs, all the way down to the soles of the feet, the arms, the elbows, the lower arms, the hands, the palms, the fingers. Melting, softening and letting go. And I want you to take one of those words now, in this very moment in time that really matters to you. Maybe it's love or joy, or partnership or harmony or romance, marriage, success, abundance. Just take one of those words, a word that you really want to amplify in your life. And in front of you now, in your mind's eye and your imagination, I want you to sense or become aware of that there's a huge, big golden screen in front of you, like a huge television screen. And that word is in the center of the screen. And everything that has impacted that word for you in your life starts to show up, positive and negative. But it's like you're watching a television screen. You're not attached to what you're watching, you're just observing and witnessing. Feel those positive moments in your life where that energy that you're looking to desire and attract and expand in your life was in your life. And then I want you to see all of the moments in your life where this word was lessened or dulled down it. And notice what would happen now if you were able just to bring beautiful golden light of God, source energy into all of that dark space. And just imagine it all turning bright, light, white, dissolving all of those energies that no longer serve you, that are actually not valid. That because they're in the past. And you can't change what has already happened, you can only change how you allow it to influence you in this moment in time. Imagine now that all of these moments that no longer serve you are being removed and released from you for your best and highest good. For your best and highest good. For your best and highest good. All this outdated, no longer valid experiences allow them to be washed away by this beautiful golden light of God, source energy. And now, in this very moment in time, as that old outdated energy is being released from your space, mind, body, spirit. Imagine now all of the goodness, all of those moments where this concept, this word, this energy, disbelief, this way of being felt good in your life has now been amplified. It's coming into its purest form of unconditionality. Whether it is love or harmony or joy or success or abundance, it's amplifying to the highest frequency. And see that frequency of whatever it is you're desiring, Opening up opportunity in front of you. Allowing yourself to fully embrace the concept that you are valuable and you are beautiful and you can accept and allow all that is available to you to be with you. All this goodness, all this joy you are worthy to receive all of this. And see how this new concept wants to interact with you. Does it want to turn into a beautiful color, a vibrational color, frequency that lights up your body, your energy field, holding it as a given now? Does it want to go out in the path ahead of you, attracting just those kind of opportunities, those kind of interactions into your space for your best and highest good. Be aware now that you are worthy, that you deserve everything that is good for you, for your best and highest good. And say thank you now to this new energy that wants to play with you, be with you, interact with you, co create with you. Ask it if there's anything more you need to understand or know to anchor this energy with you. Notice how your body is feeling now, this very moment in time. See the TV screen melting away. Know that you can come back into the space whenever you want. Work with different words, different concepts. Releasing what no longer serves from the past, from your belief system, from your thoughts, from experiences. Amplifying what serves you, Opening up pathways for opportunity and attraction. Energy. Allowing yourself to receive whatever it is that is for your best and highest good. Wriggle your fingers now. Wriggle your toes. Be aware of the chair beneath you supporting you. Be aware of Mother Earth beneath your feet supporting you. Come back fully into the awareness of your body and time and space. Take a deep breath in. Take a moment now, when you're ready to be aware of the sounds in your environment, the sounds outside of your environment. Allow yourself now to release any chakra cording or emotional cording between you and any other human being and any other being that no longer serves you for your best and highest good. Good. Notice how it feels to just be self contained. Allow your energy field to be washed with golden light, like you're being showered in a golden light of God Source energy. Cleansing and purifying any debris or residue that no longer serves you, releasing it all back into God space. God Source space. Universal healing energy, Quantum energy, whatever it is you call that divine space for you. We now 100% desire that the residue of all of this pain is released into the light. With love and blessings with ease and grace. So it is. And so it is and so it is. And see yourself surrounded in golden light of God Source energy protecting your energy field, anchoring you back into this time and space. When you're ready, open your eyes. This is a perfect time to take up your journal. Pause this video and just write down anything that came into the awarenesses inside of this exercise for yourself. So my beloved ones, that was designed to help you start to activate your dreams. You can't start to activate and pull in love, romance, intimacy, soulmate or work on your partnership if you are holding on to old energies, old ways of being that no longer serve you. To be sovereign to you is the most important thing to attract what it is you desire. To be in love with yourself is the most important thing to attract what it is you desire. To spend time self caring for you is so important to help you attract what it is you desire. Now this is the real start of activating your desires and dreams. Once you understand how to release and let go and you know what it is you desire, you can start to use that energy to activate your home, to be your co creative success partner, to create the future that you deserve. So you're the magic of Feng shui inside of your home is that your home acts as a microcosm of the macrocosm, a smaller scale of your external world. It reflects your thoughts, beliefs, limits, expansions of that of you or of the previous owners. And this is something I work with a lot with my clients when I do my home healing services for clients. And I have different services I offer. One is the Feng Shui service which I spoke about already. Another is a home healing service where I don't work on the feng shui with them, but we just work on healing their home at a deep level. And I have two levels of service. I have one level where I come in and I clear ghosts and destructive patterns and old outdated energies in the home. Deep into the land, past, present, into the energy space. Going back through timelines where the land may have had trauma on it before, before houses were built in this place, I clear all of those energies. That is what most people hire me to do. I'm known as the ghost Whisperer or the ghost Therapist. I say I have three clients, the people that hire me, the homes themselves, and then the energies that no longer serve and need to be released. Whether that is curses, hexes, negative influences, entities that are stuck on the land, thought forms from previous owners or beliefs from previous owners or ghosts. So that's the first service I offer, which is a deep clearing home energy alignment, which transforms most people's lives instantly. I've had owners, they move into a home and they say their personalities start to morph. They no longer feel like them themselves, Their relationships start to dissolve and they're not quite sure. They're angry and frustrated in ways they've never been before. It's because they've stepped into the energy of the previous owners of that property, the previous trauma that happened on that land, and it's influencing them. I have so many case studies from all over the world of people I've worked. I don't go to people's properties to do this. I work remotely with them. And then I have a second service which includes this first service. And then after that, I also do what is called geomancing, where I look at the vibration of the home, where vortexes are or portals or where ley lines enter the home. And I look at destructive lines of energy, ancestral lineage lines that might be harming the home, and I clear those as well. It takes a lot more time to do so. It's an extra service on top of the first service. But our beliefs, our thoughts, our limitations, our expansions as well, where we say yes to things, these are all inside a home. When we start to focus on aligning our home, our healing starts and we can expand our lives. It directly affects the desires you want to receive in your life. So if you haven't already done so, write down your desires. You can use it in a contract statement, such as in this. On this day, whatever the date is I put your name in, choose to no longer be inside of any old outdated expressions that no longer serve me. And I choose to receive this level of goodness into my life. And then write down what that goodness is. What is it that you're saying yes to? What is it that you're pulling into your space? So, my loves, I hope that was helpful for you. I know as I was facilitating that, I felt very powerful. In the next video, we're going to look at areas that directly are linked to love and romance in our home. We've spoken about them already. I'm going to talk more in depth about them and how to activate them. So I will see you in the next video when you're ready.