Exclusive| Diddy’s Ex Girlfriend Tells All to Tasha K!

Okay, White Rose, welcome. All right, we have a major exclusive here, okay? You probably have never seen her before, all right, except for one time recently. And Miss Virginia V here uploaded a video of her and Diddy the mogul. Yes. Okay, so welcome to the A.

Thank you for having me.

We got you all the way in from Las Vegas.

Yes.

Wow. Okay, well, um, I'm so honored that you're sitting down with me. Now, before we get into everything, I want to say that Virginia has never ever done an interview. Okay? So I want you to be patient with her. All right? She has a valid reason as to why she's telling her story because when we spoke the other night after the video went up and it went viral, everyone was shocked. Like, whoa, Diddy has a new girlfriend, has a new boo. You guys were like tongue kissing and there was some photos. And I know you got hella followers from that because when Shade Room got it, it was just, it was over.

Once they get it, it's over.

Yeah. All right, so I want to start from the beginning, okay? Because we discussed a lot over the phone, some very, very intimate details and things that just kind of made me go, wow, okay? About the specifics of you and Diddy's relationship. So I want to start from the beginning, okay?

Okay.

How long have you known Diddy?

I've known him for 5 years.

5 years?

Yes.

Do you mind, like, telling me what year?

I met him February 2014. Well, technically the very first time I met him was September 2013 because I was at a fight in Vegas and I went to the Palms and he was hosting there. So I kind of met him there, but he says he remembered it vaguely. But and then like 5 months later, I ran into him again in Miami, February 14th, 2014. So that's when we like officially met, I guess.

And what was that encounter like when you met him and like you remember him, but he didn't remember you? Of course everybody remembers Diddy. It's like, Diddy.

Well, I think he saw me and then he was like, this was at the Palms. He saw me and he asked who was I with? And I pointed to the guy I was with and he kind of left me alone after that.

Oh, okay. Okay. So nothing really transpired during that meeting in Miami?

No, nothing. No, no, no. Vegas.

In Vegas?

Yeah.

Okay, so he was trying to holla in Vegas?

Yes.

Okay, but then he's—

but then I told him I was with another man, so he kind of left me alone. But then I ran into him again February 2014.

Okay, and this was in Miami?

In Miami.

All right, and so what was that conversation like in Miami when you guys met up again for the second time and you weren't with a man? I don't think—

I don't think when we met in Miami, I don't think he remembered me from Vegas.

Okay.

He doesn't remember that.

Okay.

Until I told him. Oh, yeah.

Okay. So what did he say? It was like serendipity or something?

He said he remembers it vaguely, but not really. So, but I don't know. I was with a friend. I was visiting a friend in Miami. She had moved to Miami from Nebraska, and I was visiting her and Um, we were— we went out the night before I met him, so we were out all night. And me and her, we were with a couple of guys, and, um, they were like, let's go to Puffy's house. So I was like— we were just like, okay, whatever. It was like 9 in the morning.

Wow, Puffy's house at 9 in the morning?

I mean, no one was— no one was there, but he was up too though. And, um, So we went to his house at like 9 in the morning. And when I first walked in, I'm very, I'm very like a chill person.

I can tell.

And so, like, I could walk into a White House and still be chill, but like inside I'm like screaming, oh my God. But when I came to his house, obviously I was like kind of I was kind of like, you know, I don't know, I guess like starstruck in a way because I'm from Nebraska, so we— I'm not around none of this. So, but I'm chill though. And he came. So when I came, he was like, he was like, you're not happy to see me? Oh, you at Diddy's house. That means you made it.

The cockiness. Yeah. Okay, Diddy. I was like, But yeah, that's, that's, um, and how old were you at the time?

I was 20, 21, 21, or 22.

Okay. And you're how old now?

I'm 27.

Okay.

Maybe 22.

So a long time. Yeah, these dates are crossing over. We'll get into, get into that in a second. Okay, we're gonna get messy in a second. All right. Um, so you're at the house, you meet Diddy. So obviously he made you feel comfortable. Um, of course, I, you know, we've seen it. Diddy seems to be this like very just kind of inspirational, always just kind of over-the-top DJ Khaled kind of personality. Um, and so I take it you guys— I mean, did you guys like hit it off during that, that initial encounter at his house, or, um, did it take some time?

No, not really. Um, We were there probably for like an hour, I say, and he was talking to the guys that we were with. Okay. They were artists, so like they knew each other.

Okay.

So he was like talking to them most of the time. And then by the time we left, I had already gotten in the car and then he like walked over, over to the car and asked for my number.

Oh.

And so I gave it to him.

How did that make you feel? Did he ask you for your number?

It made me feel, I don't know, it made me feel good, kind of, I guess.

You didn't see him as like this old pervert asking for it?

No, not at all. I know, because I see a 50-year-old dude, I'm like, "That's your ex?" I mean, I knew, I knew he was older than me, but I've always hung out with older people in general, so it didn't make me Yeah, it doesn't— didn't bother me.

Okay, now from that time of you meeting him and you give him your number, how long did it take before you guys actually made it official? Well, you made it official, but he was off, of course, doing other things the way these dates are kind of lined up.

We never like, okay, let's be official. We never ever had that conversation. We kind of just kind of— we just kind of knew, like, we just felt like We were together.

Okay. So you spent a lot of time together?

We did.

Okay, so you were at the house? Did you meet his kids? Wow. Okay. Now, um, when we spoke the other night, you said that, uh, things had gotten so serious that you became pregnant. Not once, but twice, correct?

Yes.

Okay. When was the first time you became pregnant with, uh, Diddy's child?

The first time was, um, October 2014.

Okay, so this was like, what, a year after?

Um, no, not a year, but because I met him in February and then I got pregnant in October.

Oh, so the same, the same, the same year. Okay. And, uh, you mind telling me what happened with that pregnancy?

Um, he— well, I told him and he was like He was like, you're gonna get an abortion, right? And then I was like, um, I don't know, uh, I don't know yet. And then, and then he offered me $50,000 to get rid of it, but I turned it down because, um, I just, I just loved him and I just, uh, and I wanted, I wanted to, I was like trying to prove that I wasn't the girl that wanted him for money. I just, just care about him, and, um, I just wanted him to be nice to me. That's it. I was like, I don't want your money, I just want you to, um, be nice to me whether you decide to keep the baby or not.

So would it be fair to say if that he was an asshole about it? I mean, offering somebody $50,000 to abort a baby, he must really want it gone bad.

Um, I mean, in the beginning, like the first 3 and a half years, he was— I mean, like the first 3 months, 3, 4 months, he was really nice. But then after that, he was— he started being an asshole. So like I say, like the first 3 and a half years he was like mean to me.

So when you say mean, describe it.

He was abusive. He was like always belittling me and always like, I just, he was like mentally, emotionally, and physically abusing me.

Did he?

Mm-hmm.

It's not the first time we've heard that. There was an incident, of course, with Cassie where reporters are saying that the police were called because they got into an altercation. This, I think it was like 2 or 3 years ago if I'm not mistaken. Um, tell me some of the things that he would say to you.

Um, he would always compare me to Cassie and tell me that I'm the bad one and she's a good one.

Um, and he was with both of you guys at the same time?

Yeah. Um, and at one point, like, I was breaking out really bad with acne and he would be like, He said this a few times to me. He was like, baby, why don't you go see a doctor or something? I don't date women with bumps on their face. Oh yeah, he would, um, say that to me.

Take a drink, relax, okay? I can tell this is bringing up a lot. We have, um, some tissues Thank you, Jasmine. Okay. So of course, that is very, I mean, humiliating, especially when you love someone and they tell you that you're not good enough for them.

And he would like call me names, like he would call me a hoe every single day.

A hoe.

Yeah.

Why would he call you? Not that he had a reason, but like, in his mind, what do you think prompted him to call you a hoe?

I, now that I think about it, I think—

Oh, okay. Hold on. We're getting you some tissue. I don't want you messing up your makeup. Okay. You look gorgeous. Okay.

Um, thinking back now, I think he did it because he wanted to— he wanted me to feel low about myself, like, so that I stick around him because, like, no one would— I don't know, I just feel like he'd try to, um, use— I was naive and young when I met him, so I feel like he tried to take advantage of that and manipulate me. It made me feel low about myself.

Now let's talk about the, let's talk about the physical abuse if you're okay. Are you okay with that? Okay. So obviously you terminated baby one because you loved him. How long after you guys started dating is when, when did the physical abuse start?

The first time it ever happened, um, which was not even like that long into the relationship because I met him February and then, um, it was probably like the beginning of May because we were at Meek Mill's birthday.

Okay.

Uh, he had like a mansion party and, um, We went, but while we were there, we— I was sitting here and then Puff and then Meek, but I was like covered with like, um, like a stand or something. Like probably says like happy birthday Meek or something like that, but it's like a little stand that like was covering me because there was like a lot of cameras and stuff there. So it was like me, Puff, and Meek. Puff had like leaned forward to like talk to somebody, say hi or whatever. And so I turned over to Meek and I said, happy birthday. He put his hand out and he was like, thank you. So I reached his hand and shook it. And as I shook Meek's hand, he turned around and saw it and he got so mad.

Wow.

And, and then we probably like stayed like 20 minutes after that happened. And then when we got in the car, he like grabbed my hair. We were in one of those Escalade trucks.

Okay.

So I was sitting on this side. He was on the other side and he like grabbed my hair and like cussed me out for doing that. He was like, why the fuck? Can I cuss? Yeah. He was like, why the fuck you like, you shaking his hand for? Like, just saying.

So it was like a jealous rage.

Yeah. I was like, I was just saying happy birthday. Nothing else. He thought— I think he thought I was trying to be sneaky behind his back because I like reach over when he like leaned forward to talk to somebody else. So he thought I was trying to be sneaky.

And you were how old at this time?

Um, I was 22 probably.

Wow. Okay.

Um, and then, um, he did this. So King Los was sitting in the back Okay. And then when we got to the hotel, it got even worse. And he like, he like tried to— he took one of my heels and tried to throw it at me. And then he like, like mushed my face and like really hard and made my nose bleed.

Wow.

And the only person that ever— every time, I mean, he like we get into like fights like that, the only person that ever helped me was, um, D-Rock. Everyone else just kind of just allowed it to happen and just like looked the other way.

So most of his entourage were, I guess, enablers?

Like his staff?

Yeah. Or—

yeah.

And they wouldn't say anything? They would just watch him?

Not, not watch it, but kind of just walk away and just let leave us alone and not really step in to, um, stop.

Wow. Now, what made you stay? Because obviously there's baby number 2, and then there's more beatings according to you that happened after that, because that was just the first time. What made you stay?

Um, because I just thought Um, um, I just thought that he was only being like that because he loved me. Um, get you a tissue.

I don't want you messing up your makeup, okay?

I'm sure you've shed enough tears about this, so Cause, I mean, I grew up watching my mom get beat by my dad, so that's all I knew. So I just thought it was normal and I thought it just mean he loved me.

Do you know most domestic abuse victims, abuse victims don't talk about their abuse? They're ashamed of it. They feel like as if they've done something to deserve it.

Yeah, I felt that.

Let's talk about baby 2. When did baby 2 come?

Um, last— wait, yeah, last year in August.

So talk about that conversation. You're pregnant, you tell him. And this is obviously after 6 years of you guys being together.

And mind you, it wasn't my fault that I got pregnant. I told him because I have like this period app and it tells me when I'm ovulating and stuff. So I told him like, I told him that I'm ovulating, so don't do it. But he just did it anyway. And then I got pregnant and, um, he like Okay, just get an abortion. Like, no hesitation. But this time was harder for me because I had been with him for so long and I was like really in love with him and, and, um, part of me wanted to keep it, but he didn't want it, so Um, we had agreed to, um, get it, but I only agreed to it because he told me to. Um, then we went to Turks and Caicos like a couple days later. Um, and during that time he was like giving me drinks, like alcohol, like giving me drinks to drink. And I was just like, I'm not comfortable. He was like, he was like, you're gonna get abortion anyways. And, um, but he was like kind of being distant and distant towards me during the whole trip. And when we came back Um, he had like— when we came back on Sunday, because we were there for a whole week, um, he— we were gonna do it that month, that next day, Monday. So when we came back from Turks on Sunday, he had like left me to go meet up with, um, Cassie. So he kind of just left me there for like, for like half the day. And I was like, how are you gonna leave me when you want me to do this thing tomorrow? And he was just like obviously making excuses why he had to go.

And this was just last year.

Um, so what— so because he left on Sunday, I was like I was like, I'm not doing this tomorrow. Like, I need some time to think. And so I told him that. I was like, I need time to think about it some more. Like, I'm not comfortable. And he was like, well, then you can get out my house. Like, you're just being mean to me. He was like, I, I did this and this and this for you, and And now you're not gonna— you told me you was gonna do it, now you're not doing it anymore. Like, you could get out my house.

Wow, that's a lot to go through. I just couldn't imagine being like forced to get rid of a child, you know, especially if I'm under the impression that I made this child out of love.

Like, and not only that, when I, when I, um, had the second abortion He, um, I had to go home like the next— I had to go home 2 days later because he had to go on a trip to Burning Man.

To Burning Man?

To Burning Man, which is in Nevada. It's like a festival in the desert.

Okay.

So I had to go through that and then he went to Burning Man. And just, he just left me like fucked up. He didn't like it because you don't have service in Burning Man because it's just a desert. So I couldn't get a hold of him or like he can't or his texts weren't coming through. But like, I was just at home by myself, just, just fucked up in my head. And, and he didn't even care. Like, if it was me, I mean, it was like, if, if he had to do something like, something traumatic like that for me, like, I wouldn't just leave him and go on a trip.

Anything could have happened to you and you couldn't get in contact with them.

Yeah, he like just, I did that and then he goes and leaves me.

Besides the first time where you said it was like at Meek's party and he grabbed your hair and stuff like that, like, um, can you name a few more instances?

The other time was, um, he had caught me texting another man. We was in Miami and, um, it got really crazy that time. Uh, We was upstairs and he had like, we were in his closet and he like pushed me and I fell to the ground. And then he got, he like stood over me. So I was like laying on my back and he stood over me and he started like punching me like this. Like he avoided my face, but he like started punching me like on the side of my head. And I was just like covering my face. And, um, he did that, he did that. And then, and then after he got done doing that, he like— because he was standing, his legs were like staying in between me, so he like, he like stomped on my stomach like really hard. And I like took the wind out of my breath. I couldn't even— I couldn't breathe. And he kept— but he kept hitting me. And I was like pleading to him like, can you just 'Can you stop? I can't breathe.' And he like stopped for a little bit. He, um, he like grabbed my hair from the back and like was, um, like punching the back of my head because he was just avoiding my face when he was like hitting me.

Wow.

The last— and then the last, um, the next big fight we got into was, um, I can't remember if it was like the, um, in November or beginning of December of last year. Um, at that point, like, at that point I was like fighting back because I just had enough of his shit. And, um, he kept like pushing my buttons and I was just like trying to like calm the situation down before it got worse, and he just kept pushing me and pushing me. And then so I left his bedroom and I went down to like the meditation room. It's kind of like a guest house, like it's like separate from his house. And, um, and he followed me there. He followed me there and he like continued talking shit to me and I just got to the point where I was just so angry that I like took a bottle of Daylion and then I like smashed it on the ground. And he was like, he was like, you bitch, you did that at my house with my kids here. Bitch, my kids is here. And then I ran out the mediation room or— Yeah.

Meditation room.

Meditation room.

Okay.

And he chased after me. He pushed me to the ground outside and, um, he took my hair and like was dragging me across like the grass in my hair, with my hair. And then, and then, um, after that, and after that, like a couple hours later, like we had— it was the weekend, so we had people coming over and, and he just like acted like nothing happened. So, um, I mean, but that's all the time, like every time.

Now when you say acting like nothing happened, like what were his mannerisms?

Like he was just dancing and like laughing and talking to me like, like we just didn't just get into a physical fight.

Wow. When was the last time, um, He, I guess you said he put hands on you. When was the last time?

It was like in November or December of last year.

Of 2018?

Yeah, that was the last time.

And tell me about that incident.

That incident, um, that was the, um, meditation room.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay, okay, that's a lot. Um, Let's talk about the other girls, one in particular, Cassie, because he was very public with Cassie. And according to you, you guys, you actually met him when he was with Cassie.

Yeah.

So could you explain to me how this like came to be and what made you stay even though he was with Cassie? What was he telling you?

Um, when I first met Puff, I did not find him a— I didn't like him like that.

Okay.

Um, um, but eventually, like, he grew on me because after I met him in Miami, he invited me to All-Star, which was like the week after, like Valentine's Day, around Valentine's Day. Okay. Um, so I went to All-Star.

Talking to the mic.

Oh, sorry.

You know, you're good.

Um, so I went to All-Star and, um, And then after that, like, we just kept hanging out. And, and after only a month, he told me he loved me. And I was like, no, you don't, because I thought that I would— if anything, I thought I would be the first one to feel like that. Um, so I didn't believe him. And then, um, after that, I was like, maybe he does love me. So he's he, like, grew on me more and more. And, um, he, like, would do all these nice things for me, and that is what kept me around.

Okay, and you knew about Cassie?

Yeah.

Okay, now, um, did Cassie know about you is the question?

She did, or she knew about me, like, 4 months into the relationship.

Okay, and how did you find out about that Cassie knowing about you?

Because she, um, reached out to me.

Oh, she did? What did she say? Um, on Instagram or just—

No, text.

Okay.

Um, basically she just said to just leave him alone.

Okay.

But then— but she reached out to me like a few times after that, and, and she's always— she was never like nasty to me. She didn't call me names or nothing. She was always nice. I don't know if it was fake or not, but she was always nice.

Okay. Okay. And so what was your response?

She told me, like, the last time I spoke to her, which was like a couple of years ago, she told me she was like, she called me at like 4 in the morning and was like, hey, I just had a dream and I just wanted to call you and tell you that I don't have I don't hate you. I don't have bad blood towards you or anything like that.

Let's talk about the women, because obviously, like, um, you know, of course we know you said it was definitely you and Cassie, but were there others?

He's always told me that it was just only us two, but I don't believe him because I always catch him like texting other girls and stuff like that. Um, um, so like after my abortion, it was this girl named Jordan. Um, I mean, it was girls before that, but it's like after, after, after the abortion, it was just like too much for me to handle. And it was just like Jordan and then And then the Jocelyn girl, and then the cat girl, and then, um, just recently Lori Harvey, Steve Harvey's stepdaughter. Yeah, I, um, we was here actually here in Atlanta for Super Bowl. He invited me, um, to come and I did, and we were staying at this house he rented out, and we were having parties the whole weekend, and she had came over, and I noticed that they were gone for like a long time, and I was like looking everywhere for them, asking like everyone if they've seen him, and everyone just told him no. But then like I remember like I like turned around and I saw him, and then I looked this way and then I saw her, like they reappeared together. I mean separately, but like reappeared at the same time because I was looking for her too at the same time I was looking for him because I suspected that he like snuck away with her. And now, um, now she's like at family functions and like he invites her to his event events and stuff in Miami, and they was just in Virginia not too long ago.

Wow. Now, I know you had mentioned there was pictures of girls that you found, like naked photos of, of girls and stuff, like while you guys were together.

Like his nanny or whatever.

This—

her name was like Nikki. She— I saw like her sending him pictures of her um, vagina to his phone. And, and I asked him, I was— and he was like, well, what do you expect? You're fucking with a rock star. Like, that's the— that's what he would say to me.

A rock star?

Yeah.

Wow. Okay.

Um, or superstar, whatever he said.

What about, like, of any other— of the women that you just named?

Oh, um, and, and, um, on my birthday Um, he had showed me a picture of me and him, um, that the, like, the first pic that we ever took. And I was like, you should save that as your screensaver. So, um, he was like, I don't know how. So I was trying to show him, and, um, I saved the picture to his photo album on his phone, and then I clicked on the photo album to, like, set it as a screensaver, and I saw a picture of him and Lori, like the same exact pose.

What do you mean?

I mean the same exact pose that he took with me.

Okay.

And he did the same with Lori.

Were they clothed or not? No, they weren't clothed.

No.

Lori Harvey.

I mean, I didn't see the whole body. I just seen like up here, up. I mean, like, okay, like from her chest and up.

And did you ever have any problems with, with Lori? No, I don't have any problems with her or any of the other women, because I know you said Cassie was, of course, very respectful, but she still wanted you to step back.

Yeah, no, um, I mean, it makes me angry a little bit, but I know that it's not their fault. So I don't have any, um, I'm not angry with them.

Wow. Now I kind of hate to bring this up, but if Diddy is messing with Lori, wasn't his son Justin messing with Lori as well?

I'm not sure what their relationship was, but I know that, um, Justin was trying to talk to her when we were here at Super Bowl.

Wow. So does his family know about you? Have you met his family? Have you lived in the houses? Because I know he has a few houses and things like that.

No, I never lived in his house, but yeah, I know his whole entire family.

Okay. And so the family knew about you and Cassie at the same time?

Yes.

Okay. Now, did you ever, I guess, feel any sort of anger towards Cassie? Never.

I mean, I felt like a little jealous, like, like wishing that I could do the things that she get to do with him, you know, like events and stuff.

Did you ever talk to Diddy about that?

Yeah.

And what did he say?

He don't care. I just had to play my position.

What type of— did he ever talk to you about him and Cassie's relationship?

No, he always spoke highly of Cassie.

Did Cassie know about your pregnancies, do you think?

No, no one knew until now.

Okay, so the video is out. Everyone obviously knows while watching this interview that, um, You did upload the videos out of spite to actually prove that you and Diddy had a relationship. So when you did come forward, um, there was actually receipts. Um, how did Diddy react to you uploading the videos, being that you guys weren't on speaking terms and he's always kept you out of the public? Public?

Um, I didn't speak to him that day. Because I guess he had surgery that morning. And then when he woke up from his surgery, he was like, what's going on?

Like, surgery?

Oh, he had a surgery.

Okay.

Yeah. He was like, what's— I only know this from his son because he called me like, or whatever. But I guess he was like, what's going on? Like, I just woke up. I didn't do anything.

Mm-hmm.

He never does anything.

Okay, now you said there was a text message that you received from him.

Oh yeah, so I hit him the next day though, and I said, um, hey, I just want to let you know that E! News reached out to me, and that's all I said. And he responded and said, TMZ is working on a story with you and Tristan Thompson. And I never even met Tristan in my life.

I want you to be clear with that. Wait a minute, so he responded?

He responded and said, TMZ is working on a story with you and Tristan Thompson, LOL.

Harvey, Harvey, Harvey, put that camera on me. Harvey, so you've never met Tristan?

I've never met Tristan.

Okay, and Harvey was gonna put together a story for Diddy to make it seem like you guys were no longer together because you were obviously messing with Tristan. So he was going to create a scandal is what you're saying?

I guess.

How'd that make you feel when you heard that? I mean, they always using Tristan Thompson for something. I really believe they used Tristan Thompson to get Jordyn Woods out of that Kardashian clan. Like, if you ask me, they plotted that. You know what I'm saying? It was just way too close to home. Like, ah.

It was like, it was like, I felt, I mean, it wasn't like nothing new to me that, 'cause it's like, now that I know Puff, I was like, he would do some shit like that to me 'cause he's done so many fucked up things to me. But it's just like I posted a video of us loving each other, you know. It's not like I, I didn't say anything. I just posted videos and pictures of us loving each other, nothing else.

And why do you think he, I guess, seems like he was trying to fix it? Why do you think he was trying to fix it?

Fix?

Like, I guess this, you know, this fix, I guess the publicity that was surrounding the videos and pictures that you uploaded. Why would he say to you that TMZ is trying to fix, like, I guess is working on a story because obviously he's trying to fix it. Why do you think he would try to shut it down? I mean, we're under the impression he's single and being like, You know, the best dad of the year, of the century, you know?

I mean, he talks to other girls, so I don't know if he's telling other girls that he's single, and I don't know what he's saying to other girls. Maybe he's trying to hide that from the new girls.

Okay. Okay.

I'm not sure why he— it's such a big deal if he's single.

I notice you shake, like, when you talk about this.

It makes you nervous a little bit. I mean, it's, um, because it's just because I really, I really did love and care about him. Like, it was like unhealthy because, um, it was— I say it's unhealthy because It was like I didn't care about myself because I just care about him, and I would do like selfless things for him, and then, um, I wouldn't get anything reciprocated. But then I would watch him like treat other women better than he treat me.

It still bothers you.

It does because it's, I mean, it's still fresh. You know, the last time I seen him was in April. I mean, it's been months, but I think I never had a man put his hands on me. So, um, it's like he put his hands on me and made me feel Like, it was always like a push and pull with him. It's like he would pull me close to him and push me away at the same time, which confused me. And I don't know, it just hurts.

The other night when we spoke, you said that, um, in addition to you saying that you, you honestly thought that this was what love was And I mean, that really broke my heart. I mean, it's not too many things that make me like choke up. But when you said that, it really— I mean, I just laid down thinking like all night, like, wow, you know, like, just to really hear you say it, it's like you believed it. You know that this is what love is. Yeah, I was so young, you know. Um, you mentioned because he had, you mentioned to me that he had done good things as well as bad things. And those bad things were the beatings that you allege and things like that. And so I wanted to ask you, when you compare those good things, because you shared with me, like, he's of course helped you move. I guess giving you gifts and things like that after our conversation, because obviously you're here now because you had to think about it because you weren't sold on coming to tell your story. Yeah. What made you change your mind and come forward?

He had cut me off. Okay.

When did he cut you off?

He cut me off beginning of May this year. Yes, this year he cut me off. And, um, and so I was just gonna like move on gracefully and like just let it go. And like, because I'm not like a petty, spiteful, malicious person. I was just whatever, you know. But then he like keep reaching out to me, hit me up on Instagram. I blocked his number, so he was just hitting me up on Instagram saying like, I miss you, I miss you, call me. So finally, you know, I relapsed, and because I was missing him too, and so I reached out to him. I texted him like, hey, And we were talking like, hey, how are you, type of stuff. And, uh, and then it like— the conversation went left like it always does. It went left. And, um, he was like, you're just— you're so disrespectful, like you don't know what you did. Like, I've been helping you, helping you so many years, um, you and your daughter, and that's how you treat me. And, and he like not once mentioned or acknowledged anything that he's done to me. And it's like I just had enough. Like, I don't know, it just, it just angered me what he was saying. And I was like, you need to be held accountable for your actions because I'm not the first and maybe not the last person that you're going to do this to. Everyone else had let you or allowed you to, um, just get away with it, including me. And you, you know, you need to be held accountable for your actions. And maybe hopefully this will prevent him from doing it again to another woman. And I know that And another reason why I want to do this interview, because I know that there's plenty of girls out there who are young and naive and didn't know no better like me. And, um, that's what old rich men prey on and try to manipulate them and abuse them. And, um, whoever's watching this, I hope like it opens up your eyes to the real truth, like Yeah, he could say he loves you and this and that, but, um, if he's putting his hands on you, that's not love.

Did you ever— did you ever, I guess, call the police or— never?

No, because I mean, I was scared.

Did he ever threaten you, like, if you were to say something?

Um, not that I could think of right now, no.

Okay.

I think he just knew that I wouldn't.

So explain, because I know a lot of viewers are going to be asking, because obviously the videos told a different story. They were under the impression that everything was all good between you and Diddy, and then when I got the call that, no, this was something that you intentionally did. And I just kind of want you to explain why you uploaded the videos of you and Diddy making out. And now everyone's under the impression that you guys are like this new couple, but this has actually been history. I mean, this is history between you two.

I did it out of spite because During the whole relationship, he made me feel like he loved me so much, and like, he made me feel like we had like a special friendship and all that stuff. And like, but like, no one thinks that. Like, I would get hate messages all the time, like, from like fake pages And that's— and I was just sick of it. And I was sick of him.

When you get hate messages, what would they say?

Like—

So obviously there were some people that knew about you guys, just not the public.

Yeah.

Okay, so what were some of those messages that you would get?

Like, stop messing with him. 'You know he's with so-and-so, and you know he's texting so-and-so, he's liking so-and-so's pictures. You think he cares about you? No, because he's talking to plenty of other girls.' Like, I would just always get those kind of messages.

How do you feel now getting this out right now?

I feel I feel good. I feel like I said it, you know, because I kept it all in to myself. I didn't— I mean, I had friends to talk to and I would tell them, but I feel like they never really understood me. I mean, they're, they're from Nebraska, so they don't, they don't know.

They—

and so I kept it to myself a lot, and It was driving me crazy, and now saying it, I feel, um, I feel freer, more liberated.

Okay, that's good.

Yeah.

Now, are you under any sort of therapy right now?

No, but I do want to start To talk to a therapist.

Okay. We can help you out with that. Like, you know, putting you in contact with some therapists in Las Vegas. Because I do think being that you experienced that, you know, it's like you were a child and you were, you know, in a very toxic environment and then you go into the relationship thinking that this is normal because this is what you were raised to see and think it was okay. So moving forward to make sure that you don't make the same choices that you made, okay? And you'll be able to recognize the signs of when you see someone who carries those traits. Therapy will help you to really kind of pinpoint those factors and uncover you so that you'll be able to choose someone that will be able to fulfill your needs and love you like you should be loved because you got a beautiful little girl.

Thank you.

She's so full of life and we want her to keep that, that life energy. you know what I'm saying? Because those are our few, that's our future, you know. I have a daughter as well, and, you know, I make sure that I protect her because I want her to always keep that fire and that spark when it comes to life. And everything that you do, she will see and feel. She may not ever be there, but she can feel it when Mommy's sad and when Mommy's happy. So we need to make sure that Mommy is always happy or able to cope when she's not to make her daughter feel like this is okay, this is a part of life, and we're going to get through this.

He's hit me in front of her once.

Oh, shit. He hit you in front of your child?

Mm-hmm.

Now I wonder how many women he's probably hit in front of his kids.

None. Because, because He don't want them to see him like that.

He has daughters. Like, why? That type of karma is real. You know, they may not be able to see daddy doing it, but they'll be able to feel it. You can tell, you know. And let me ask you something. When you said that he hit you in front of your daughter, How did she react?

She was 3 at the time. And so when, when it was over, we went downstairs because we were at his house. So we went downstairs and she was like, she calls him Poppy and she's like, Poppy hit you. And she said that in front of one of the house managers and she heard it. And I think someone, like, I'm sure someone said something to him because that was the only time that ever happened in front of her.

Is there anything you want to say to him? You want to look at the camera and say to Diddy?

I don't know. I just feel like—

If you had, like, if this was the last conversation that you guys would ever have, like, and obviously I'm sure You know, being on the phone with each other, you guys obviously don't get each other's point across. But when you do stuff like this, this is like writing a letter. You know, that's one thing I've learned going through therapy is when you write a letter, not only do you get to get it out, but the other person, there's no dialogue to go back. So they only have to hear you. So this is your moment for like your letter.

That's funny. I've, I've, I've tried to express how I feel so many times to him through text. I write like paragraphs, tell him on the phone, in person. I even wrote letters to him.

Mm-hmm.

But it like never changed.

Well, I want to thank you. For having the courage to come forward because I don't think, and I don't think you realize your power now that you possess, but I'm sure there's, if this has happened, I'm not saying if, being that this has happened to you, because this is your story and I'm not going to sit here and tell you that you're lying. This is your, this is your story. You know? I'm sure that there are a lot of people that are going to be thanking you, and it may not come out the way that it should, but just know that this is the first step to taking your power back, you know.

Mm-hmm.

And the more you own that, the less people will try you because they don't know, you know? So you're a very beautiful girl. You have a beautiful daughter.

Thank you.

Do you have anything, like, you know, being that you were, I guess, with Puff for so many years, what type of things are you working on now that you guys are, like, separated?

Right now, I just became the official face for Hemp Water Lifestyle.

Hemp Water?

Yes.

Okay.

10 milligrams of CBD in it. Tastes pretty good.

Nice. Nice. Congratulations.

Thank you.

So look at you coming out, speaking your truth. You know what I'm saying? Claiming, owning your power. Now you got endorsement deals and you don't need none of his money.

Nope.

That's what I'm talking about. More to come too. More to come. More to come. Put some money in my pocket. Look, listen, girl, get it while you can. Okay. Get it while you can.

Listen.

Exactly. Well, um, is there anything else you want to share to the viewers so that they can get to know you? Because I'm sure that you're going to be— this is, this is not going to be the first time you're going to tell your story. Because there, I think, um, uh, in this industry, especially with Hollywood and this business of entertainment, there are just so many girls like you, like you said, and they don't say anything because one, they're scared, and there's other reasons. They want to get ahead. They think that they're not going to be able to make it, but for you, you are walking testimony that there is life after this. And so now you, you have a manager who's helping to solidify deals for you to move on with your, to move up with your modeling career. And so would you be open to speaking at like different like functions to kind of talk to girls who have like been through abusive relationships such as yourself, especially with high-powered being in, you know, relationships with high-powered people?

Yes, of course. I, I want to help women. Okay. You know, I like to help. It makes me feel good. So, um, that's another reason why I wanted to do this interview, because I know that there's women out there who would watch this and it would give them light, you know, maybe, and open their eyes to like a different perspective.

And I want to say this, and I'm just going to say hypothetically, what if the reason Cassie wasn't mean to you is because she was going through the exact same thing? Did you ever think about that?

I'm not sure. I'm not sure what she knew about me, but I'm pretty sure she could feel me in a way because she even was like, um, I don't— because when she said, I don't have no hate towards you, um, I, I've been in your position. She said that to me.

So yeah, yeah, because I think the crossover was between her and Puff. Yeah, Kim. So, um, but she seems happy now and she's pregnant fast. And so yeah, that's what I'm saying. And so like, just for her to be in a relationship that long and then to only be in this short relationship with her new guy, and now she's pregnant. So I think the reason, and I'm just saying hypothetically, let me speak for her. I'm glad that she was never disrespectful towards you because I'm sure that she kind of understood maybe this girl is going through the same thing that I'm going through. Maybe she's scared or she's probably being hit and things like that. And so—

Maybe, but she definitely did want me to stop talking to her man.

She did. Okay. I'm just trying to play the good guy here. I always personally believe that I think people who date the same people should eventually talk because it's like, you know, I say this all the time on my show. You may want to hate that ex, but that ex will have some information that could possibly be beneficial to you. You'll be surprised at how many girls will find out things or be trying to, or, you know, exes will try to tell the new girls things and they don't listen and then they find themselves in that same situation. So I'm always like, Hey, just listen to him.

Yeah, no, I don't have no ill feelings towards his exes or his new girls.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Okay, that's good. You just moving on.

I'm just glad it's over.

Okay, Virginia V. All right, y'all heard that. That is Virginia V's truth. Okay. I mean, that takes a lot of courage to come out against Diddy. I mean, for real. And it takes a lot of courage to do the interview against Diddy because I'm like, hey, if you out there putting your hands on people and forcing girls to abort babies and stuff, that you are like, no, I'm sorry. We're not doing that. So thank you. Thank you.

Thank you.

Do you feel good?

Yes, I do.

All right. So I do my signature outing. Is there anything else I need to add before we cut this interview?

Oh, no.

No, thank you very much for having me. Okay. Tell everybody where they can find you and follow you.

You can follow me on Instagram @ginahuynh. H-U-Y-N-H.

Okay. All right, cool. And I will definitely be sharing your profile in the description box of the video. So if you want to follow her, ask her some questions, maybe you want some advice, if you're in the same situation as, as Gina has been in. So you're open to talking?

Yes.

To other girls in your DM, or are you gonna go live?

And yeah, I probably will.

Okay, okay. I hope to see your face out there more. I'm sure TK gonna handle that. Okay, now I'm gonna do my signature outing. All right, now I gotta go. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I. Yes, I.