Feng Shui for Love with Siobhan Wilcox Session 8 Intentional Feng Shui

Hi and welcome back, my loves. Here we go into the session on intentional feng shui for enhancing intimacy. Let's just do a brief review. This is our seventh section, seventh module. So we have done a lot so far, covered a lot together, visualized, released, called in. And now I want to just give you a quick review because sometimes when we are moving through, you forget all the pieces you've actually learned. So we've studied classical Feng shui so far and why it works. Peach Blossom in our last section and enhancing it for romance, if single or in a solid relationship. How to measure the energy that comes into your house, like the direction of that, and then how to measure out your home and compare that to the Matrix or Bagua. We've looked at the five element theories and how to use those elements as remedies in your home. We've done release and calling in rituals, and we've looked how to make sure your home is never locked for love and romance, for health and relationship, and for abundance and prosperity. So so far we have done so much. So I want to bring us now into the concept of intentional Feng shui and your home itself. So I'm going to get you to. We're going to do a visualization together to tune in to see how your home feels. So take a moment now to start to notice again how you're feeling at this very moment in time. Take yourself out of your busy brain where you're trying to figure out stuff, and start to bring yourself down into the body temple. Feel your feet on the ground, feel the chair beneath you, supporting you. Close your eyes. If it's a safe place for you to do that, take a few deep breaths into the body, softening and melting and letting go. Breathing softly, melting the body, noticing any messages the body is sending to you at this very moment in time. Honor, receive, allow, let go. And then in your mind's eye now, my friends, in your imagination, I want you to imagine you're now outside the front of your home and property. If you're living in a home, go out to the curb. If you're living in a condo building, I still want you to go outside the whole building. I want you to stand out with the bat, your back to the building, and I want you to look at your neighborhood. Does this neighborhood feel good to you? Does it enhance you? Does your spirit rise? Does your spirit fall? Just become aware of the energy of your neighborhood and how it may be influencing you on a daily basis. Now, when you're ready, turn back and face towards your Home and property. Now imagine my beloved one, that you are romance, that you are intimacy, that you are love and that you are walking this energy to your front door. How does it feel as you bring this energy all the way to your front door? Does it feel easy to receive? Does it feel like it can make it to your front door? Is it received beautifully at your front door? Now open your front door and step inside your home and property. How do you feel now? Does your heart rise? Do you feel joyful to be here in the foyer of your home, in your hallway? Does it feel heavy? Does it feel light? Does it feel joyful? Does it feel sad? How does this feel for you? Now imagine you're inviting love into your home like you would a best friend coming to visit. Invite love in with you and see how does love feel as it is received in your home. Ask love as it stands here in the entrance way of your home and property. Is there anything it needs to understand for you to understand or know about activating it more, receiving it more, being in co creation with us? It then thank love. Thank love. Be grateful for its presence and look around your home and property at this very moment in time. Be very grateful that you have this beautiful home to nurture you, to keep you safe, to keep you warm, to shelter you feel that energy of gratitude now flowing out of you, going around your home going this sense of deep love deep. Honoring this home may not be perfect for you right now. You haven't necessarily enhanced it in the way that will really activate as a success partner, but it has created shelter. It has created a place that you can rest and sleep and be nurtured. It has maybe created a place for your family to grow. A place where you've laughed, maybe cried, maybe felt pain, maybe felt joy, eaten good food, maybe received friends, had tea with girlfriends, had people over for dinner and maybe not. But either way this home has been protecting you. Those honor, respect, allow, receive, let go resistance to co creating with this beautiful home and property. See where your gratitude energy is choosing to go in your home. Recognize that your home is very grateful that you are starting to co create with it in a new way, enhancing your relationship and awareness of its needs so it can become your success partner. It flow love through your body from unconditional source. Beautiful pink energy filling you up, completely energizing love as you feel that going into the earth beneath you, flowing into all the cells in your body, blowing out your hands, surrounding you in an orb of pink. Then thank your home and property. Thank love energy that came to visit with you. Thank this divine love energy. Thank yourself for choosing to develop awareness, choosing to want to receive more love, to want to be present for more love. Wriggle your fingers. Now wriggle your toes. Become aware of the chair beneath you supporting you. Come back into the awareness of your breath entering the body. Take a few deep breaths in it. Bring yourself back into the awareness of the noise outside the room and inside your room. Open your eyes when you're ready, maybe grab your journal and here's some considerations. Did your home make your heart rise or fall? Did your neighborhood make you feel supported and nurtured? Were you excited when you considered living where you are living? Does your home represent you and who you turn up as in the world and who you want to be in the world? Are the items around you nurturing and abundant in your home and property? How did love feel when you were bringing it into your home? Did it want to be with you? Does your home represent the future you desire? Were there areas when you were sending out love and gratitude to your home that maybe felt light or heavy? Now take a moment to pause this video and just consider these and journal on us. So this is your cheat sheet again. And this time I've added in here a new piece which is just to do with your wealth and prosperity, which is to add fire to enhance this area. So let's look at intentional feng shui for each part of our home. So the center of our home, it's linked to love, self, love and health. Does it feel nurturing and vibrant to you when you stand in the center of your home? Small amount of fire remedy this year, as I've already mentioned. Put in a saltwater cure. Well, I'll explain those later. Keep it quiet. Some intentional feng shui to enhance this year. Keep clutter free. It's very important. Add images that represent love to you. Guanyin statue for compassion and love energy. Or if you're having a lot of health issues. I don't think I've listed this here, but you can add in a Ganesh for overcoming obstacles, which is the elephant God in Hindu. Crystals are amethyst and citrine, amber and also rose quartz if you wish. The essential oils are pine and rose or sandalwood. You can enhance this with fresh flowers with no thorns or a fresh bowl of fruit, but you just keep, you know, fresh fruit in. I usually buy big bowls of or big bags of limes or lemons and I put those as my fresh fruits because they last for quite a long time. You can also use apples. Pomegranates are good too. Oh, I did say Ganesh. So the other is Ganesh, remover of obstacles. And a Buddha is also very good because it represents peace and harmony and tranquility and love. So let's look at love and marriage section, which is very important if you're here trying to enhance love. So this is one of my favorite paintings and one I have in my love and marriage area myself. But you can pick a painting or a photograph or a poster that represents love to you and intimacy. When you sit in this area of your home, does it feel loved? Do you feel loved when you sit there? Does it feel nurturing? Ideally, we add fire remedy this year. Unless we really, really want to enhance peach blossom, which is then water and not fire. We can add the saltwater cure. We need to keep it quiet. The intentional feng shui in this area are Everything should be in twos and equal. Add the photos or a photograph of a couple. If calling in love, create a vision board of your ideal partner and what you want to do together in the world and place it in this area. Crystals are moonstone, two rose quartz hearts, garnets, green quartz, essential oils, jasmine, rose, lavender, sandalwood. Deities can be Quan, Yin, angels, Cupid. Great to add images of lovers here and make sure there's no stormy images. You want to make sure there's no arguments. You want to make sure there's no photographs or posters or images of a woman on her own or a man on their own or of threes. So you don't want to enhance the energy of affairs. So this is not directly linked to love, but the wealth and prosperity area is very important to enhance. Because let's be honest, as I said before, if your prosperity is in a challenged position, it influences all of your relationships, particularly your closest, most intimate one. So does this area look prosperous to you? Add fire as a potential remedy here in 2024 at a money tree or lucky bamboo. But you can also add like I have a crystal tree which is green in color, associated with prosperity in my prosperity area, images that feel expansive. Again, no stormy images, no bleak or desolate pictures, no stressed pictures. Amethyst or citrine crystals, bergamot or frankincense oils. Lashmi is the goddess of wealth and purity. Write a check to yourself in the universe. You can also put Ganesh in there if you're really feeling you need to have challenges overcome. So the west now is linked to creativity, new beginnings and inner child. So does it feel like you can create new things here. Is it feeling playful? And why we enhance this in romance is we want to feel light in romance. We want to feel playful, we want to feel flirtatious, we want to feel joyful. This is the area for this in the home. It's also new beginning. So if you are looking for new romance, it's a really great place to enhance that. This year we need to add heavy metal, 45 pounds minimum and moving metal. The saltwater cure. And you need to keep it quiet. Crystals are citrine and carnelian. Lavender, rosewood or chamomile are the oils. Add work artwork by children or children enjoy or your own artwork is beautiful to put in here images of a couple in love. Saraswatzki or Lashkmi are the statues to add here. And let's look at north the career and life journey. Does it reflect success in your work life? So remember we talked about peach blossom visiting here. So if you want to enhance peach blossom, you put in the water. If you want to enhance success in your career, you add in fire. It'll also bring passion into a relationship too. You want to add in a saltwater cure, you want to keep it quiet. And the intentional feng shui to consider in this area this year and also ongoing the cures or the remedies. Even the saltwater cure needs to be changed out every year. The remedy of water or fire changes often year to year. But the intentional feng shui you can keep all the time in the place. It is based on the energy to enhance the north for career and life journey. Again, avoid stormy or stressed images. And this is an interesting thing. I was working with a corporate executive who wanted to enhance his office and it was in the north section of the building. And so I got him to look from his desk outwards at what was in front of him. And he had his bookshelf with all his study books and his MBA books and everything there. There was a lot of books that were talking about bankruptcy and lack and limitation and how to save your business. Now this is one of the things he consulted on, but this is what he looked at every. So it was actually in the attraction of him getting the same response in his business, not enhancing other people's businesses. So what we got him to do is move those books because he still needed them for reference and put them in a way that wasn't in his direct eye view. So whatever you spend a lot of your time and day looking at really starts to influence you and creates an attraction energy towards you. So be Conscious of that. When you even now look up from your computer and look around at what's in front of you, does it look expansive? Does it look cluttered? Does it look heavy? Does it look light? Are there broken items? Are there items that tell you that you're attracting love, attracting health, attracting money? What is in your eye view on the majority of your day? The same. We're going to talk about the bedroom in another module, but it's the same concept. When you lie down in bed and you look out at your bedroom, does your bedroom say sassy, sexy, intimacy, romance, love, connection, juicy or does it go clutter? Business stuff. Study children's photographs. Right? You need I remember when my kids were really small and I wanted to have this nurturing bath for myself. When I got in the bathroom and like the whole bathroom, instead of looking like somewhere I could self care, was filled with rubber duckies and children's toys and all of their stuff. So I just got a big basket and I put it all in the basket and I carried it all out of the bathroom and then I took in all my stuff for self care. I put rose oil in the bath and I lit candles and I put rose petals in the bath and I turned the lights down and I put on some nice music. And suddenly the area that looks like my children had exploded their whole toy store into the bathroom was now in place of nurturing. So just think of that in your environment. You want your environment to represent what nurtures you, that supports you. And we if you have young children, you also need areas for them too. But you don't have to constantly have that in your eye vision. If you're trying to create intimacy or romance in a partnership and all you have is toys and photographs of children everywhere, it's not sexy and romantic. So allow yourself to shift gears and move things out of a room, even if it's only for a few hours, to create a romantic, intimate environment. You can do that. You are allowed to do that. Then you can return items into the room if the kids need it for the next day for something else. But allow yourself to be important. As I said before, be wisely selfish. So some of the things for your north black obsidian, black tourmaline. These protect they're really strong protection crystals. Bergamot, pine, rosewood and spruce oils enhance this area for career and life journey. Spiritual statues of Tara, Hindu goddess of great wisdom. Athena, the Greek goddess of wisdom, courage and inspiration. Or g if you're experiencing challenges in this area in your life. The Northwest Helpful people travel And Heaven's Gate. This area, my friends, is so important because if you're single this year, you can activate it by adding water for calling in love. But it's also to do with adventure. It's also to do with having support systems in place. It's also to do with travel. We can add a saltwater cure. We keep it quiet. Some of the areas to enhance it this year are clutter free. No broken items. It's essential for this area. Ongoing all the time. Clear quartz, turquoise quartz or turquoise crystals. Oils are lavender, peppermint and pine. Now I love this. I have a little globe in my Heaven's Gate area and I turn it depending on where I feel I might want to travel in the world. You can also have a travel book of places. Not where you've already been, where you want to go, where you may want to work. Maybe you want to go there in your mind on your honeymoon. Maybe is where you want to take a romantic retreat or a romantic getaway. Avoid images of yourself on your own in this area. Avoid images of people struggling on their own to complete a task. Images who mentor you are really good to put here. Such as saints, Jesus, angels, spirit guides, supporter friends, family members that support you, mentors that support you, community, etc. The east is your family, community and soul group. Does it feel aligned with your family? Does it meet and their needs and honor them? This year you need to add 30 pounds of metal in this area. You can add an altar or meditate here. It is very powerful. Air. Pardon me. Energy. This year attracts fame and recognition. This year in 2024, create gratitude to enhance your vibe, to attract good things. If you've had problems with a beloved, a family member, a relationship, a friendship, you can put a photograph of them in this area to enhance it and send them love as every time you see it. It's a great place to put your family albums, your photos of your family, framed soul groups, your friends, the people that matter to you. You can enhance this. Oils, pine and sandalwood. The deities are Hera, the goddess of family. You can also book Ganesh in if you're having difficulties with family members. The crystals are green. Tourmaline opens the heart for healing. Rose quartz heals the heart, enhances love agate, which supports happiness, healing and vitality. So, my love, we've done so much together. Now we have our intentional Feng shui remedies. We know how to unlock our home. We understand the power of Feng shui. We've gone through the Bagua, the matrix for love and money. We chosen our desires. We've connected deeply to your home. We've done so much. In the next section, we are going to go through the rooms that support love in your home. So there's two particular areas in your home that you can enhance for love and romance. And I want to discuss those with you in the next series of videos. So enjoy, my friends and I will see you soon.