Feng Shui for Love with Siobhan Wilcox Session 9 Rooms Linked to Love

Foreign. Welcome back my loves. Thank you so much. I just want to really honor you for this journey you are on with me inside of this training on Feng shui for love and intimacy. You know, so many people give up on their training, they buy something they never engage with. The fact that you are here with me at this point is such an incredible kudos to you that you are really engaged to expand your consciousness, to start working with your home and your environment, to really be successful in what it is you're desiring. I want to honor you so much because you're such a busy person and yet here you are with me, expanding and taking time to explore this concept of how to turn your home on as your success partner in love and romance and intimacy. And what I really want to explore next with you is the rooms in your house directly linked to love. I wonder if you can guess what they are. I spoke about one already, so it's kind of like a no brainer because obviously your bedroom is one, right? But there's also another one which you're going to explore now and that is your bathroom. Many people don't consider the bathroom linked directly to love. It's also linked directly to prosperity, self, love and romance. So let's look at some of the bathrooms don'ts to start with. There's a lot of don'ts that are happening in this photograph. Even though it looks like a beautiful bathroom at some level, but the toilet seat is up. And yes, I know if we live in a house, we have a lot of guys in the house, which I have two young men that I live with. The toilet seat stays up a lot. Ma was going around, shouldn't that seat down? Shouldn't that seat down? I went to a friend's house and she actually has on the inside of a Please close this down. I thought, that's perfect, Perfect. Remind everybody. But believe it or not, the colors in this bathroom are not ideal. So blues and water themes are not ideal for a bathroom because the bathroom already has so much water in there. You don't want to enhance water in the bathroom. You want to make sure there's no leaks in your bathroom. You want to make sure that everything is working correctly and no clutter, no dripping faucets or taps, as we would say in Europe. This literally will allow money to go down the drain. The same with the toilet seat being up, money will go down the drain. Now this is linked to love. No burnt out candles and no burnt out light bulbs because you want to be in a place of Energy and vitality and self love. And this is creating the energy of being already burnt out. No broken items or empty containers. This is easy. You get to the bottom of a shampoo, you leave it upside down. You think, I'll get one more wash out of it. Maybe you do, maybe you don't. You leave it there, you forget to throw it out. This creates dead energy in your bathroom. No dried flowers, fake plants or potpourri. Now silk is the exception to fake plants. If you want to use silk the plants and that has a very high vibration. And ideally you leave the door closed on the bathroom or slightly ajar, but not wide open. So let's look at some of the do's in a bathroom. Add fresh plants, add storage so it can look clean. Keep the toilet seat down, keep the mirrors and windows clean. Add earth colors and curtains, tiles, towels, bath mat, etc. Get an 8 inch red thread and put it. Tie it on all outgoing pipes under sinks and toilet. This will enhance keeping in prosperity energy in your home and also love energy in your home. Put a mirror outside the the door of the bathroom and this we're going to talk in the next module about energy entering your home and where it goes in your home. We spoke about that really briefly in the visualization I did with you. But when you successfully get energy into your home, you don't want to just going down the toilet and going down the drain. So you keep a mirror outside the door of the bathroom, on the wall above the door. It helps to keep the energy in in your home and property. Add candles, bath salts, pamper yourself, self love or for your lover to increase romance. The mirror behind the toilet facing upwards on the floor. If your bathroom is over your bedroom, over a door, office or somewhere, do you spend a lot of time put crystals or stones in your sinks and your tubs to keep positive energy with you. It also can help to enhance love if you want to use rose quartz. Now we go to the bedroom, which is obviously going to be linked to love and romance. And I already spoke about this piece with you. When you are sitting in your bed looking out into your bedroom, what are you looking at? Is a clutter? Is it children's photographs, family photographs? Is it romantic energy? Candles, crystals, a love altar, beautiful flowers, a plant, something that feels nurturing, Sheepskin rug. I'm really into textures in the bedroom for enhancing romance and tantra energy. So tantra is this concept of ecstasy in intimate connection with a beloved. And one of the things to enhance this kind of connection is to have sensual things in the bedroom for you to touch. Whether that's silk, fur, textures that feel luxurious and sensual for the body. Having oils and smells, all of these things will enhance romance in the bedroom. Also, everything should be in twos and equal in size. Bedside lockers, lamps, pillows, side by side chairs, two chairs, not one. Rugs, equal on both sides or similar. The bedroom items to remove Family photographs, children's art pieces and toys, previous relationship items such as divorce papers, old wedding jewelry, photos of your ex lovers create an energy block. I went into this beautiful woman's home a long time ago. She was trying to call in a beloved and she had been divorced for a long time. I was a single parent and the minute I walked into her bedroom, I felt the problem instantly. I said, okay, something in here is linked to your divorce. In that drawer over there in that corner. And she went, oh my God, that's where I had my divorce papers. I said, okay, they do not need to be in your master bedroom. They need to go into a fireproof box, put them out in the garage where you can access them. But you don't need to have them in the energy of the place you want to bring your new lover. She also had paintings that her child had done all over the wall. It was so non romantic, it was so non stick sexy or sassy. The bed itself was a king size bed in a room that was should have been for a queen size. So the bed was oversized, which meant you didn't have a lot of area to move around in, which meant you didn't have an area to sit and chat and drink tea together and massage each other's feet as you just talk through your day. So there was all these things that were out of alignment in the bedroom for her to be actually in a relationship. I'm also, you know, I'm going to do a bonus module on calling in your beloved. And so inside of that I'm going to go more into that piece. There's things you can do to make that soulmate energy attract to you in a bigger way, which I did with this client. She is now in a beautiful relationship, living with her beloved, having her best life. So the energy of that divorce paper was so tangible to me that I could feel at the moment I entered the room. Now I'm hypersensitive to energies, but most people are, they're just not as conscious of it as I am because it's my job, it's what I have honed my vibrational radar to pick up on. But a Guy coming into that environment would have picked up on something and he wouldn't have known what it was, but it would have felt off to him. You don't want any stressful images in a bedroom. You don't want images of a woman on their own or a man on their own or in threes. It can create an affair energy. I spoke about that earlier also. This is important because this happened to one of my clients, and I told them this was happening, but they didn't believe me at the time. I went to their home to do feng shui and home healing, and when I got there, the counter where they aged was set up for three people. And I said, why is this set up for three people? And she said, oh, this is the way my partner has set this up. I said, that man is looking for an affair. She goes, oh, no, no, no, no, he's not. He just likes to have this. I said, that man is looking for an affair. He actually was in an affair. She found out a few months later because he was showing it in the house where he had set up everything for threes. Three at the dining room table, three at the kitchen counter. This is an. An energy you do not want to have in your home, even if there are three of you, because you have a married couple and a child, one child still set up a fourth table place at the table so that their friends can come over and eat so another friend can come in and eat. Do not have threes actively, energetically invited in to your home. Dried or plastic plants are dead energy, so don't have them in your bedroom. Just living plants or silk plants. Let's look at items to consider in your bedroom that are important. Overhead beams are beautiful to look at. However, they can create illness if vertical, they cut the body. Beams going horizontal can cut through the center of the bed and literally cut the connection between you and your beloved. So what do you do if you have beams like this? I've had clients with beams, and what we did is we draped beautiful fabric over parts of the bed above on the beam, and it broke the energy and it made it feel really luxurious. And their health actually improved because of it. They had been getting stomach issues in one case because the bed, the beam was literally cutting through the stomach area. The minute they put the silk in, they felt the shift in the energy. They were like, oh, my God, was that all I needed to do? That feels so much different, right? So another thing to watch out for is windows behind your headboard. They can energy drain you in and Out. But you know, we have only so much we can do in a bedroom. So if you have a window behind your headboard, which I do in one of my rooms in my sanctuary, I keep that curtain down at all times. I have a bamboo curtain on that that is closed. It doesn't darken the room because there's also a beautiful French door, but it keeps the energy contained. I also have a solid headboard behind the bed so that that also anchors and makes it feel safe when you're in that room. Clear Clutter. Distraction reduces intimacy and disturbs sleep. Even if, like I said that time when I went into the bathroom and my kids toys were everywhere, they're now in their 20s. There's no more of their toys in my bathroom. But I just. You can do this in your bedroom. So you set up on a Friday evening, we're going to have an intimate evening. We're going to have a dinner together. Romantic, candlelit. Either it's a takeout or we're cooking together, nurturing each other in whatever way. A beautiful bottle of wine ahead of time. Set up the room, declutter it, even just get laundry baskets, fill it with anything that's clutter based. Move them into the wardrobe. If you need to move them outside of the room. Keep just clear that space so that you are enhancing intimacy consciously in the space. When you do that, you will not want to bring that clutter back in again. So it's also an encouragement for you to then start looking through those laundry baskets and going, do I really need all this stuff? Is this stuff something I can scan? If it's paperwork to keep and just keep in a Dropbox somewhere in the cloud. If it's items, am I using these items? Are they needed items? Are they broken items? You never have broken items around you in your bedroom. It disturbs your psychology when you're sleeping. It creates an unconscious energy of distraction because your mind is thinking, I need to get that fixed. I need same if you have workout equipment in your bedroom. When. And you know, sometimes we have our office in the corner of our bedroom, but you can just make sure that office space is cleared. If you've got paperwork, get a beautiful box. Put all your paperwork in the box, make it look beautiful. You can even get a screen to block off that energy in the room. There's so many ways that you can create romance in your room without not making the space functional for the life you need to live in that room. Technology is unplugged, ideally at night, particularly if it's Close to the bed. So if you have a computer very close to your bed, a television very close to your bed, just unplug it at night. You're not working on it anyway. It doesn't, you know, you can just shut it down, turn it off and unplug it. It reduces the electromagnetic stress in the room and it's really good for your body. Cover a TV as well. It's really good to cover the TV when you're not using it. I do that even in my sitting room. I cover my TV when I'm not using it. Electromagnetic frequencies disturb sleep patterns, reduce libido and overall health levels. EMFs. So you know, unplugging the telev close to the bed, unplugging the technology close to the bed, not plugging in your phone to charge next to your head, all of these things can help your libido increase, your overall health levels. Increase. Mirrored wardrobes, believe it or not, they look beautiful. They can enhance the light in a room, but they can also impact your sleep and drain your soul energy. It's believed in Feng shui. So how do you get around that? So there's a couple of ways I work with clients to do that. You know, taking out your mirrored wardrobes is an expensive fix and most people don't want to do that. You can put a curtain rod across the top and then hang a beautiful soft curtain across that. You can then open up and use the mirrors when you need to and then close the curtains when you're going to bed. That is a really good option that a lot of my clients have done. It enhances the look of their room and it enhances their sleep. Other clients have also used like a decal to go over the mirrors or one of those wallpapers that looks like a bamboo that they can put over the mirrors if they don't actually want to use the mirrors at all in the space. When you go into your wardrobe, you want to have clothes that fit you. This reduces your self esteem if your clothes are too small for you. It also then reduces the amount of sexiness you feel if everything in your wardrobe doesn't fit you. You know, when you go into your wardrobe, you want to look and maybe have some beautiful lingerie hanging in there. You want to have clothes that fit you and make you feel sexy in there. So it's okay. I do this regularly. Even when clothes do fit me, if they are damaged or ripped or torn or you know, stained in any way, I just release those. I just constantly go through my wardrobe and Say, you know, I've had that for 10 years, I've worn it four times. It's not something I need to keep to go to a special event and so I'm letting that go. Decluttering your wardrobe is essential. Discarding damaged, chipped or broken items from your bedroom is essential for love. Anything that's large, that's over the back of your headboard creates an unconscious sense that it could fall on you. Particularly if you're in an area where you get maybe earthquake tremors or there's a lot of road traffic, that you get shutters in the house. All of this can add anxiety to the body. So let's talk about the bed itself. Metal is a conductor and it activates. We talked about this already as part of our remedies. So avoiding a metal bed is important. If possible, they can look beautiful and sexy, but they can also over activate you when you're trying to sleep. Mattresses with springs can also be a challenge for some people, and even the box springs. Avoid storing metal items under your bed. It activates EMF channels up through the metal impacts your immune system while you sleep. That's electromagnetic stress and electromagnetic frequency. So imagine which this has happened to me in one of the homes I lived in, I had the kitchen right below me. So there was large appliances, the microwave, the fridge, the stove, the toaster oven. And the electromagnetics from the fluorescent lighting, which was the whole length of the ceiling was coming up into my bed. I was feeling electrocuted on a daily basis because there was metal springs in the mattress and in the box spring. So I got a memory foam organic bamboo mattress and I got a box spring with no springs in it. And instantly my body started to feel more nurtured, more relaxed. My immune system increased, if possible. And this isn't always possible because of the space you live in, but ideally you don't store items under your bed. And never reuse a mattress from a previous relationship. Allow yourself to get a new bed, get a new mattress, get new bedside lockers. When I completed with my last relationship, my last long term relationship, which was a 28 year, I released all of the bed, the bed, the, the drawers, the bedside lockers, the lamps. I got rid of everything. The, the box spring, the bed, the mattress, everything went and I reset the energy and I can got a completely different set of everything in the room felt different. It felt like, oh my God, now I've reclaimed this space. For me. It was so powerful to, was expensive, but it was powerful and I needed to do it. And as soon as I did it, I felt like I had reclaimed my bedroom, reclaimed my power, reclaimed my life. And so when you think about this, where you sleep is exactly where your body boosts its immune system every day. It's the only time your body completely boosts itself with its immune system. So if you are unconsciously always looking at items that belong to you inside of another relationship that maybe was very stressed and strained, which mostly, if our relationships are breaking down, they become very stressed and strained, maybe there was pain associated with the furniture is memories of what happened in the room when the furniture was there. You might not be able to move home, and straight away you might have decided to keep the house. The other person may have moved out, but you don't need to keep the furniture with the memories associated with that. So allow yourself to consider how you can do that. And it might not be all at the one time, but even if you can say, I am going to perhaps repaint the bed if it's a wooden bed, so. So I now have a different look. Maybe it was a dark wood and now I'm going to paint it a beautiful, shabby chic cream, I'm going to do the same with the bedside lockers. I'm going to get new shades for the lamps, new bedding, and then when I can afford it, I will buy a new mattress. When I can afford it, I will get a new box spring, et cetera, et cetera, so you don't have to throw it all, the baby out with the bathwater. But, like, consider how you can change your connection to an old relationship with the furniture that you have if you can't afford to just clear everything out and restart from scratch. So let's look at best practices for better sleep. Because when we sleep well, we can be available for intimacy and love and romance and sexual connection. If we're exhausted, it's very hard to get ourselves into that sleep space of feeling like we have the energy to have romance. So a wooden headboard, wooden bed, and wooden box spring, all of these are very supportive for better sleep. Memory foam mattresses. Mattresses hold energy from subconscious dumping while we sleep. So you can clear your mattress on a daily basis or a weekly basis or a monthly basis, depending on how much work you're doing on yourself. I usually clear my ma every month at this point. I use sage and I use sound. I use singing bowls, I use mantra. Imagine as well you can a white light or violet flame flowing around your bedroom and bed, releasing all these heavy energies or anything that's stored in there from a previous relationship, from pain you've been experiencing, from challenges. It all gets dumped as you sleep. Allow that to be cleared from your room, from your mattress, from your bed, from all aspects of everything in that space. So I want you to consider we've done so much at this point. What is it that you are currently remembering that has impacted you the most at this point in these modules we've gone through and what can you instantly start to change or say yes to or move in a different way? Just pause the video now and take time to consider these three questions now my beloved ones I am so excited to talk about in the next module how to invite in love and that's what we are going to cover in the next module. So hopefully I will see you then and until then enjoy yourself, have a great day and start to put in small changes in your home and see how that energy starts to shift for you.