Siobhan Wilcox (Feng Shui for Love) guides viewers through Session 10: how to receive opportunity and love into the home by ensuring energy can enter, be welcomed at the front door/foyer, and be retained. She reviews relevant bagua areas (SW love/marriage, W creativity, E community, SE wealth, N career, center unity/health), shares an anecdote about a blocked gate, and gives practical remedies: fix gates/doors/hinges, add soft plants and curved pathways, use dusk-to-dawn lighting, avoid spiky plants, use round rugs and foyer plants, hang crystals on red thread for front-to-back door alignment, frost or cover glass doors for privacy, keep clutter/bills away from entry, and care for handbags. She previews the next module on creating a love altar and a tantric ritual.
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You. Hi, and welcome back again, this is still Siobhan Wilcox, and I hope you are enjoying Feng Shui for love and intimacy. At this point, you should have been able to figure out a lot about your remedies, intentional remedies, the bagua remedies that are always linked to love and the ones that are connected to the energy of this year. Where we're at right now is 2024. As I said before, if you're watching this in a different year, I will have an additional video for your current remedies. For every year you will have discovered the power of Feng Shui and why it works. Classical Feng shui, the rooms linked to love, your bathroom and your main bedroom. We have explored the activation of desires and releasing energy around what it is you want to pull in that isn't serving you. So you can really say yes to what is serving you. And then as part of this, I hope you become much more deeply connected to your home. So as you start to activate your home and energize your home, you need to also recognize, which I gave you a little bit of connection to already when I had you stand on the curb of your home, look at your environment, look back at your home, walk love into your home to see how it was welcomed. I want to bring more of this now into your awareness. So again, here is your energy matrix of your home or your bagua. And we've this point, you've already become very aware of the Southwest love and marriage area, your new beginnings, creativity, Inner child for west, your East Soul community soul group, also your wealth and prosperity area, Southeast, and your career and life journey area in the north, the center of your home for unity and health, self love and self acceptance. But I really want you to consider now how the energy is going to get into your home. You're activating the energy, but it still has to get to you. You've done the work, now let's see how it can be greeted at the front door. Does the energy want to stay when it gets to you? And does it want to grow? I was invited to a home a long time ago because I used to always go to people's homes. And then before COVID that's how I operated mostly. But since COVID now I do all my work pretty much remotely because it's much more economical for people not to have to fly me to their homes to work with them on the ground or for me to drive six hours to get to a house in Arizona. I still do drive for particular projects, so I Am available. If you do want to fly me to your home or you do want me to come to your home because you're building a new property, you've got very specific issues that we can't deal with easily over satellite and over zoom. But most sessions are now done remotely for me and my clients and their homes and properties. However, many, many years ago, I went to this home because a woman wanted to open up the opportunity of inviting in a new beloved. And so when I go to work on any property, even now, remotely, I tune into the energy of that property really, really deeply for many hours. And I sit with that property, the photographs of that property now as I'm working remotely, and the satellite images and the Google Maps where I can see the whole street. And I sit and I meditate on this land for hours and hours and hours before I even start working with the property. And this property I was meditating on told me I can't even get into her channel to meet her. And I went, what does that mean? And then. And I was calling in her new lover, and I could hear this voice saying, I can't even get in to meet her. So I said, okay. So when I got to the property and I tried to open the front gate to get into the courtyard to enter the property, I couldn't open the gate. The gate was so janky and old that it was like I was. They had to come out of the house to open the gate to let me in. This is supposed to be an easy just keep the dogs in the yard gate, not a keep your lover out gate. The first thing you've got to fix is the gate because your lover can't get in. Nobody can get in. You literally, I had to call you on the phone. You come out here as to open the gate to let me in. So you want the opportunity, the energy of love, of romance, of career, success, of prosperity, or whatever it is you want to pull into your life. You want it to be able to get to you, right? You can invite love in as much as you like, but really make sure you are opening to the opportunity. So how I love this picture because this is what it feels like sometimes for opportunity. It's like, oh, I've got here. Oh, my God. Now I have to try and get through all of these stairs or steps or, you know, gates that won't open to get into the home. So let's look at some of the ways we can invite and nurture this energy to be with us. So soft plants leading to your doorway. In your yard are always beautiful. A well lit pathway, lights at the door. Now, you know, we sometimes we travel a lot and we don't want to keep our lights on all the time. So you can use these beautiful lights. You can get that literally turn on when it becomes dusk. They're called dusk to dawn lights, light bulbs. And they, they literally activate to turn on when it's dusk and turn off when the dawn comes. Clean porch or doorstep. No spiky plants or cactuses. Remember the thorns. Spiky plants, cactuses, they do not invite in nurturing energy. A curved pathway is best. It guides gently like a river, a stream flowing that energy to your door with ease and grace. See if you can repair chips on your doors. Make sure your door latches are working, make sure your gate can be opened. And then do a welcome mat of some sort that just says hi, welcome in. Ideally, a solid door is best. Now if you have a very dark hallway and you want to bring in light to the area and you want to put a glass door in, I want you to think about that. If you are a single woman and you have a glass door for your front door, you want to be wandering around your house, maybe coming out of the bathroom, people can see directly in. So you could frost that glass, you could put a decal on that glass. You put a curtain, a soft curtain over that door that you can close when it's the evening time. So a lot of the women I work with are single. They're coming out of divorce situations, they're coming out of situations from toxic relationships. And many of them will come and stay with me at my sanctuary in Idyllwild if they have that opportunity to work at a deeper level with me. And we will help to together rebuild confidence levels, rebuild their power. Because many times and for all people that have come out of a divorce situation, and it goes for the men as well as the women, they're often energetically feeling very vulnerable. And I know myself as I have come out of a 20 year marriage a couple of years ago at this point. And it was very hard in the first year to rebuild myself, but I used all my tools and techniques, I worked with a coach myself, I up leveled my energy. And so one of the things I say to women because I get asked this question all the time, what about a glass door? And I'm like, well, think about it. Doesn't make you feel safe or doesn't make you feel vulnerable. Do you feel that somebody could smash that glass and open that door easily? You're on your own. Do you feel that people can see into your home if your lights are on and it's dark outside? So I say if you want glass, maybe just do the top of the door glass so you get the light but you're not feeling vulnerable. Or if you really want to have full glass on your door, then decal it, frost it, put a curtain in that you can close over at nighttime so you feel safe and protected. It's really fundamental to also allowing yourself to receive the love that you're wanting to call in. You need to feel safe in your own home and property. So once you have the energy all the way into your home, then you need to make it feel appreciated and loved when it gets there. So let's see how we can keep that love energy or that success energy in your home. And it goes the same for if you're wanting to focus on prosperity. So round rugs in your foyer, if you have space, will move energy around. Plants in your foyer really welcome in and nurture living energy. They're beautiful, they're vibrant. Make sure they're caps well and then they will help to enhance the energy that arrives into your home. Plants either side of the stairs. If you've got a very large stairs inside the doorway. If you have a very tall ceiling in your foyer, which a lot of people do, plants can help bring that energy down, keep it clean and clutter free. The vaulted ceilings use plants that hang down as they keep the energy from flying away. Keep the windows clean. Make sure the lights are repaired. Light bulbs are always turned on and they're good in the foyer. Let's look at now even prosperity because we talked a little bit about that, even though it's not directly linked to love, but it really is at the same time. Hang crystals on red thread indoors if the doors line up front to back. So if you open your front door and it instantly faces your back door, or then put a red crystal on a red thread to support the energy not going in the door, the front door coming in and going straight out the back door. Put mirrors over the back door facing inwards. If the glass of the front door, I've already mentioned this, use a decal or curtain to soften. Fix loose door handles. Make sure there's no rusty hinges and that they open with ease and they're not making noise. Keep bills and, and I don't mean money bills, I mean the bills that come in with your, your electrical, your desk. Keep that away from your front door. Now if it's the only place to keep us. Because your home is small and this is where you have your mailbox. You keep it close to the front door where the mail comes in, then put it inside a beautiful box with that looks ornate and very abundant. So that you're bringing abundance into your debt and into your bills. And your saying, it's easy for me to pay this. I am putting this in a beautiful box. Keep handbags off the floor. And this is a tradition in many different cultures where you don't put your handbags on the floor. It's seen that your handbags carry your wallets and your wallets are part of your abundance. And by putting it on the floor, you're literally, you know, not showing it respect. Also, you know it has practical means where there's lizards around or little mice that can get into your handbag and maybe even eat your money. We don't want that. So I hope that helps you understand how to nurture and receive this love energy. Bringing it from the curb into your home, then moving it around your home and keeping it in your home. In the next video, my beloveds, I'm very excited to share all about how to create a love altar. I'm also going to talk about a tantric ritual you can do with your partner in the next section as well. So this next section, you can use the some of this section for your love and marriage area. If you are single, you can set up a love altar in your home. If you are single in your bedroom. But there's also a whole piece in this which I really want you to receive. If you are in a romantic partnership to enhance intimacy, there will also be another section beyond this for those that want to call in their beloved and their soulmate that they don't have one currently. So don't despair because I will show you how to also add extra items inside of that module to your existing love altars that I will share in the next module with you. So I look forward to seeing you in the next module and enjoy creating the way for opportunity to be with you until that module.
