HAPPY HOUR | Live Call In Show

All right, listen, I forgot to turn on my mic. Jasmine, I got it, I got it, I got it. Remember, moderator's no flop even if anybody asks, okay? Jasmine, we got to get you in studio, girl. I keep forgetting to unmute myself, and so hyping the viewers up, it doesn't— it's not the same when I'm not backstage, like, you know, like the DJ getting people pumped up, you know what I'm saying? So I apologize, guys, that I just got in here. How are you guys doing? Hello. Hey, Pable. Hey, Cameo. Hey, Keisha. Hey, Bridget. So listen, it's Tuesday. We don't have any— like, I'm not going to say we ain't got nothing special going on, but today is all about you guys. All right. So, you know, we have these shows where it's just all about us. You guys get to write in, you get to call in, and you pretty much get to ask me anything. But how to start a YouTube channel. Please, guys, please. Okay, like I said, I am creating something for that specifically for you guys. But anything else, it's game on. You guys can ask me anything that you want to ask me. All right, whose 50th birthday is it today? Happy birthday, Miss Jackie. Okay, happy birth— early birthday for 5th. Okay, so listen, while you guys are getting on up in here, And for those of y'all that don't understand what this day is about because you're used to celebrity gossip, which we'll be doing that tomorrow night, this is happy hour. This is all about us. So you guys get to call in, you get to write in, you get to vent, you get to ask your questions. You know what I'm saying? You get to get clarity on them. And we find answers to what we need. Okay. And so while you guys are still getting in here, while you guys are hitting the link, while you're emailing me, so if you do want to ask a question but you don't want your voice out there, or your face out there. You guys can email me right now. It's coming to my phone. unwindwithtashak@gmail.com. unwindwithtashak@gmail.com. Or you can call in using the link that's pinned in the chat. Okay. And you guys can call in and ask your questions. Just wait patiently backstage. All right. And so, and we will call on you as you come. And like I say, you do not have to show your face. We'll just let you— we'll just let your voice on. All right. And so listen, we're going to go ahead and roll these ads because that's how we get paid. That's why we don't beg from the winos. All right. We got some sponsors that we need to brag about, which means boldly raise a glass to. When I get back, I expect to have you guys waiting backstage ready to answer, ask questions or reading emails. unwindwithtashk@gmail.com. Let's go. Rockstar Wireless. We, we get it. Times are tough right now, and the last thing you need is a long-term commitment with a wireless carrier for an upgrade with the same features. Congratulations, Rockstar Wireless has your back. Stay connected with America's fastest growing wireless network. 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Left or right can determine the rest of your life. Who the fuck is you talking to? Don't walk away from me. Back the fuck up. We need some help. Nail beds, bitch. Nail beds. What the fuck is you doing? Oh my God, I think you've been shot, man. Ain't nobody shoot that girl. Yes, this nigga Corey shot me. Watch this full program and other exclusive content on www.tashaklive.com. All right, and we're back, we're back, okay? So remember, this is happy hour. Ask me anything but how to start a YouTube channel. Okay. Like I said, we're creating something specifically for that. But right now, this is all about us. Okay. And so we got some people waiting backstage that we're going to get to. The link is in the chat. Moderators, make sure that you are sharing the link. If you do not want to call in, because like I say, you can, you can be anonymous by just using your voice. You don't have to, you know, put your face out there or anything like that. But Is it that if you want to call in, the link is in the chat. If you want to write in, you can email me via unwindwithtashak@gmail.com. It's coming right to my desk right now. Okay, and so if you're familiar with happy hour, let's get it. Okay. All right. So let's start with It's Possible. Hey, It's Possible, how are you? Tasha K, hey girl! Hey y'all! Hey boo, I forgot to even introduce Teddy and his white bitch. Uh, I ain't listening. Teddy's still on my couch. He could, um, get in her bed. He could stay on my couch. But listen, Tasha, listen, I heard something. Where you calling from? First of all, you got to rep your city. Broward County, Florida. Fort Lauderdale, Florida, baby. Okay. Yes. Representing the Broward County Shout Out. You gotta stop by the office sometime. You know, we in Broward now. Yeah, I got you. I got you. Okay, but listen. Question. I heard something, Tasha. I heard something. One point. 1.2 million. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Tasha, congratulations on winning your bankruptcy. Oh, thank you. I thought you said you won. Yes, sir. No, no, you, Tasha. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Jasmine, hit it for me, Jasmine. Hit it one time for me, Jasmine. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. She asking for the show music. I'm done. I'm done. You supposed to ask your question. What's your question? Yes. Okay, so the last time I came, you know, I was talking about immigration stuff and it ended up on one of the Bahamian, um, sites, and they— the comments, like, they really went in on me. So I just wanted to clear up like a few things, if that's okay. Yeah, for some reason the volume is like really, really loud. I don't know if it's on my end or your end, but it's distorting you just a little bit. Um, Jasmine, is that us or is that her? That's her. Okay, turn your volume down just a tad bit. Okay, okay, it's possible. Yes. Okay, go ahead and ask your question. So a lot of people were saying like they thought I was lying and, um, if my mom got her paper, she could have helped me. That is true, but I— when she got any kind of status, I was already over 18. And okay, hold on, let me get people some backstory because, you know, not everybody watches and they didn't watch the last happy hour that we did the call-in. Okay, so I remember your story verbatim. This is a young lady who was born— you were born here in the US. Your parents— I was born in the Bahamas. You were born in the Bahamas, so your mother brought you over here. Now she has citizenship, correct? Yep. But you don't have citizenship. Right. Okay. And under this new Trump era, you're nervous because you don't have, you know, a Social Security number to work. And basically your mom didn't tell you that you wasn't a citizen. Mm-hmm. But no, I'm not going to lie. She— I knew that I wasn't a citizen. And over the years, I got comfortable. Like, I was okay up until 9/11. But I'm not going to lie. Over the years, I got comfortable. I didn't have a problem finding good jobs. Like, if you see my resume, my resume is remarkable. The last job I had, I was a COO for a famous, uh, football player, very famous football player. He jumped ship with, you know, I was investing my little money, so he jumped ship on the business, and now I'm in this hole. But that's neither here nor there. The only thing that people did get right about my story is I did get too comfortable when I should have been serious. Here comes another good opportunity, now I'm invested in this opportunity. But if I was to really sit down and tell my story, my mom would face a lot of backlash. A lot. Like, I did nothing wrong to deserve to live like this. And when she did— I think the issue that we were trying to help you come to terms with was that you've never— you've never— do you remember living in the Bahamas? No. I came here when I was 4 years old. My first school was here. And so It's kind of like maybe even though your situation— because are you still homeless? Because you did tell me you were homeless. I am still homeless, but I did find a little bartending job. I took— I did take— okay, so you got a job. Okay, hit the wine glass for that. Yes, ma'am. Thank you. You got a job. Okay, so now we're making some money. So now you'll be able to get a place. But here's the thing. We were trying to figure out what is so bad about living in the Bahamas. Because everybody goes there to visit. Like, the Bahamas is like paradise. What's so bad about you going back to your country and living in the Bahamas? I don't think it's anything bad. It's just the fear of the unknown. But I can't really say anything bad about a place that I don't know nothing about. It's just I'm afraid of going to a place I know nothing about, meeting family that I literally don't know. Don't know your name, your face. I don't know who you are. So that's— I get that, but like, I don't want you to get comfortable over here and then you don't have the paperwork that you, you need, and then you're stuck in ICE for months waiting on a deportation when you could just set up things right now using your job for yourself. So when you do get to the Bahamas, you have money saved, which is the American dollar. Now they are on the pound over there, so it is a lot stronger. Okay. But also you're able to buy a house cash and you're able to start a business because they're built on tourism. I just kind of want you to have an expanded, just kind of outlook on things and not just like a dead end, like, oh my God, this is the worst case scenario. Because what if you return to your homeland? What is wrong with that? I'm thinking about that too. Like, I'm really thinking about what if I just, as soon as I get there, I hit the ground running and I've been sleeping on myself in America all my life. So I'm really thinking about it. Exactly. And I'm going to be honest with you, because you do speak English, you know, you are— you seem somewhat educated, right? You getting a nicer job in the Bahamas, like maybe a manager at a resort or something like that, and you're able to maneuver, or just working in the service industry or starting your own restaurant. I don't know what your skill set is, but like, you could really think long term with this because I'm going to be honest with you. I'm just going to— I'm going to give it to you all the way, 100. I'm not retiring in this country. Okay. I'm trying to retire somewhere like the Bahamas. You know, my great— my granddaddy from the Bahamas, so he's Bahamian. Am I Bahamian? I don't know. I am what my daddy is, and my daddy Black, right? But my grandfather on my mom's side is Bahamian. So we do have roots there. But what I'm telling you is, like, America is a factory. We have to clock in and stay clocked in. We cannot afford to leave our kids you know, take care of our kids. People can't even afford to have babies. People can't even afford to be housewives anymore unless people are making $200,000 to $300,000 a year. And even that, think about it, if you're making $200,000 to $300,000 a year, half of that goes to IRS, then you got your expenses. You never truly own your house, you know what I'm saying? Fuck around and don't pay a tax, you know, they coming to take that. I am not retiring in the US. And so my thing is like, You have an advantage being that you are a Bahamian citizen and that is somewhat paradise and you're able to have a more lax life, you know? Why don't you just prepare yourself to move over there and start a business and hit the ground running? Girl, you can win before all of us. I got to go over there and barter to try to get a citizenship. Damn. Well, I'm definitely looking into it since the last time I spoke to you. Like, my mind is open. Like, I just went and got me a job. Like, you know what? If they come, they come. But right now I got to eat. Eat and save your money. Save your money. Uh, uh, uh, Slink, what's the name of that site that you use when you had a roommate service, but it really wasn't a roommate service, you just had your own room and had your own keypad? It was like a mini Airbnb and you paid it weekly. Split Pad. They need to give me a, a contract. You heard of Split Pad? Uh, I heard that. Yes. And then you, as you're getting your tips as a bartender, move and split pad, save the rest of your bread and start researching what businesses— first of all, what your skill set is and what business you could take to your home country now and get it. And then here's the thing, in the process, who knows, you may meet an American citizen and you may fall in love, you may get married, and then boom, guess what? You got two citizenships. You got US and you got Bahamian. But I wouldn't rule out the Bahamas like as if it's like a dead-end space because white folks is getting money up over there. When I go over there, I want a Bahamian food. I can't find it because they serving fettuccine with lobster. When did Bahamians start serving fettuccine with Alfredo? Without Alfredo, period, right? No HOA, you understand? So it's split pad. Get you— and so you ain't got to be, you know, once your money start rolling in, get you a split pad. How much did you pay a week, uh, Slang, on average? Slang, how much did you pay a week on split pad? Less than $200 a week. Oh wow, okay, I'm gonna look into that. They got different prices. And these are nice houses. Okay. So, you know, don't, don't rule out your home country like that because I'm gonna be honest with you, Americans that were born here, we're tired. We're tired of being considered black. We're tired of being the last to show up and the last to be served. We're tired of having to work until we die. We want to live like everybody else. And when I go home to Africa, they got people waiting on them. and I need some people waiting on me. I'm tired. Yeah, that's true. Okay, okay. Now what were you saying they were saying that on the Bahamas thread? Real quick, and then we'll move on to the next person. Some people were saying that I was lying, that my mom could have helped me, I could have done this, I could have done that. But it, it's just not that easy. It hasn't been that easy for a long time, especially not My mom got her papers, I was already over 18, so I really couldn't do nothing. Okay, you ain't got nobody you dating, uh, and I'm sleeping in the car? No, I do not. I'm just saying, you don't know no— I wish I would know no gay male friends, child. You don't know no gay male friends? I do. Oh, oh, all right, Tasha. Don't say it, don't say it, don't say it. All right, Tasha, I was gonna say goodbye. Goodbye, Tasha. All right, have a good day. Y'all, the link is in the chat. Call in now, ask your question, anything but how to start a YouTube channel. It gets real up in here, okay? And I'm gonna give you the best, most realest advice that I can, and so will the winos, all right? You do not have to show your face, it could just be your voice, okay? And so use the link in the chat. And don't forget, guys, you can actually write in as well because I got a slew of emails right now. Y'all are really fast, very, very fast. This is happy hour. This is all about us. Okay. All right. So let's start with— hold on for a second. Hold on. Okay. Okay. All right. So we got a good question. This is from Mrs. Bruce. She wrote in. Okay. Remember, if you want to write in, unwoundwithtashak@gmail.com. She says, hi Tasha, how do you deal with conflict with you and your husband? I guess between me and my husband in the beginning of our relationship regarding differences in religious practices. That is a good question. So she's basically asking, because you know, my husband was born and raised Muslim and I am Buddhist. Okay, and so how is it that we've been together for 20 years You know, and still been able to serve, you know, two different religions. Okay, and so it's easy. We mind our business. We fell in love with each other based off of what our religions molded us into. And asking someone else— first of all, religion is about discipline. Let's just put this out here. Religion is all about what this does for you and what do you get out of it. Are you able to connect and talk to God this way, talk to Jesus, whatever it is that you believe in? Is this the religion that keeps you on the straight and narrow, that keeps you from slapping up? You know, do you have something that grounds you? And so I'm gonna be honest with you, I've always been attracted to not only African men but also Muslim men because their discipline is very, very, very alpha, and it's just giving real man dingo dick. You understand? And so it's like, I don't— he doesn't raise his voice. He's very soft-spoken. What he says is what he says. And me being a Buddhist, being sort of like a spiritual free spirit in terms of the spirit realm, which means I pretty much go within where my spirit guides me. And so you got to understand what high vibrations and low vibrations mean when it comes to that, because You know, a lot of people say my spirit will guide me into hypersexuality, but that's— sexuality is not a high vibration. Um, it's a sexual vibration, but it's not a vibration that yields, uh, things that you need in life. Okay? And so it's a pleasure vibration, so it's very different. And so— and well, I'm not going to get into that, but, um, he's always fell in love with me for the woman I was. I fell in love with him for the man he was. And when he goes off to pray 5 times a day Or 3, he does what he does. And when I'm chanting, my name, you don't get killed, he don't bother. Sometimes he'd be like, yo, go pray, please go pray, go do what you got to do. You know what I'm saying? So we just— we showed up as we were. And I think the more people start to get in that, instead of trying to make people who you are, try to put them in line with what it is that you like, instead of bringing differences together, and making something better, relationships would be on an up and up. And speaking of relationships, we have a relationship show. I need to stop calling it a dating show. It is a relationship show that we are filming starting this Sunday, and contestants are still needed because we're filming an entire season. So if you are interested in finding a relationship on our show, please email us at doyoulikemecontestant@gmail.com. Doyoulikemecontestant@gmail.com. Okay. All right. So that is a good question. Now on to the next person. Please remember the link is in the chat. You guys can call in and ask whatever it is you want to ask. All right, let's go. Born to Speak, how you doing? Hi, Tasha. Hey, moderators. Hey, Juanos. Oh my God, how are you, Tasha? Hello, so where are you calling from? I am calling from Greenville, South Carolina. Shout out to South Carolina! We just had South Carolina lit with that Renny Rucci wine. Y'all know they wild down there in, in Columbia, honey. They, they selling cooch and food out the same store. That's why I don't eat out. What's your question? Shout out to South Carolina. What's your question? Um, this is about your products. I, um, the mushrooms. Okay, okay. I'm allergic to get the Vitamix. I'm allergic to mushrooms. Then you can't eat them. I know, I know that. No, no, no, no, no, no. What I'm asking you Is— does that— the people that you get it from have something else that is comparable to that, or do you know of anything? I'm not trying to tell all my business, but let's just say this. I have thyroid issues. I have— I have RA, lupus, scleroderma. I just found out I have a dystrophy in my neck. And my muscles in my shoulders cannot hold up my neck anymore. And so if I don't wear my brace 24 hours a day, I can't breathe, eat, anything. And so I've been on this holistic journey, I would say, for about 3 years. I don't eat meat. I only eat fresh vegetables. And I'm doing everything I can, but my body's breaking down. The mushrooms, you saying that that's like a complete thing for the body, and I got the sea moss coming, but I don't know what else to do. Okay, all right, let me stop you right there. Let me stop you right there because, you know, I know, like, I love herbs and I love everything that we're serving, okay? And I'm able to get you the same things that I use that even my doctor tells me to use. But when you're having Loupe, it sounds like you have severe autoimmune issues. Yes. Okay. All right. Now, I'm not a doctor and I'm not going to play like a doctor, but I do read a lot of medical literature. Okay. And so when you are having autoimmune issues, there are tons of things that you are allergic to, which means your body cannot process. But also it means your body is not getting a lot of things, right? No, I'm— Vitamin D, B deficient, you name it, iron, everything. Exactly. Have you— so you've done blood work, you've done a blood panel? Yes. To your doctor and they told you how to supplement. They gave me the pills, but this is my problem. Anything I eat, my body does not absorb. So it's the same thing of breaking it down into my stomach. If I have to take a pill and I cannot even swallow good. Right? Because of the— it's called the distro— you know, distrofia of the neck is a drop head. You need liquid vitamins, and they have to be very potent. Right. And I have not found anyone that has that, you know, that I know of. Right. It's all weak. OK. So I'm going to be honest with you. There's another product, and I'm trying to get it on my— we're solidifying a deal for it right now. Here's the thing. It's all blended vegetables. It's very potent. I'm going to have to email it to you because I'm trying to get a deal with them right now. But I need you to take it to your doctor. It is sort of like a vitamin, but it's liquid-based. It is a vitamin, but it's liquid-based. But it's also meal replacement, which means one capful of this is a meal because your body has all the— has received all the you know, the nutrients and the vitamins and stuff that it needs within that cap. And I can take it, right? Especially if I'm trying to— I don't know, maybe I've gained too much weight and I used to do this in the past, gain too much weight. Instead of doing an Ensure that has milk and things like that, I would do a cap full of this and I got it from the Whole Foods store. You could get it from Whole Foods and things like that. Once I took that, I wasn't hungry for about 6 to 7 hours because sometimes 8, because it had everything that my body needed in terms of vitamins and minerals. Because when you think about it, when we eat food, we're eating food to extract the vitamins and minerals, right? We don't need a doctor to tell us this. So what's happening is because your body has severe autoimmune issues and a lot of things that you're taking in, you're probably not absorbing those vitamins and minerals. So you probably need to ask your doctor for intravenous vitamin. Okay, because you can go outside and get it. You don't even have to go through him. You can go outside and get it. Okay, I got that, but I am disabled. See, I'm completely disabled. You know, they don't give us a lot of money, and by the time I pay my bills, I don't have the extra money for that, that IV. Um, I'm not trying to sound like, um— no, I got you, I got you. I'm just trying to think right now, like, how could we do it? Because you would need this at least weekly, sort of like how people get liquid IV, like, hydration, right? And they give them to— they, like, if you're hospitalized, whenever you're having surgery and stuff, they'll give you a bag of liquid vitamins. And I don't understand why they make this so expensive for people to access the basic vitamins and minerals that they need. And you need them, like, You need them like yesterday. So yeah, because I can't walk. I can't walk anymore. Um, oh my God. Okay, do me a favor, email me. My, my sister is— she does, but she's in Jax. I don't know where you're, you're located at. And my sister— I have a sister down in Miami who will go and get it, or if it's something I need to pick up, I'm trying to get her to connect to her inner network, whereas Like, you can have somebody come in for like $30 and put a liquid IV in you. You sort of like— not a liquid IV, but a liquid, uh, vitamin in you once a week. And then you have to stay on the fruits and vegetables. No meat, no carbs, no sugar. That's fine with me. I only drink water. Okay. Alkaline. And it's gonna take months. I'll give you an example. I was having issues with, um, when I start— when I turned, uh, I told you I've always had issues with vitamin D because even though I live in Florida, we still as Black people don't get enough vitamin D, right? Right. And so we have to supplement. And I actually just signed a deal with a, with a, with a carrier that's going to offer us, because we are a Black audience, 10,000 IUs of vitamin D, period. So not 5,000, 10,000. And it's liquid-based. And so we're rolling that out in 2 weeks. So stay tuned for that. But here's the thing. So I started to walk with a limp and I thought it was due to me doing CrossFit, like, because I'm a CrossFitter, right? Like, I can— my child told me the other day, she was like, Mom, like, you're getting too big. I'm like, well, I haven't been in CrossFit. All I do is do my regular basic workouts. Now I take my creatine and stuff, but I build muscle easy. But in this, I'm thinking I hurt myself. So I'm like, you know what? Maybe I hurt myself doing squats. I don't know. Then my— this was my left leg. Then my right foot, it was hard to kind of do the flexibility. And I was like, what the hell going on? Right? So for months it went like this. I couldn't stretch it out. I was like, something's wrong. I'm limping. And then it got worse and worse and worse. So then I went to go get a blood panel and found out that I was 50% deficient in vitamin D. Yeah, I'm about 80. Yes, 50% deficient in vitamin A. And, um, there was some— here, I'll tell you right now. Give me a second, y'all, then we're gonna— I'm sorry, I just want to get this. I apologize. You good, you good, girl, you good. Hold on for a second, let me see if I can get it. Uh, what is the name of that place? I can't even think. But here's the thing, I was vitamin A, I was L-threonine deficient. And so I had to go to my doctor because there was not enough vitamin D on the market that I could get a hold of to get me back where I needed to be, because severe hydration along with vitamin D deficiency leads to arthritic pains, right? And bone breakdown. Yes. Yes. So I had him write me 50,000 IUs of vitamin D that I took weekly. I stayed in the sun. I took an additional multivitamin, which was the sea moss, because that's dense in vitamin D. Right. I actually had hydration packs that were vitamin D. Within— it took 3 months. Now, for you, it'll probably take a year. I've seen people, and I'm going to send you a video too, of a girl who was crippled. Yeah. And literally brought her body back to life because you have to have an abundance of amount of vitamin D. And I took that for 3 months. The, the ache is like, the limp is gone. The, the toe, the toes is working right. But my body was breaking down. Yeah. Show up like it's arthritis. Yeah. It shows up like it's arthritis. So email me. I'm going to help you as much as I can. I'm going to tell you exactly what to go tell your doctor because he's going to have to write you 50,000. He may have to— he may even have to write you 100,000 IUs of vitamin D plus a vitamin that you can take. So you're just going to have to get aggressive with them and tell them exactly what you need and take your blood work in there. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Okay. Email me unwindwithtashakay@gmail.com. And I'm gonna put you in contact with them people, and you gonna go in there and tell him exactly what you need. Okay, all right, I'll do that. Thank you so much. Love you, Wino. Thank you, okay. All right, no, gout is like crystals. I see what you're saying, it sounds like gout. No, gout is when crystals form, like calcium crystals forming your body. No, this is a muscle and bone breakdown from vitamin D. You can have severe gastric issues, headaches, fibro, all types of stuff goes wrong from you not having vitamin D as a Black person. And we need more. And then they tell us to use sunscreen. I'll be honest with you, I don't use no sunscreen. I use regular coconut oil and I'm fine. My mom and them have used it. And guess what? I don't have anything blocking the sun from getting to my body. When I need it, because the sun helps the body to make vitamin D. The most that you'll ever get, 40 minutes in the sun gives you 90,000 IUs of vitamin D, whereas a pill from a doctor, they'll give you 50,000. First thing they give a cancer patient is vitamin D. Why? Because their body needs it in order to fight. Like, seriously, the number is in the chat, guys. Not a number, it's a link. Hit the link. Okay, this is happy hour. Ask me what you want to ask me. I'm gonna read a question, then I'm gonna ask somebody else that's waiting backstage. Okay, I see you, Chrissy, you're next. All right, guys, um, let me see. Remember, write in unwindwithtashak@gmail.com if you want your question read. Also hit the link if you just want to call in and you could just be your voice only, okay? This is all about us. Y'all know these, these, these shows get tense, okay? All right, so dating with a disability. Hello, Tasha K, I would desperately love to speak to you over the phone, but I don't want my voice to be heard, so I'm sending you this email. That's okay, mama. I've been in a wheelchair for the last couple of years, still recovering from a malpractice surgery. And you should still be getting— waiting on your check, right? Okay, you should be waiting on your malpractice check. Okay. Um, I find dating extremely hard and I have experienced a lot of rejection. Normally I am the woman who gets hit on every day, everywhere I go, but now when guys see me in the wheelchair, it's maybe a turn-off to them, or they don't even view me as beautiful. Don't say that. That's not true. That's not true. Okay. I'm on a dating app and some guys accept my current situation and some don't. Do you have any suggestions as to how I should date or how to deal with rejection? It really saddens me and I do get depressed knowing that the rejection is at an all-time high in my life. Thanks for your response and be blessed. Okay. And so, um, this is a, this is a difficult one because This is all about you, and I don't think you should be dating anyone if your, you know, your self-esteem is rocked a little bit because of your situation. And so that's something that you have to deal with through therapy, and they should be providing that if they were the ones that put you in this situation, so that you can learn how to be comfortable in your new reality. So your reality is as now, and so it doesn't matter if a guy accepts it or not. You accept you. And that's what you got to get through to yourself. And that's going to come through therapy and through accepting this new way of life. Now, what you can do is you can join groups because I'm going to be honest with you, not that you are like, you know, when I, when I watch the Special Olympics, I ain't going to lie, like they inspire me. Because I'm like, shoot, they ain't got no arms, no legs sometimes. Like, how they doing all this? So when I'm on Instagram and I see people that are in wheelchairs that have maybe been shot or paralyzed and stuff and how they're able to still get up and do the things that they love and just, you know, push their bodies to do things that people with normal working limbs wouldn't do, this shit's inspiring on a whole nother level. And so I really think you just need to spend time with yourself more. To be inspired and find something that is that you love that maybe you should have done when you had your full mobility and you don't have it now. And so maybe you can challenge yourself to doing that, and that will help to build confidence and self-esteem. And then you put yourself around other people who are in sort of those character-building phases such as yourself and dealing with their new reality. And then you'll meet people that are in the same situation as you. Hell, you may even meet somebody that's not in the same situation as you, like my ex-roommate did. Because I had a roommate— and call me cheap, but I'm telling you, I've always been this way— I had a roommate that has cerebral palsy, okay? And this was back in my early 20s. Shout out to— I ain't gonna put a name out there, but here's the thing, homegirl never went without a man. Okay, her arms were bent up like this, um, she was to the side. And usually she was always dating her, you know what I'm saying, people that took care of her. And they didn't even try to take her for her checks or nothing. They was taking care of her, um, they didn't live with her. She didn't play that. But for some reason, homegirl got more dick than I got. That room was pissy because she couldn't wipe herself that well. I would have to go in there and clean. But when I tell you homegirl had men in there that was paying bills and she got to keep her whole disability check. It's all about character. I'm trying to make you laugh at the same time, but help you realize that your new reality is what it is, right? However, that doesn't have to be where it ends. And so before you start putting yourself out there on these dating apps, you, like I said, you need to build yourself up. Because what if you do get with somebody that sees you as weak, that sees you as vulnerable, and they want to talk shit to you? And, you know, you in a wheelchair and they think you helpless, and then they want to abuse you just because, you know, because abuse does go on. Like, because they feel like people can't, you know, defend themselves. And then you don't have the self-esteem to do it, and you start to believe the shit. No, build yourself up. Then you'll find somebody that inspires you. Because I see them all the time getting twirled around in wheelchairs, you know what I'm saying, by big husky men. Okay, you know what I'm saying? Because they just in love with the character and with the heart of the person. Okay, seriously. So put a hold on dick right now. Get your check. Get your character built, you know, get you a little bit of therapy. And then, girl, then you get out there, you gonna have dudes chasing down, running behind the wheelchair, baby. All right, moving on real quick before we move on. We got some people waiting backstage. Chrissy, you are next. Who else is next? Let me see, Jasmine, so they'll know. All right, because we do have to take a break, you know, when the advertisers get paid. Let me, let me scroll down real quick. Let me see Next, hold on for a second. Okay, we got Toya and Chrissy up next. 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Make the switch today at rockstarwireless.com. Earn your why. When I told you that I wanted us to change, I really meant that. Earlier when I was talking about the recent world That was just me being honest with you. I appreciate you being honest, babe, and opening up to me. I really want you to be happy. Listen, babe, you're my wife. You're my soulmate. And no one and nothing is going to change that. Okay, so listen, if we do do this, we got to have some rules. Definitely. You just say the word. Just listen. Rule number 1. Rule number 1. No one-offs. No. No sex, no dates. Nothing. Sounds good. This is for us. Rule number 2. Rule number 2. I feel comfortable if I pick her. But, but, I mean— OK, listen. We can pick her together. Oh, that's what I'm talking about. Yes. Yeah. Rule number 3. What's rule number 3? Go back to rule number 1. No one-offs. No one-offs. No one-offs. Absolutely never. And is there a rule? Is there a fourth rule? Watch this full program and other exclusive content on www.tashaklive.com. All right, and we're back. Okay, remember, if you want to see any of the movies that we're streaming here as promos, they are available on tashaklive.com. You guys do have to subscribe via the website to stream those movies. Um, it's $12 a month, not a lot. Okay, we're one of the cheapest, uh, streaming services out here right now, and we offer some really, really good content. Okay, and then you get to see me live over there and other creators as well. And you get to talk shit on the community board. Okay, and so we'll actually be live on TashaKLive.com right after this because we have a part 3 to Surviving Yo-Yo's husband Kelvin. Okay, one of his daughters is here after Kelvin came on the show saying he only got 8 kids. He's not claiming his second child that then came on the show to expose him. All right, and so we're going to be getting into that. If you're a wino and you're over there, then you know, you know, if you want to get caught up It is available on tashaklive.com. But Yo-Yo's husband is up in Yo-Yo out here. I'm be honest with you, they saying this dude got 40 kids and everything else, okay? They saying hide your wombs and hide your wallets, okay? All right, so, um, who's next? Chrissy, how you doing? Hey Tasha, hey Rhinos, how you doing? Where you calling from? I'm calling from the Bronx, New York. Shout out to the Bronx. What's the weather like up there right now? Um, it's getting nice finally. It's starting to break. Yeah, yeah, but it's that, that get sick weather though. Okay, cool, cool. So what's your question, Mama? Um, I have a, like, I have an entrepreneur slash marketing question if you can help. Yeah, sure. Um, I love the information, like, I love the, the advice that you gave about Jess Hilarious, how she went from being an entrepreneur to like doing a 9-to-5 thing, how it wasn't really for her, and you know, that kind of line. So me, I'm a hairstylist from New York, and about 2 years ago while I was in cosmetology school, um, I had a traumatizing situation happen where I had a hair loss situation from— yeah, somebody who was supposed to be— yeah, hello? Yeah, you had a what situation? A hair loss situation. A hair loss situation? Okay. Yes. But okay, this was supposed to be somebody who was supposed to be like a mentor. He's okay. So did she lose hair or did you lose hair? I lost hair. He was mentoring me. He was supposed to be training me while I was in cosmetology school. And I want— like, this was like a whole thing. This is like the Platinum Pixie stuff. I sent you an email so you could like check it out. I was like, this sounds like a story that I just got. Yes, you can check that out when you get a chance. So basically, this guy was supposed to be an educator. I wound up losing a whole bunch of hair, getting, getting alopecia, finding out that he did this to a whole bunch of other women. So of course, you know, I lose faith in the hair industry, but this was something that is like a big passion of mine. I love this. And through this, like, I found healing. So I still wound up finishing cosmetology school. And my question is, whether I should like put this situation behind me, or should I be like transparent and make this like a part of my mission? And if, if I do, how can I do that without like scaring potential clients off? Why would they be scared? Um, for me, I feel like, um, the situation was also on the news, right? So as a, as a Black woman this was a black hairstylist. This guy is like really, um, I don't want to say world-renowned, but like he's really like supposed to be a top hairstylist. So basically what happened is, is like I feel people will believe that it was me versus it was being this guy. So I feel like they will remember me from you. You do know that, right? I'm gonna pick your story up, so we just haven't had a chance call you. No, yeah, I appreciate that. No problem. Because I'm like, what do you mean platinum pixies and people losing hair and stuff like that? So yeah, that's right up our alley. So I'm going to, um, get my team, um, in contact with you because you left your contact details, and we're going to do the story. So, but as far as your question, so why do you— do you think they won't be like— I just think basically my situation is I've been growing my hair out for the past 2 years because I've had this hair loss situation. So when people like first take me on, they are like, oh, you know, well, can you grow your own hair? And I'm like, yes, I have been growing my hair for the past 2 years, but I have had this traumatic situation and this is what the— you know, like I have to explain the whole situation from the root, if that makes any sense. So is your hair like gone? Do you have like alopecia-like symptoms? It's not coming back? Basically, basically. So one, one, I will— you could— there's multiple women. He travels from Florida to New York and Jamaica. Multiple women have experienced the same situation. The news, my local news station picked this up, and that is where I feel like people will recognize me from, from that if I don't get in front of it and speak on it. Myself. So, okay, but like, I guess I'm trying to understand was how would it affect your business? Like, are you showing up? Like, like, I, I just don't get it. Like, if you know how to do it, you know, that's what I'm saying. I don't know how it would affect my business, and I just wanted to know like if I should speak on this situation. I say that because like you said, I have like alopecia-like symptoms. I'm growing out my natural hair, so fear that people will look at me and think that I can't do hair or grow hair because my hair isn't at its healthiest state, if that makes any sense. So I'm still on a growth journey myself. Okay, I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be honest with you, Christy. I think it's more of a security thing. It's probably got you, you're feeling a little insecure about being able to market your business in the hair business. Yes. Um, while having this issue. And so you have to turn lemons into lemonade, which means being all the way honest about what happened, letting that be your selling point. Or you don't have to tell them shit. I'm gonna be honest with you, some of the women that took care of my hair coming up never did their hair. Their hair was always fucked up, always, okay? And the reason their hair was always jacked up was because they was doing everybody else's hair. And so I just don't think it's a question of whether or not how your hair look, if you know how to take care of hair, then you know how to take care of hair, and you also know what not to do. Amen. So are you wearing wigs and things like that, or are you just showing up bald? Basically, I am, right? I, I love my hair short, so for me, I, I vary now between having it short, but I've been trying to grow it out for this purpose so I could say like, look, This is me on my healthy hair journey. You can always get a hair transplant, you know that, right? No, I did not know. I did— I did not know I could get a hair transplant. I was— but I've been trying to do it natural. So for me, I promote, like you said, wigs and hair extensions. Okay. I personally— and so that's the thing too, like, I mean, what is your niche? Don't you have a niche for your, your business when you do hair? Like, are you a pixie niche? Are uh, I don't know, lace front? Nick, what's your niche? I'm a natural hair stylist. Natural hair stylist as well as luxury hair extensions. So that's anything from sew-ins to micro links. But I do all of this not like in a way that it's not just to style your hair, it's also to maintain in your hair integrity type of thing. So it's perfect. Your whole branding Uh, goes a little something like this, like, because of what's happened to you using chemicals, you have now dedicated your life to doing natural hairstyles for people so that they don't have to go through what you went through. Yes, thank you. Yeah, no problem. Thank you. Anytime. Keep it that simple. Yeah, but yes, you got me sold. I was like, girl, I'm sitting down now. Everybody's asking why I got short hair now. Guys, listen. I have been fighting back and forth with my hairstylist, Keisha, because I am very active. When I get a relaxer, it lasts 4 or 5 days. When I get color, it doesn't last that long because I am always active. If I'm, if I'm not sweating from working out and biking, I'm swimming, I'm doing something active. And so I, I've always— when my husband met me when I was 23, this was my look. Okay, now, yes, I've grown my hair, cut my hair, grown my hair, but now I'm 43, and it's like the older I get, the, the more minimalist I become. And so me sitting in somebody's chair for 45 minutes to 2, 3 hours to get something that's going to last a couple days, that's over for me. And so this is Tasha, as you see. And as you will get. And this is going to be it. I may occasionally change the color, you know, but right now I'm giving the, you know, the colors a break and stuff like that because I am allergic to hair dye. But for the most part, I'm just, I'm just tired. For my whole birthday weekend, my hair looked like a small Jheri curl with a relaxer and the ends were straight, but the roots was curly because I was sweating the entire time going from island to island for my birthday. And it's hot. I'm sorry, I, I, I'm just over it. And I don't want to grow dreads, um, I don't want to wear weave. I'm allergic to weave as well too, it itches my scalp. Um, and so natural, this is what, this is what the universe is giving right now. So you either like it or you don't. But Mr. Shake loves it. He said it, it, it's, it's— he said he loves it. My hair's soft and it's beautiful. Thank you, boo. Thank you. I love it. All right, baby, good luck to you. Okay, thank you so much. No problem. You guys hold on backstage. I gotta read a question from the email real quick. If you guys want your question read, please, uh, write in unwindwithtashakay@gmail.com and ask your question. I love spending time with y'all. It's like, I just love it, you know. All right, so my question is, what is your take on the upcoming protest scheduled for April 5th? Do you think we should sit our ass at home? I am— what protest? Why you ain't say what the protest was? So I gotta come back to you. What protest? Okay, next question. First thing first, you give full complete Pisces energy and take control of your narratives. Of course. Okay, uh, she's basically saying that I'm Pisces and I'm in full energy. I really am, especially when you know what you know what you know, then you know. You got to be a Pisces to know. Okay, and so this happy hour idea is amazing. And add on, my question is, with everything that you on your podcast. Is there anything else you would like to venture into since you have the fan base established already? Oh my God, it's so much that I cannot talk about right now because— and the reason I don't talk about my ventures is because it's sort of like not everybody wants to do what I do, right? Let's just say I want to be a car salesman. And I go tell somebody I want to be a car salesman. Natural karmic energy, which means what you give is what you're going to get back, the yin and the yang, is that if I go to somebody that does hair and say, hey, I want to be a car salesman, naturally they're going to be like, why? Because— and you're going to be like, what do you mean why? Like, why do you want to sell cars? And they're going to question you, and they're automatically going to send doubt to you without even intentionally doing it. And people will call it hating, or people don't understand. It has nothing to do with that. It's just, it's not their purpose. It's not their reality. It's not what they're good at. So if someone is not good at that and it's not their walk of life, they're instantly going to reject what it is that you're saying. So it's best you show up in your full energy already into what it is that you're doing. So if you're a car salesman, you're already selling cars. And so if somebody asks you what you're doing, man, I sell cars for a living, they're going to be like, oh, you paying your bills? Versus I want to be a car salesman. They're going to instantly try to project what it is that they're not good at onto you because they're a hairstylist. Does that make sense? Okay. So I hope I answered that question. So no, there's a lot of ventures that we will be venturing into, but I'm not saying them until they're already here, which means it's kind of like, oh, Tasha already doing this. Ain't nothing we can say. It's already done. But if I tell you what it is, you're gonna be like, no, I don't think that's good. Maybe I should do this. Maybe you should do that, which you guys all mean well. It's not like you're hating. It's just that Everybody wants to contribute, and it's like too many chiefs and not enough Indians. What's for me is what's for me. What's for y'all is what's for y'all. And so that's why I would never tell y'all what not to do. I would just kind of help you expand on how you could do it better. And so you will never get me not telling you what not to do over here because that's not my walk. Okay, you're confused, Mac 35. Okay, well, call in and help me to better understand it. Okay, help me to translate it to you. All right, so who's next? Jasmine. Jasmine, who's next on the— just bring them up. Is it Crystal? Josephine, what the hell? Hi Crystal! Hi Tasha! Do you remember me? Uh, I can't see your face right now. Give me a second because I got the camera in front of my face, but let me drop you down. Uh, enlighten me baby, enlighten me. Go ahead. Okay, I'm a comedian and I, um, have pulmonary hypertension. Okay. And, um, I was doing comedy on pulmonary hypertension, and I found out this year because of you— you told me to get some autoimmune testing, you told me to get, um, all of these testing— I found out I had lupus. Yeah. So mine is a cautionary tale because I almost died. I was in the hospital and they kept upping my Valitri medicine that goes into my heart to open up my heart vessels, right? And so that was one doctor and he kept upping and upping my medicine and I didn't feel right and, um, I almost died. So I ended up going to the University of Michigan and they found out that I had a blood clot disease and I had lupus. So it's been a whirlwind since then. Um, I've had to be in the hospital multiple times. I stopped esthetician work, all of that stuff. Um, yeah, because I was an esthetician. Crystal Clear is my skincare line, and so I had to pivot doing comedy like in, uh, nursing homes and stuff like that. You from Detroit? Yes, and I'm from Detroit. Okay, I remember you, I remember you. Yeah, okay, you told me I can open up for you. That's what we was talking about. You didn't come to Detroit, and I damn sure wasn't coming to Mike Epps Comedy Club, and he asked me to come. I said no, absolutely not. I thought— now you wanna— no, I'm sorry, huh? What about Punchline in Detroit? Um, Southfield? The numbers. The thing about it is the numbers, it's the dates. They got other comedians coming through there. It just didn't mesh well. But when we do kick off our tour for 2026, yes, absolutely. Anybody knows I come through my city, I still— why no? Anybody that want to hit the stage, go, it's yours, let's go. Yes, but my question is, Tasha, I want to pivot into YouTube, doing comedy And, um, I want to do comedy, but I want to do— I want to talk about my story too, you know what I'm saying? So I want to merge them somehow. Um, I'm, I'm trying to pivot that. What do you think I could do? That's kind of hard. Yeah. And this is me being all the way honest with you. I'm glad that you, you went and got the testing done and found out what your issues were. And I just want to say something, and I know I'm probably going to get some backlash for this, but if you start to— let me, let me just dial it back just a little bit and then I'll bring you to where your story should be. Okay. What you should, in my opinion, should do. Without me trying to— how can you put it— like send energy to block you from doing what you do? Because I still want you— you're going to do that. It's hard to hear you for some reason. I don't know why. We can't hear you. I just put— I just took my mic off for a second. But good. Okay, cool. So if you notice in the US as opposed to other countries, We have more autoimmune-related issues than any other country. And if you simply cross the border to Canada or Mexico, especially amongst Black women, people don't suffer from that many autoimmune issues or hormonal issues or imbalances. So it tells you that something is wrong with the climate, is wrong with the food, is wrong with the, the culture. Okay. And so My thing is, I'm the type of person that if my— if it's life or death for me, I will uproot what I have going on and I will move to where I can have the best quality of life. And so for you, what I challenge you to do before you hit YouTube and before the comedy— keep it because that's going to keep your immune system in good health because laughter is always great. You know, that's a healer of the soul. Okay. And so, but when it comes to your journey of you merging the lupus story and your autoimmune issues with your comedy, we always want to see the silver lining. Not perfection, but what is the silver lining? What is the balance? And so the balance is, and I challenge anybody that has these type of issues because you can still collect, like if you're on disability, you can still collect your disability living outside of the States as long as you keep an American bank account. Bank accounts are nationwide, but moving, starting to do research on people who have had similar issues as you and they've moved outside of the US to countries that can not only support what they have going on, but also help to reverse it to get their immune systems to calm down. Because there's something in the soil, there's something in the air, because it's just too much going on in one concentrated place. You ever heard of cancer clusters? And it's like, oh my God, all these people got cancer in this one school. So they start testing the soil and seeing what's going on. Well, that's what's happening in these pockets here in America. And you typically don't see that. In other countries. Not to say that they don't have, like, they don't have issues, but it's like, but your issue probably could be better maintained or just dealt with in a country where it's really all organic, where you're smelling trees, when you can hear birds in the trees. You ever notice that in some areas, just like you don't hear birds talking? Yeah. Yeah, morning or at dawn, you know, it's like, where they at? Why the birds ain't coming down trying to take my food? They actually be at my window all the time. Like, birds are always at my window all the time. And I actually changed to vegan, a vegan diet now, uh, because I've noticed it helped me a lot. I had to totally switch everything to like vegan. And it helps the inflammation in my body. That's gonna help. And I have a friend of mine who's had lupus for almost 40 years. She hasn't had a flare-up because she's completely vegan. Yeah, she doesn't break. And you would look at her, you wouldn't even think she was a day over 22. She's a dancer, but she suffered from lupus her whole life, but it's just in remission, as you, as you say, like she's not having it. Any flare-ups. And so, um, once you figure out what you're like, how to balance your body and your health, then merging that into your comedy, into speaking, into doing YouTube channels on educating people, which means you're writing books, helping other people out that suffer from the same issues as you and how you were able to combat those issues, then you bring it together and you sell it as a package. Does that make sense? I like that. Yes, yes, definitely. I like that. Okay. Yeah. Okay. I want to really thank you because, um, yeah, I had to update you on what was going on and everything. And I do have a big— yeah, I have a big team now and they are really good. Like the doctors— I had to go to this university and it's an educational university, so they are doing all that they can You know, um, I really— I'm like, where did this lupus come from? I'm 43 years old and then I found out I have lupus, you know what I'm saying? So all of those questions came to mind, you know. And I know that you had— there's something in the environment that's triggering your auto— your immune system to attack you. What is it? And what happens is it's not— it's supposed— it's doing what it's supposed to do, which means like You know, when we get a cold and, you know, we get mucus and stuff like that and it's like, it sucks, but it's actually creating mucus so no other germs get in and mix and make it worse. So your immune system is like protecting you, but yours is overprotecting you. Yes. You know what I'm saying? So like, now you got to— you got to figure out how to balance it. And it may just be that as Black women or as a culture, we've come in contact with just too many chemicals too many things, and our body is just like, you know what, because we've come in contact with so many things, I'm just going to overprotect her. And it's just crazy symptoms. Yeah, it's like your body's in overdrive. Braiding hair, that synthetic braid hair, yeah, I can't use it. I, I immediately start itching, I start burning, I get headaches. I can't use it. They said you gotta boil the hair, you gotta soak the hair, you gotta clean the hair. And I'm like, but when I was younger I never had issues like that, but they're saying I always had an allergy, but now my body is just responding to that allergy. You see what I'm saying? So a lot of things that you may not have responded to when you were younger, your body is just saying, she's gonna give me something that I'm not supposed to have, whether it's food, whether it's a chemical on the outside, and I'm just gonna overprotect this. I'm just gonna overprotect her. And then you're like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, please. Calm down. No, this is not what I need right now. Yeah. What do you think about that, the mushrooms that you sell? Like, the mushrooms are— I'm gonna be honest with you, if I tell people, go to the National Institute of Health and look up shiitake mushrooms, look at mushrooms. Mushroom therapy is used in almost everything to keep your T-cell count high. To keep your immune system fighting. Now, the problem you have is your immune system is overworking. Yeah, it's not underworking, it's overworking, which is a good thing. So how do you bring it down to balance that so your body doesn't think that it's being attacked all the time? Yeah, yeah. So the mushrooms are amazing. I just took 2 myself. This is the mushroom extract complex. This has, um, this is a, it's a complex, it's an extract blend. It has lion's mane, which is for brain fog, memory. It has the reishi mushroom. It has the cordyceps. It has the chaga. It has the turkey tails. It has the white button. It has the black fungus. It has the royal sun mushroom. It has the shiitake mushroom all in one. So when I don't take the Vitamix, which they'll have back in stock here in another, another couple of weeks. I just take this and I don't have any issues. And I don't have to take it every day. I can take it twice a week. But as long as you got something in your body that's keeping your immune system high. But now you have to focus on how do I keep my body from coming in contact with things that it's allergic to so it doesn't attack me? Yeah. Okay. And so I know people are going to ask, these are on the website. Use the coupon code TK10 on shopTKDeals.com. Okay. And so like I said, the powder is not available right now, but we do have the individual pills as well too that you can open up and put in smoothies. We got the cordyceps mushroom, which is for energy. We also have the reishi mushroom, which is for cardiovascular. We have the lion's mushroom, which supports memory and stuff like that. And then we have the chaga mushroom, which is antioxidant. And so you adding this into your diet, taking out meat, taking out grains, you know what I'm saying? Even fasting. Are you, are you doing any type of water fasting? Yes, I fast. I do fasting for a couple of hours a day, every day. And I do my— and then I do my vegan stuff and then I do raw as well. So I'm doing it. Have you done a 3-day water fast before? You're not diabetic or nothing, are you? No, but they got me on a lot of medications though. That's fine. You can go 3 days without taking your medications because when you fast, your body is not going to attack itself. It's actually going to calm down. You know, I tell you, don't fear that too. Yes. So what, what's going to happen is, right, you're going to basically cleanse yourself. You're going to cleanse the liver. Look at— there's a video that you could find and it says Uh, what happens to the body during a 72-hour fast? And it's going to give you hour by hour what's going to happen so that you can stay on it. Because it's hard, especially if you've never done it before, right? And you're just doing water, you're not taking in food. It's going to completely cleanse itself and reset itself, and it's going to generate stem cells. You can make your own stem cell by fasting, doing a water fast. Yeah, I watched the video on that. Exactly. Once you do that, then you slowly reintroduce your berries, your, you know, your colorful fruits, your vegetables back in. And then you could fast for like 14 hours a day, which means you eat for 14 hours. No, you eat for— is it 14? It's 24 hours in a day. Damn it. So basically you fast for 10 hours, fast for 14, eat between a 10-hour window, fast for 16 hours, eat between 8-hour window, things like that. So if you really get the— and you could do that every 2 weeks, every 1 week, I guarantee you your, your immune system will calm down and you won't need that medication. I'm not saying stop your medication, but you can go for 3 days without because you're not going to have any reactions. The reason you're on the medication is because it's trying to stop your body from attacking itself. But if you don't have food in your, in your body, which kind of, um, it's like when you eat food, all of your immune cells— your first of all, your immune system is in your gut. All your immune cells focus on destroying that food, anything that comes with that food. So anything else you got going on in your body gets neglected because everything is here. But what you don't have no food, guess what? Your immune cells is going all over your body to clear and detox your body. Mm, that makes sense. But talk to your doctor because I'm not a doctor and I know how they get out here. But I have been reading extreme medical, uh, uh, just literature since I was 14 years old. Yeah, so I keep up with the NIH and what's going on because when I go to these doctors, I tell them what I need. Yes, yes, I believe because I watched the video on fasting. It was a cardiologist and he was talking about fasting, and it was amazing. So that's why I started fasting for a couple of hours and doing all that. Girl, you will get younger. Your telomeres, which are shrinking— you know, we got these telomeres which can, which can, uh, tell our biological age and when we're gonna die. That's why life insurance companies will tend to deny us and say, oh, well, we're not going to give you a 20-year policy because they already got your telomeres through your blood to tell you you only got like 15 years living. Oh yeah, it's a lot, girl. It's a lot. And so they won't give you that. But if you fast, you can extend your telomeres. You can actually regenerate your telomeres, make stem cells, like de-age. De-age. That's why you'll see people who don't eat meat, or when they're fat, they look younger. Yeah, because you're purifying your body. Yeah. So I'm telling you, like, get into like my shows and everything like that. I said I'm giving them the full Tasha, the full Pisces. I don't care who don't like it, you ain't gotta watch. Yeah, yeah, drama is what we sip on, but we can sip on our stuff too. Okay, so, okay, I'm gonna go ahead and, uh, any other questions before we move on real quick? Because I got some people waiting backstage. I just really want to thank you, and, um, I want to keep, keep updating you on stuff was going on with me, so Yes, please. I'm glad you found that out. I'm glad you found that out. And so, yeah, thank you so much. You saved my life. Yeah. Oh my God, no, no, you saved your life because you listened. Yeah, you listened. Yeah, yeah, because they kept saying we don't know where the pulmonary hypertension came from, we don't know where it came from. And I'm like, okay, give me an autoimmune disease test because I got to see what's going on, and that's what it was. Okay, okay. I love you, and I'll see you when I get to Detroit. Thank you. Come on to Detroit now. All right, all right, bye, Mama. All right, so remember, guys, the link is in the chat. You guys can call in, uh, or you can, or write in to me. The questions are coming right to my desk. Unwindwithtashak@gmail.com. You can ask your questions. And any of the vitamins and minerals that we've been talking about are on my website shoptkdeals.com. Use the coupon code 10K, uh, uh, TK10. I don't sell you nothing I don't use, period. Okay, not even gonna play with y'all like that. I don't have time. All right, and besides, y'all, y'all are educated anyway, so you'll know whether it's cap or not. Period. Okay. All right, happy hour question from Mrs. Lucky. Hello, Tasha. I cut off my whole family and I cut off my only friend as well. Okay. I cut my family off because they still engage with my molester. Okay. All right. And, and don't protect or respect me. I cut cut my friend off because she was unsupportive but expected me to support her and everything she did. And it— and it— because it was draining. Okay, so I'm reading what she's writing. All right, I'm not just hilarious here, I can read. Okay, now I also felt as though she was in competition with me because it really got me— it really got to me that I supported her but she didn't do the same for me. It has been 2 years since I cut my friend off In about 3 months since I cut my family off, it gets lonely at times, and sometimes I feel like I shouldn't be here because I have no life outside of working and going to school. My son is full-time with his dad, and I get him every other weekend. So outside of that, I stay in the house and do nothing. I had a man, but I cut him off too, okay, because he was also inconsistent in my life and I don't— and don't show up for me in ways I would have liked. I feel like, uh, I bend over backwards and try to please everyone while everyone treats me like a second option or burden in their presence. I'm lost and I don't know what to do. All right, so you asked for it, I'm about to give it to you. It's happy hour and some things you may not take as happy, but we got to do what we got to do. So, um, it sounds like you're expecting people to treat you how you should be treated. And so yes, you're cutting people off, but what is— what are you gaining from it? Because you're not gaining peace. You're still not peaceful. Um, there are no solutions, uh, to your trauma. And so you're expecting life to give you what you feel it needs to give you, but you're, you're not working for it. Does that make sense? I, I hope I'm making sense here. So like, you have people, and listen, you can cut off who you want to cut off and justify this person's doing this to me, this person's doing that to me, but everybody can't be wrong. Everybody cannot be wrong. And so when you have certain people in your life, not family, we cannot control, that's just family. Listen, I got family members that smoke crack, I got family members that, you know, that beat they wife. Sell dope and everything. I go around to the cookout, I pay my respects, we, we play cards, we laugh it up, we giggle. Boom, I go back to my house. That's my life. So my family doesn't have to come home with me. So you cutting off your family, it's like, that makes no sense. And they're gonna support who they want to support. There's nothing you can do about that. That is family. And that's probably why they support that person, because that is family. But it's not helping you. And then you cutting off your friend because she's supportive, and you support her in everything that she does, which means you're overextending yourself. And then you cut off your man because he's inconsistent, which is the same thing that you did with your friend. She seems inconsistent and unsupportive. So everybody is doing everything to you, but what are you doing for you? So you don't cut off all these people. So what's next? You got to figure out what your triggers are. The only way you're going to do that is by facing yourself and going to therapy and really getting a therapist that's really going to keep it 1000 with you. You isolating yourself is not the answer, but developing good relationships with people after you develop a good relationship with yourself, because then you wouldn't put yourself in situations where you're dealing with inconsistent men or you're dealing with unsupportive people, which means you're being kind of a pick-me and people people's lives, like, I'm doing all this stuff for you, and now you're expecting them to do it back for you. Well, where is— in retrospect, nobody owes you shit. Nobody owes you nothing, okay? So you got to deal with you, and then you go out there and you find a man, then you find friends, and then it won't be like, oh, I'm overgiving myself. I'm overdoing this. You're, you're doing this because you're going to have boundaries in place and you're not going to overgive yourself, and you're not going to expect them to give what they don't have. Because now you're expecting people to give you stuff that they don't have, which is common sense, which is their time. And your friend was being unsupportive, which means she ain't got it to give. It's sort of like when somebody asks you for money. Right? When people ask you for money, prepare not to get it back. Because if they had the money, they wouldn't be asking you. Which means if they could get the money, they wouldn't ask you either because they would just wait until they got the money themselves, but they ain't never gonna get it. So it's sort of like you gotta give them this money and just consider it gone. And don't hold it over their head. You chose to give it. Do you understand what I'm saying? Now, you could also choose not to give them a damn thing else, but that's your choice at the end of the day, okay? But this ain't, this ain't working. And I don't, I don't agree with this isolation because it's not hurting no one but you, okay? Your name is Lucky, and it doesn't sound like you're very lucky. Period. All right, now let me make sure I— hold on, hold on, just the questions are coming to my email on whywithtashak@gmail.com if you want your question read. Okay, all right, so who's next? Jasmine, let them on up here. Who's next? She's up there. Auntie G. Hey, Tasha. Hey, Auntie, where you calling from? Tasha, I'm calling from Broward County in Coconut Creek. Shout out to Broward County, Coconut Creek. Okay, so what's your question, neighbor? Neighbor, I'm, uh, I wanted to ask you, okay, I'm 62 years old, right? I had to take an early retirement because my daughter had an emergency surgery, um, in June. And after the surgery, I had to help take care of her because she got worse after the surgery. Okay, so with that being said, my question to you, um, Tasha, let me work from you from home. So you called and asking for a job? Amen. A closed mouth don't get fed, Tasha. I love it. I love the way you shoot your shot. What's your skill set, Mama? What's your skill set? I have, um, a lot of administrative skills, executive administrative skills, and I'm also, um, a paralegal. Oh, okay. So we just, uh, we just hired for, um my personal assistant. So I got a new personal assistant. I know it's not good for you though, but I was about to say congratulations, but okay, moving right along. Yes, it's not messy. Say it again. It's not messy. Okay, I'm not either. I'm not either. But here's what I'mma challenge you to do. Are you— so are you able to go back to work? It would be hard for me to go back and, and continue to take care of her. Properly on a schedule if I went back to work from home, right? And anything— go ahead. No, no, go ahead, go ahead. No, I was gonna say because anything outside of that, um, it would be difficult for me to take proper care of her. And then I also have my two grandsons, 5-year-old, 5 and 9, and the 5-year-old, he's, um on the higher scale of autism. So it's a lot. So I know you got a lot going on, um, but I require the people that work for me to damn near not have kids because, um, you know, working for me is like working for a child, you know, having a child, you know, because we just got a lot of shit going on. But here's the thing, I want you to manifest a job. So are you close to any Well, you don't need to be close to water. Okay, so, uh, write down exactly what you want, how you want it, how many hours you want to work, and then you're going to apply online. Okay, but before you apply online, I need you to write down specifically what it is you want, and I need you to go in the shower without a phone, cut off the lights, and take a shower in the dark and ask for it specifically. And then go and look for the job. I guarantee you in 30 days or less, you're going to have that job. Okay, say it right. The way that you write it down specifically, it needs to be flexible. Uh, it needs to be able to work around, you know, my life and not interfere with me trying to take care of my daughter and my grandkids. And, uh, I need to be part-time. It needs to be something fun. I need to be able to utilize my skill, okay, uh, my skills, whether it be paralegal or whatever. And, um, yeah, write it down specifically. Go in the shower. Do not take your phone or any electronics in there because this is like your, your cleansing, like your baptism, okay? Okay. And then you're gonna open up your energy portals with just taking a shower, cleansing yourself praying in the shower, and then you're gonna go and proceed to look for a job online. Okay, okay, I will do that. And because what's so— what is so odd, Tasha, I also, um, was a part of the task force team in Hope South Florida with finding emergency shelter for homeless people. And I'm like, Lord, I know you— I'm sorry, no, I said, see, no, I'm saying like your skill set is is very vast. So you'll be, you'll be doing great working from home for a couple hours a day. Yeah. Okay, so somebody asked me, why did I tell you to cut off the lights when you go in the shower? Do you want to know? Yes, I do. I was going to ask you that. Okay, so this transmits radio waves, okay, which means it intercepts with you getting energy from air, from just the natural elements around you. If you have a light on, that's electricity, so it's sending electricity through you. When you're trying to purify, you're trying to really just get in a pure state, kind of like a state that we was in before lights came along and before all this electronics came along. You remember that? Remember that state? Completely. It makes you more intuitive, so it opens you up so you can see more and hear more. I understand completely. And you know, having— when I have my peace like that, Tasha, to be honest with you, that's when I really do get results, because I'm very familiar with how your peace— like you said, put the electronics down, you know, don't have anything to distract you or interrupt that peace— and what your looking for and what you're trying to— whatever goal you're trying to reach, you know. So I totally understand. Yeah, you're meditating in the dark with no energy coming towards your body, okay? And then the water purifies you and washes away all the energy that you came in contact with. And so when you pray to God, since they calling me a witch, in the comments. Listen, whoever calling you that, tell them they need to go sit down. The audacity. Okay, when you pray to God, now your energy channels are pure and you're able to receive intuition so that he can guide you to where you need to go. And that is my prayer, Tasha, because my prayer is to— I've asked God to place me where he would have me. And that way I know that I can't go wrong. I know that'll be something that I enjoy doing. I know it's going to be fit for me, and nothing can interrupt that, and nothing can interrupt me. Exactly. And so if natural light is coming in, that's natural light. So somebody just asked me, well, what if it's natural light? That's natural light. So think of it like this. Okay, and I tell everybody this: the closest you can get to God is on a beach. Do you remember that show Captain Planet? I do. Okay, earth, fire, okay, come on now, heart. With those powers combined, I am Captain Planet, right? Yeah, and you know I love the beach. Exactly. So a lot of people can't get to the beach, but you can still access the same energy so that you can, you can hear him and intuitively check it. Like, just check it. I don't get it. Like, when people sit in prayer, that you want to pray in the dark, you want to pray in silence. You don't want to pray when everybody else is praying because that energy affects you. You start hearing their prayers and you need to connect with him. I don't really— you know what, you also have to be careful who— I apologize, Tasha, it just came to me really quick. You also have to be careful who you allow to pray for you and play around. I'm very, very, very— because I'm very in tune when it comes to, um, discernment. And because there are certain people that I won't shake their hand, I won't give them a hug, I won't do any of those sings. And listen, because you can pick that up intuitively. So like, and yes, God doesn't care if you pray in the light or the dark, but what I'm saying is, if when you want to intuitively get guidance, you need pure meditative peace. And so I can sit here and say a prayer right now when we go to commercial, right? But in order to hear him, you gotta have silence. I agree. Those ideas in the dark with no energy coming towards you, with no electronics, with nothing beeping or text messages or lights messing with you, you're going to be open to receive what it is that you're asking for so that he could give you the ideas so that you can move through life how you want to move. I don't see how that's witchcraft. Oh my God, guys, you know, anything Anyone that said that, anyone that feels that, to me that's pure ignorance. And they're, they're, they're whatever God they're serving, that's who they serve. But I understand, I get it. That's not what— listen, call me back in 30 days. I need your testimony on what it is that you done, you done did and what you got. Because, you know, ask, I will. Okay, that's why I said a closed mouth don't get fed. Exactly, exactly. I love you and I wish you the best, okay? And I love you too, Latasha. Let me tell you something, I don't, I don't chime in much in the chat or anything like that, but I watch you all the time. And if I miss you, I go watch your clips. And when I tell you, sometimes I'll be here laughing so freaking hard you think I got a house full of people just listening to you. Thank you, baby. Thank you. I appreciate the love. And so All right, listen, you got this, you got this, you got this. Okay, thank you. I love you, Tasha. All right, love you too. Okay, all right, so I'm gonna take a question here from, uh, the email. All right, write in if you want your question read on whywithtashak@gmail.com. So, uh, Jasmine, question: when does our interview start on tashaklive.com? Um, I have it slated for 10 Eastern. Oh, perfect. So we got some time because I feel like it's, it's getting a little thick in here right now, you know what I'm saying? It's getting a little— it's— yeah, it's getting a little thick. Okay, since I'm a witch now— Jasmine, do you think I'm a witch? A witch? Nah. Okay, you just, you just know what to do. I just know what to do. And I'm like literally a walking like billboard for it. I just know what to do. And I don't need to sit in on church to go get what I need to get from God. You understand? I'm just trying to tell you. All right. So hello, Tasha K. How do I bring awareness? Can you let me know how I can bring awareness to all young ladies, our runaways in the Chicagoland area? Mm. A mother who's missing her daughter. Wow. Wow. So that's, that's pretty deep there. So that is something you're going to have to channel spiritually to figure out, because there's many different ways that you can go about bringing awareness, you know, and we have many different mediums now which we can use, you know, social media is at our fingertips, partnering with other people who, you know, help with, you know, runaways and providing services to them, volunteering. You know, things of that such. So there's just so many things that you can do, but in order to kind of hone in and see where your purpose should be, baby girl, you got to get in the water. You got to get— whether it's in a shower or in a beach— and you got to open yourself up so God can lead you, okay? Because this is, this is heavy right there. This is heavy. And I need to know that— I need to know more details so that I could really help pinpoint you in the right direction, okay? Let me read another question real quick. Um, hold on for a second. Vitamin deficiency question. Okay. Greetings, Tasha. Thank you so much for the information on the live. I don't know if you could tell, but I was about to break down, so I apologize for leaving so quickly. Oh, this is Born to Speed. Oh, okay, so I need to save that. Oh, that is not for y'all to hear. Okay, relationship advice question. All right, so this is from Mrs. Smith. All right, so I'm Shante, 33. I'm self-sufficient. I've got my own place, my own car, and I'm really focused on my career in school here in Vegas. But the dating scene here is trash. I'm tired of dating potential, and I really want someone on my level. And you should be like, you know, calling in, writing into my, uh, relationship show. Do you like me? Okay, do you like me contested at gmail.com. Okay, now I met this guy in California, 38. Here we go, here we go, here we go. Okay, so I met this guy in California, he's 38, he's amazing at communicating, super emotionally impressive, which I love, but he doesn't have his own place or car yet. Now I can read. But he doesn't have his own place or car yet. I met this guy in California. He's 38 years old. He's amazing at communicating, super emotionally impressive, which I love. I already got the answer. I'm just writing it so I remember it. So give me one second. Okay. All right. So, um, and he's still trying to figure out career stability. At 38, we've been talking for a month but only on FaceTime. So which means he's catching a free Wi-Fi signal, or either he got them government Obama phones. Okay, um, he sends long messages and says he's catching feelings. I don't know if this is love bombing or fear on my end because it's really what I, what I look for in a man, such as reassurance, intention, intentionality, willingly and ready to love. Then there's this other guy here in Vegas. He's 35. He's a business— he has a business. He does photography and film. He has a car, but he doesn't have his own place, and he's emotionally distant but recently reached out wanting to connect. I guess he's coming to the point of realization of being serious in a relationship. I'm torn. Do I keep trying with the California guy even though I'm wary of his lack of stability, or do I just keep looking for someone who watches my own, who matches my own self-sufficiency? Am I being punked right now, Jasmine? Am I being punked? Nah, it's real out here. And then California, it might be real, real. Oh Jesus Christ. Okay, tough love, tough love, tough love, tough love. Okay, first of all, when a man— when you see a man that is 38 years old, he's great at communicating, super emotionally impressive, which I love, and, uh, but he doesn't have a place or a car yet, he's homeless. Those are typically the type of men, the people that you see in the middle of the street and they give you these sob stories and they connect with your nurturing spirit as a woman because you, you instantly have that spirit. And so we use it for kids and to nurture them or to be motivational speakers for people or to just help encourage people per se, right? Those are the homeless people that you see begging for, for change in the middle of the street. And they usually are great entrepreneurs because they're able to make a nice bag begging for money by being exactly what you need them to be and able to capture your heart in 30 seconds or less. You get my drift here? Okay. Then you got another one that's 35. He has a business and he does photography and film. He has a car but doesn't have his own place yet, which means he's homeless as well too. He's emotionally distant, but he recently reached out wanting to connect. Because he doesn't have money for an efficiency room. Now, what I have to ask, because I can't even blame them for shooting their shot, doing exactly what it is that they're great at. Every time I see a person that's homeless, I say, damn, that takes a lot of courage. Every time a person that's homeless, if they applied their survival instincts to real life, they wouldn't be in the situation that they're in. Able to stand out in the hot sun and beg for change, sleep on parks, like sleep in parks on the ground, sleep on benches. That shit is hard. That would push me to say I'm getting a bed tonight. But because they're so mentally strong, this doesn't bother them. This is like a piece of cake. This is nothing. So what I need to ask you is like, why are you so desperate to just have a piece of man? It's like you're trying to merge the two together, but between the two of them, both of them still don't have a job or a house, but you have the house. So you're like, I got the house, you got the emotions, you got the car. If I could just build me a man, I got the house, we good together. And then you end up with someone beating on you, putting you down, taking everything that you have? What's wrong with you? This is scary for you to be 33 and you even allow these type of men to court you. To even take up a single bit of your time. For you to spend hours on FaceTime with a man that has no job, and instead of him putting that energy into finding a job and finding a place to stay, he's putting that energy into you because you are the job and you are the place to stay. No, ma'am. Get somebody else to do it. You ain't that desperate for no damn man. Who's next? Come on, Jasmine, let's go. SMP. SMP, what's going on? What's your question? Where you calling from? First of all, where you calling from? Hello. Hey, Tasha. Latasha K, you look so beautiful in that pink, by the way. I love it. Thank you. Thank you. So refreshing to see you on screen. The lighting is perfect. Like, you are so beautiful, and I love your personality. Yeah. Okay. All right, what's your question? What's your question? My question is, I'm trying to— I wanted to ask you, like, if I should forgive my friend and allow her to to be a part of my life. Because for one, I will say, 2 years ago, this girlfriend of mine, she crashed my car. I had a Buick Enclave. She crashed it or whatever. During the accident, it wasn't her fault. Somebody actually hit her at a traffic light or whatever. So she was saying that, um, once my— if I get an insurance check, I guess, to pay off my car from the other person hitting me or whatever, that she will still give me like at least $2,000 to $3,000 just for the inconvenience or whatever, because I still had to get to work and my commute was like an hour and a half from my house because the pay was good. So I end up letting her link with one of my other good friends who, who does taxes and stuff like that. So she ended up, um, helping her get like an extra $10K or whatever. Do you not know this girl gave me $500? That's it, $500. But when we was waiting for the money to come or whatever, like, I still was hanging out with her. We was going out to eat. She was getting my kids stuff for their birthday and all of that. So I was like, wow, like, she's really being nice and stuff. But I guess that was her, like, trying to, I guess, you know, pay me until the money came. But she never gave me the money. So I end up taking a break from her for a little while because I'm like, I'm not an oppressor. She's my friend, it's okay, whatever. Because my car was like 85% paid off. I just probably owed like $2,200 on it. So if she would have gave me the money that she said she wouldn't— would have gave me, I would have paid off the rest of my car loan because I was, uh, on a car note. But anyway, so to fast forward to this past weekend, I end up linking with her. I went to the nail shop, my car ends up breaking down when I get out the nail shop because I left my headlights on. So she ends up picking me up. We still go hang out, um, you know, get some drinks at a bar, karaoke bar. I had a good time. So, so when I got her, when she picked me up, when she met me where my car was at, I was like, you know, I really appreciate you, you know, picking me up and stuff. Yeah, my battery died, but you know, with you coming to pick me up, you know, I could put gas in your car, or, you know, I could just pay for the whole time, you know, spending, you know, going out, you know, drinks, food, whatever. And she was like, oh, you could just pay for the place wherever we're going. So I was like, okay. So I paid for all of that. So once we finished leaving the karaoke bar, um, we go to the gas station. I still filled her tank up. I put like $30 in her car and probably spent like a little over $100 or whatever. So when we get to my house, we both— I ain't gonna lie, we both was drinking a lot. She get— we get to my house house. Um, it was like 4 o'clock in the morning, and I was like, you know, did you want to— you drunk, you know, I'd rather you come in my house, you know, and sleep it off until the sun come up, you know. And she was like, okay. So she comes in to use the bathroom, and she was like, you know what, I'm gonna just sit in my car because as soon as the sun come up, I'm gonna just drive home. I'm like, oh, okay. So I was like, look, I'm going to bed, you know, it's a long night or whatever. So I look outside, um, I see she was starting up her her car. So I'll go back out there because, you know, it's getting late. But I'm like, let me check on my friend because, you know, she's on outside of my house. So I'm like, you know, you sure you good to drive? You know, like, you want to come in? Like, oh no, no, you could go. Because I was like, you know, I'll keep the door unlocked, you know, just in case you want to come in since you're gonna sit in your car. She was like, no, I'm about to just leave. Um, go ahead and lock your door or whatever. I was like, okay, so just call me so I know— make it— no, make sure you make it home I'm safe. I end up falling asleep. Next thing you know, I get a text at 6 o'clock Saturday morning, and she was like, oh, I need $20, like, you 200 miles from my house or whatever, and it's messed up that you didn't call me to make sure I got home. I got pulled over and all this stuff. So I'm just like, what are you talking about? You know, how was it? Hold on, hold on, hold on. So you're going through a lot. So you're saying you're asking if you if you should forgive her. So you guys reconnected here recently? We did, after she— yes. And you reconnected how? Because your, your car broke down? Yeah, yeah, when we were supposed to— we already had made arrangements to meet up earlier that day to just go get some drinks and hang out. So it sounds like y'all should be growing to help each other. Yeah. But you know, yeah, it sounds like you guys both need each other, and she helps you, you help her. She came to pick you up even when your, your car broke down, even though she didn't pay you for wrecking your other car, but she still helped you with your kids and stuff like that. Um, it sounds like you guys should just, uh, move in together and split the bills and share cars and stuff like that until you both get on your feet. Oh no, I don't want to do all of that. I got a man, I got a husband. So when my car broke down, like, my husband picked up— I bought him a tow truck, so he picked my car up where it was broke down from. So, you know, my car is at the house and everything. But in the midst of her cursing me out for not giving her $20 more to make it home, she ended up calling me a big bad gorilla. And then she tried to say my neck is black. Like, I don't think I'm a big bad gorilla. I don't think my neck is is black. So I told her that she looked like a Teletubby with a big square forehead, and her booty was flat from the side. So I'm just like, I'm sick of her, you know. But then she said she wanted to say sorry and that she want to forget that that never happened. But I don't want to talk to her no more. I'm tired of her because it's like, I ain't pressing for the money that she owed me for crashing my car, and then you cursing me out about $20 extra when I paid for us to hang out that night. And I still filled up your tank. Like, I don't owe you anything. Are you trolling me? Are you trolling me? I am not trolling you. This really happened. I could send you the screenshots and everything. No, this happened like this past weekend, and I'm hurt, and I don't want to talk to my family or my husband about it because they're going to be like, why are you still friends with her? You know, she done crashed your car. You had no business hanging out with her anyway. That I should have known that she wasn't my friend. So that's what I'm going through. That's why I need your help, Tasha. I'm with your family. Like, what the— I'm tired of her. I feel like she be taking advantage of me. So why you let her take advantage of you? I don't know, because we built a good— you don't have other friends? But I'm not gaining anything but drama and stress. And I, I just think I— you don't have other friends, huh? You don't have other friends? Oh, I do. I have plenty of friends, but I don't want to bring her around my other friends because when I brought her around my, my other homegirl, we went to the strip club, she tried to fight two dudes at the strip club, and then we hung out at that, the guy house. Then she tried to fight the dude and me at the house. So I'm like, after that interaction, I'm like, I can't bring her around. What city you calling from? DMV, Southern Virginia. I'm in Virginia. She from DC, so she ratchet. It's— I don't know what— she's real ratchet. What should I do, Tasha? Should I just let her go? I think you need to let yourself go, baby. Oh no, it ain't got nothing to do with her. This has everything to do with you. You you got to let yourself go. You got to get some new habits, some new friends, some new things to do, because obviously the people that you are attracting like the same things you like. And then y'all go and wreck cars, drinking and driving, going to strip clubs, fighting and shit like that. And you got a husband on top of that? Yeah, I do. And kids. He works on cars, and now she asking me if he could come work on her car, but I'm like, I think that's just too much. Like, I don't I don't want to get her involved with my husband and all of that because then she might not pay or might have another sob story. Like, I'm just over it. So it was like, I don't want to help her since she called me a big black gorilla and said my neck is black and stuff. Why should I help her, uh, get her car fixed? Huh? Is your neck black? It's never been black ever in my life. No, I take it. Yeah, I'm dark-skinned. So your neck is black, but it's not black from being dirty. So that was a little colorist too. Like, that wasn't nice, right? I just feel that you need to up your standards for yourself, and then the standards of friends will change. And if— yeah, and if you are, uh, a offended by her calling you big back and black neck? I mean, are you, are you overweight? No, I'm not. Okay, then you know you good, then it shouldn't matter. They call me bald head. Yeah, but you know what's the crazy thing? I, because I know how she is, I feel like she was trying to like embarrass me and probably secretly had somebody on three-way. So since I already felt like she was trying to be funny in that way, and you guys in the chat, I'm controlling. This is for real. You know what I said on the phone to her? I told her, I know you was not trying to call me a big back gorilla when you got the HERP and you messing with men and women. Do they know you have it? Like, it's stuff— a lot of stuff that you told me, and you sent me a picture of the breakout from your MyChart. So it's just like, girl, the audacity for you to basically call me dirty when you the one that got diseases and stuff. Like, please. Like, I had to check her real good because I was offended and disgusted by her. You, you really want to hear, um, my thoughts on this? Yes. And you're a wino, and I, I— the wino is always right. So this is just my opinion. I think you guys are made for each other? No. The way you just dragged her on this line— me too, she dragged me to your face. Like, this is what you, you're thinking. Like, y'all think the same and then y'all throw these shots that are below the belt, and then you say, is she a bad friend? And y'all both like really, really horrible people. I'm not horrible. I'm a good person. She— I think she's horrible, and I think I try to give her too many chances because I feel bad for her because she lost her fiancé to, uh, some type of gun violence, you know, and he passed away. So I just try to be a supportive person to her, but it's like I can't allow her to keep disrespecting me, owe me money, and curse me out when she's not getting her way. Like, I'm not sleeping with her, why she feel like she can keep asking me for money and stuff when she owes me money? Like, that's crazy. And I said that to her and all she said was that she was sorry. She didn't even say she was going to pay me back. Like, yeah, SMP, I hope to see you at, uh, our comedy show when we come to DC and Baltimore more, okay? Yeah, I'll be there. All right, I love you. Gotta go. Bye. All right, bye. Jasmine, roll a commercial real quick, and after the commercial I'll be back, uh, to get some more— to take some more calls and to read some questions. I gotta pee. Go ahead, Jasmine. 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We do have people waiting backstage, so if you want to get in line, we'll be on here for another about 30, 40 minutes, okay, before we head over to tashaklive.com for an exclusive interview that we have, um, regarding Yo-Yo's husband's, um, illegitimate kids, okay. So he's got about 40, he claims there's 8, he's scamming, allegedly burning people, and they say Yo-Yo don't know Did I wash my— did she say did I wash my hands? Did they say did I wash my hands? Jasmine, you know I asked you that all the time, but she does every time. What? Why do you ask me that all the time? Like, you know, I just— it's just a habit. I know you do. Your ring turned around, so you did something. I hate y'all. Anyway, okay, all right, so we're gonna read a question. Oh yeah, we're gonna head over to tashaklive.com for an exclusive interview, okay, with one of Yo-Yo's husband's children. All right, when I tell you this story, it's just— it just keeps giving. It just— it's the gift that just keeps on giving, okay? So, um, Vitamin D Intake, we have a question. Hello, Tasha K. I'm not so good at remembering when, but I've been watching you since 2022. I've been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis since I was 12 years old. Post-2022, my walking has deteriorated and needing a cane. I actually stopped taking D and B12 because I felt it made no difference. How much vitamin D do you think it will take to combat a dropped foot and what brain What brand do you suggest? Okay, so first of all, you should be under your doctor's care and getting regular blood work on what you are vitamin deficient in. Okay. And so once you get those numbers, you'll be able to supplement in what it is that you're lacking. So I can't, you know, a brand out there. I mean, I have brands that we offer on shop tkdeals.com, but your doctor should be writing you prescriptions at this point that have higher dosage. That's particular, like that's, that's not typically offered on sites, okay, on websites. And so he should be able to give you 50,000 to 100,000 IUs for your MS. Okay, so that's my take on that. Um, hello, Tasha. I would like advice on the fact that recently I had to quit my job because of my health. Bad arthritis in my knees, with my right knee being the worst. I was in the transportation— I was in my transportation job for 32 years. I'm 56 years old. I have no car because I kept the company car 24/7. I wasn't smart with my money over the years. I just lived in the moment. I'm comfortable. And have nice things, just no savings. I created a GoFundMe account for $12,000 in hopes to buy a decent car and pay my rent for a couple of months. I have doctor's appointments to get to. I'm preparing for surgery. But now the problem is I'm having— I'm having is I'm embarrassed to post the GoFundMe. I'm afraid of judgment. Any advice for me? Okay, so another thing too, guys, when it comes to author arthritis, you do know that is a main symptom too of dehydration, especially the older we get. You do know that, right? I hope you do. Okay. And so, um, not only can you be dehydrated because, you know, the, the joints and stuff need water, they need liquidation, they need that, that mushy cushy, you know, just kind of those, those— but dry and the bone rubbing against the bone, that will cause severe arthritis. And You know, when I wake up in the morning, I typically take a whole bottle of one of these down. Okay. And so this is almost 1 liter of water that I take down to just start the day before, you know, I get out of bed. Because anybody can get arthritis and it gets worse as we get older because of the lack of water, lack of vitamin D and things like that and inflammation. And so as far as your GoFundMe, Um, let me email you back on that. Let me email you back on that, okay? I'm really skeptical about who I let, you know, put a GoFundMe in front of the winos because we've been scammed a lot in the past. And so we really, really have to vet stories down to the T before, um, we allow the winos to even access something like that, okay? So I'm not saying that you're lying, I just kind of want to vet it. It. But if you truly wanted, you know, you know, to help alleviate symptoms of arthritis, you definitely got to drink your water. Okay. All right, moving on. Jasmine, who's next? Miss Karen. How you doing? Are y'all enjoying the show? Are y'all enjoying the show? I hope so. Let me know, yes or no, yes or no, you know. All right, Miss Karen, how you doing? Yes. I'm good, how are you? I'm good, how you doing? Where you calling from? Uh, I'm by Tampa. Okay, shout out to Tampa. All right, cool, cool. So what's your question? I got 3, uh, quick questions. Um, okay, it'll be quick. Before I get started though, uh, this is how I feel about the callers. I'm done. Look, you gotta get the whole spin. Come on now, you got— there you go, there you go. Okay, cool. There you go. Don't make them spin on you now. Don't make them spin on you. What's your question? All right, um, can I interview in person or via video call? For what? For my podcast. You could do both. Awesome. And how can I— if I can reach out to set that up. That would be great. Are you— who are you talking about interviewing? Your guests of yours? You? Me? Oh, you want to interview me? Yes. Oh, you didn't make that clear. Well, what you want to interview me about? Yeah, what you want to interview me about? Uh, pretty much anything. Ask you what, you know, whatever you— whatever's not off limits, I guess. Um, okay, yeah, okay, cool. So do you have an established YouTube channel or just podcast? I, I'd say it's established. It's slow, up and coming, growing, but, um, you know, okay, I'm not opposed to that. I don't fit on, you know, small channels, and so I just want to know that you're serious. Yeah, oh, definitely, I'm serious about it. Okay, cool, cool. All right, so you can Email me on wildwithtashk@gmail.com. I'll forward it to my assistant and, uh, she'll check your stuff out and make sure it's legit, and then we'll, we'll get you on the schedule if it works out. How does that— how's that? Okay, what's your other two questions? Uh, do you have a PO box to send you stuff? I do. Email me and I'll give it to you. All right. Okay, and what's your third question? Uh, can I audition real quick for one of your movies. It'll be real quick. Okay, go ahead. Give me what you got. All right, all right, all right. First of all, let's get one thing straight. Crack is cheap. I make too much money to ever smoke crack. Let's get that straight, okay? We don't do crack. We don't do that. Crack is Black. Um, let's see what the podcast is doing. The acting, no, I'm working on it. Okay, that you was trying to get Whitney Houston, and I, I— yeah, but you know, we are creating a talent show. I haven't announced that yet. I'm nervous. I'm nervous. I'm nervous. And you get to come on and you get to, you know, showcase your talent in front of the Winos, and they get to vote and see if whether or not you should win the prize to work with me, whether it be in a movie or skits or on stage when I'm on tour, whether it be singing and stuff like that. So hold your horses. I'll have an email for you guys, you know what I'm saying? And yeah, but, um, yeah, I would have to say no. But the podcast is still up, podcast is still up. So let me see what your questions— it's working. And you were pretty straightforward on them questions, so I mean, I, I can, you know, I can work with that. But just thank you, don't give up, don't, don't give up. No problem. How old are you? Uh, my birth— my birthday's on Friday. Uh, so I'm gonna be 29. Thank you. Damn, you look like you 21. Thank you, thank you, I appreciate it. Wow, I can land them roles, them young— younger roles, I think. But I need more practice. You look like you could play in Euphoria. Let's, let's work on that. Okay, all right, cool. All right, so email me at gmail.com. All right, come on. All right, thank you. Bye-bye. All right, cool. Next person. Come on, Jasmine, give me another video. That was funny. And that's that, Jasmine. That's how our talent show gonna be too. No, they're not gonna be ready, child. At least you honest. Yeah, I'm being honest. We appreciate you. You're really cute. I had to be honest. The answer is no. I had to be honest. I gotta tell the truth. So you know what I'm saying? Wouldn't y'all like something like— wouldn't y'all like a talent show? Wouldn't that be cute though? Like, for people to come on and just showcase their talent, audition and everything. And it's just all fun. It's all fun. We ain't here to kill no careers, but, you know, help people to, you know— and I'm gonna have guest celebrity guests and things like that, other YouTubers, celebrities to come on and help us judge and stuff. So yeah, but happy early birthday. Yes. Mm-hmm. Listen, I know we're not gonna pull up— who'd they say, Drew's keeping anything? Uh, so, Shandra, how you doing? Shandra, where you calling from? I'm calling from Savannah, Georgia. Hey, how you doing? I'm good. How are you? How are you? Wonderful. What's your question? I hope you can help me. Yes. I really want to know, how can I stop being such an overbearing parent to my children? Oh, what you mean overbearing? Like you overprotective? You, you micromanage them? You don't let them think for themselves? What? More like overprotective. Okay, um, why are you overprotective? So it got pretty much worse when we had a 16-year-old cousin person passed away in our family. He got— he was down by a gun. I'm sorry if I can't say that. And it's gotten worse. He was killed? Yes, he was. He was 16. And, um, it's gotten worse ever since. And so you're— so you're projecting your fear into your kids? Pretty much. And I, I really want to know how can I move on from that. I do have a child who's graduating very soon, and I have two other kids as well. Um, I just really want to grow from it as a single parent. How old are your children? So I have a 19-year-old, he graduates this year, and I have an 18-year-old, and I have a 17-year-old. Okay. Um, that's tough. And so you are, you are going through something that's very normal that I'm going through. And it is called— you— this is all you've been doing for the last 19 years of your life is raising children, right? Right. And then something catastrophic happens and, you know, somebody close to you dies as a child, and then your worst fear is like, I don't want to get that call about my child. Pretty much, yeah. Okay. And so you gotta switch from being overbearing to giving them the tools that they need in order to not find themselves in situations like that. And yelling and fussing doesn't work. I don't do that. I, I'm sorry, let me cut you off. No, you're good. I, I don't fussing. Yeah, I think I've done a good job. It's just, uh, I think it's that what if, what if that happens, what if that's my kid? Because you, you hear it a lot, especially from friends. You hear it on the news. It's like every time you turn something on The internet is like kids down by family, friends, it's everywhere. And it's like that what if, what if that's my child, what if I failed them? And you don't want your kids like harboring that type of energy as well too. You want them to be able to live free and, and enjoy life and not have to look over their shoulders every 5 minutes just because you're scared. And so you gotta really, you got to talk to somebody to help you minimize your anxiety and help to look and just have a different outcome. Yes, that was unfortunate that that happened to you, but that's not— it's not their reality. And it's not fair that you're bringing that on to them, whether you're doing it through fussing or not fussing, or, you know, just being just overprotective and overbearing. It's it's not going to take that away. So you have to learn how to exist now in life, learning how to deal with loss. And if, um, and no parent wants to hear this, I mean, I got an 18-year-old that's going off into the world, and when I tell you she's a child, she's a fucking child. You can't tell her that. You really can't tell her that. She's swiping down, I got this, I got this, and then she calling me, Mommy, you know, like But I've equipped myself with the tools that I need in order to be able to switch from parent to guiding. Like, I'm, I'm now guiding and offering advice. And all you could do now was just pray that they accept it, pray for your children, and occupy your mind so that you're not thinking bad thoughts. Because, you know, we could bring on a lot of that stuff too. You ever been thinking like, man, I'm gonna get a ticket today, and next thing you know you get a ticket? Yeah, yeah. You don't want to bring that kind of energy around. You don't want to harbor that because all it does is it gets embedded in your subconscious and it just, it grows bigger, and then it, it, you know, it impedes on how they live life, you know. And you don't want them going out into the world in fear. You want them to go out into the world equipped to deal with any situation that they're into. And so you just gotta pray and trust God on this and educate them. I appreciate that. Okay, but get you some therapy, get you some anxiety— you may need a little Ativan, you know, but you're gonna be all right. Thank you so much. Anytime, Mama. Goodbye. We here, we here. Okay, all right, so I'm gonna finish up these last few callers and then we're gonna head over to tashaklive.com. All right, for our second part of the show, if you do want to watch the second part of the show, we've been doing a lifetime series on Yo-Yo's husband, uh, Kelvin, a man she don't even know she married. He said he got 8 kids, but there's 40 out here claiming him. I said, I just don't see why anybody would want to lie on you like that, sir. Uh-huh. But it's one hell of a story. Also, the Benzino movie is streaming, so is the, uh, Megan Thee Stallion, uh, reenactment movie. As well as the Diddy reenactment movie. Okay, you do have to subscribe. It is $12 to subscribe. Uh, once you watch everything you watch, you can pause your subscription or cancel. Okay, and return whenever you're ready to return. So ain't nobody holding you hostage on tashaklive.com. Okay, and so we have fun over there. All right, so next, who's next? Shante? Hey, how you doing? I'm fine. So I just wanted to call in to clarify. I'm the one who's I just sent the email about the two. Okay, okay, so go ahead, run it through. Okay, so they're not homeless where they don't have a place. One of them, the guy that lives in Cali, he lives with family. Uh, the person that lives out here, he rents a room, so he, he has a roommate. Um, okay, it's just like, like I said, the dating scene is trash, and I'm not desperate, I'm not like in need of a man, but yes, I would like to have, you know, someone and create a foundation and companionship. But like I say, I like the the way he expresses himself, he communicates, and he has a job. He's just in between. He, he just landed the job, put it like that. But he had a part-time job beforehand, so he's actively trying to get himself together. He understands and knows that's what he needs to do for himself. So I can tell by the way you speak, it's hard for people to really give you advice even though you're asking for it. So I do commend you for even reaching out, um, because you're a fast talker, and when people talk fast is because they don't want to hear what anybody else has to say. But it does take a little bit. I'm a little nervous, that's all. You know, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay. Um, and so, um, here, look, I'm not— just because you're on the phone now, and I appreciate you calling in because that was wild. So the way you described— hold on for a second, let me, let me, let me pull it back up. So the way you describe these dudes is. Hold on, let me make sure I get it, because we got to. Yes, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. So basically, you're 33. You're dating. Well, you're talking to one guy that's on FaceTime. He has all the qualities that you need emotionally as a woman, but he's in between jobs right now, and he doesn't have his own house, but he's living with family? Yes. You do understand that it's still technically homeless? Yes, I'm aware of that. Okay. And so the other guy, he's a photographer, but he has a car, but he doesn't have a house. He rents a room. But he just hit you recently. Did he tell you why he hit you? Oh, we've been knowing each other for a while. He didn't say exactly, but from our conversation, I just got, okay, maybe he trying to, I guess, be serious, uh, in a relationship. I don't, I don't I don't really know, but I'm not pressed for either or. I'm just genuinely— I'm open to advice. You know, you're way— you're older, so, uh, your insight. Yeah, I would take that, and I, I appreciate that. Um, so what do you do for a living, if you don't mind me asking? I'm in real estate, so I have a rental property, and I currently go to school full-time. Okay, well, so you're dating guys that don't even match you emotionally, uh, financially or mentally right now. And because you're an entrepreneur, um, that means that you're, you're used to taking things and building on things, which means that could be misused in a way, which means like we can misuse our gifts as women and help to— instead of building a house or building a business, we want to build a man. Yes, I— yes, but that's not what I'm trying to do, but I understand what you're saying. But that's what you are doing. Um, like, you're, you're sitting here saying one man has this, that he doesn't have that, the other man has this, that he doesn't have that. And so in your entrepreneur mind, you're like, well, I can work with this and build with this, and I can see where they can improve and help them to get there. So then it gets me— it gets them to where they need to be, and then I have the man that I need, and then both we can both build together. Yes, but a part of me is afraid of getting locked into something and I'm having to like settle because of the time and the feelings and things, you know, that will, that will arrive within the relationship. I just seen a lot happen within other relationships, friends, family, just stuff like that, and I don't want to be a victim to that. So I'm very cautious, but I have a big heart too. So, but you are— yeah, you have a big heart. So which means there's nothing wrong with you being friends with these guys and that's as far as it goes. Now, and I need women to understand, there are boundaries to this. Just because a guy, um, there may be something about him that you're attracted to, right? And you've named those things, and there's something about you that's attracted to them, but that doesn't mean that you act on those things. It may just be that you guys need to help each other. You have information that he needs in order to help himself. He has things that you need in order to realize what it is that you need. But you don't, you don't need to be romantically involved. Why do you need to be romantically involved? I don't have to be. I get what you're saying. I don't have to be. Do you understand what I'm saying? So a woman like you, such as yourself, you're going to need— and listen to me— an alpha man that allows you to show up in your full energy whether you want to work or not. Whether you want to— whatever it is that you want to do, they don't need nothing from you. Yes. Okay. And so, and, and typically alpha men don't care about what you got going on. It's not that they don't care about you, and a lot of women can mistake that as, you're not supporting me, you don't love me. No, they don't give a damn because they're going to take care of you regardless. So it's not like they don't take what you're doing serious. It's just that that's you, that's what makes you happy. You make me happy whether you have that or not. So it's not like you, you coming to me with 3 kids and I gotta accept the kids and accept you. It's a business and businesses come and go. But an alpha man that's in charge of his shit, there are going to be some traits that are just unavailable to you because he's got other things going on, and you got to be in your full energy, which means feminine energy, which means that's going to come with cooking, cleaning, running your business, doing everything that you do. And while he's over here doing that, you know that you don't have to do these things because he's going to love you regardless. And I just don't think, um, a man in the United States, a man that's in the United States right now that's Black is going to give you that. And I know I'm going to get dragged for that right now, but that's okay. That is okay. There are Black men that are outside of the US that can provide that. Do you understand? Yes. But right now, in, in the economy that we live in, nobody has that. A woman can't show up and be a housewife because now it takes two people to to be able to afford to just live in the US and have children on top of that, and multiple kids. So, you know, you're gonna have to open up your dating options and, and look outside of the US for a man and his full alpha energy that can appreciate a woman that can bring something to the table, but you don't have to. It's, it's bonus, it's dessert. Do you understand what I'm saying? Yes, I get that. Okay, so you could be friends with these guys and help them and, and allow your knowledge to help improve them. And if they do happen to get to a level and they'd be like, dang, we was friends, you helped me get up, now they're in their full alpha energy, boom, y'all can be together. But until they're in their full alpha energy, I don't think any man should be courting a woman especially making babies with a woman if he cannot give her the option to stay home and take care of those children. I'm sorry. I respect that. No, ma'am. No, ma'am. No, ma'am. Okay. All right. So, um, you got a lot going for yourself. Don't fuck it up. For sure. I guess I just felt bad initially because I was like looking at it as in him not having those things, and I don't date anybody that don't have those things. So I really know I was just giving him that, that pass because of how we connected emotionally and spiritually. But I get it though. Yes, and that's good that you have someone that is showing you what you need out of a man. And so now when you're off on your journey and these men, these male energies are coming towards you, you're, you're able to recognize really fast who has the full package, and you'll, you'll go right in sync with him. But the reason you're not syncing with these guys is because they're lacking a lot of qualities that you need internally as well to be fulfilled as a woman. You understand? Yes. And so yes, if you want them to be your projects, be your projects. Like, like they could be your projects, I swear to God. Like, you, you, you're in real estate, so you like to take things and make them new and generate and add value. If you want to do that, do that. That's fine. But as a friend Yes, as a— yeah, I get that. Okay, okay, I appreciate you. Anytime, anytime. All right, who's next? Bamboo— oh, who's next? Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Cena. Cena, how you doing? Cena? Hey, hey mama, how you doing? Not too good, but I'm on here. What's wrong with you? I just got done doing my laundry. You know, I told you, um, I had called in— I think it was February. Yeah, I had did a, um, call in about the CPS situation. CPS on you? Yeah. And what happened? Basically, I guess to make a long story short, CPS contacted the deadbeat father and decided that she wanted to get him involved, and she got him to fill out a protective order. Make another little story short, he did fill out the protective order, never once contacted his kids, see if they was okay, never, never none of that. So when the judge asked him those questions, he couldn't answer them. He— so that's— that, that got denied, of course. But I, I need prayer because that's what I really call in for, to ask for prayer. Because yes, the protective order got denied because there was no burden of proof, cool. But I still had to go to court facing the allegedly so-called child abuse charges that CPS is trying to put on me. Because my son wanted to go to school and run his mouth. Oh, I remember you. So it wasn't your sister that caused it, it was your son that went to school and said— yeah, okay. And so now they're doing a full-on— I didn't hear you at first when you first said that, that's why I said yeah. So basically your son went to school, you ended up taking something from him, I forgot what it was. Well, no, he got a whipping, but he went to school and ran his mouth about it. Okay, he was lying. That's what led up to— are there any— was there any bruises or anything from you whooping his ass? I mean, well, this is the thing. He had a previous scratch on his face, a previous scratch before his whooping. I don't know, I guess him and his brothers. Well, after the whooping, he had another scratch on the same area where the previous scratch was healing up at. Now, I did not hit him in his face, no. Could it possibly occur when he got the whooping? Yes. Was it intentional? No. So you just went in there and just start whooping his ass? No. I used to get whoopings like that. My mama would come in there, bitch, and I'll be like, you know what I'm saying? No, it wasn't like that. I tried to talk to him. No, no, no. When you continue to lie to me, yes, you got your ass— nice ass whooping. He continued to lie about where his coat was. It was 30 degrees that day outside. Continue to lie. And it was just things that was already built up anyway. So yeah, he got his ass torn up that day. But for you to go to school and run your mouth, and now I'm in a whole situation where I'm possibly— I have to go to court again for this, and I'm facing 15 years over some— wait a minute, for one, CPS never did their job. Wait a minute, you got— you're facing 15 years for whooping your kid? Yeah. You sure it ain't more details to your case? I'm positive. He— now, if the details come in when he told them I punched him But I didn't. He told them I punched him. The CPS or the sheriff wrote up a nice little report because even the judge was like, yeah, your report is good, but there was really no burden of proof because CPS never removed the kids out the home and they never did a medical examination. They never took my son for a medical examination. So to be facing 15 years with No type of proof or no broken arm, no broken ribs, no bruises like that. It was just a little scratch that they described in their writing as a cut, but wasn't a cut. It's ridiculous. It really is. Maryland is really trying to railroad me, and this is one state that I wouldn't advise no one to really live here or move here because it's wicked. Where's your son now? He's home with me. Wait, wait a minute. Hold up. Okay, so if a child has been that abused, is that normally they remove the child? None of that never happened. None of that never happened. When the, when the father put the temporary protective order out on me, yes, I had to either get them out the house or figure somewhere out for me to go. So what I did, the over, over the temporary protective. I stayed in the hotel for a week until I had to go to court for that, and it got denied. And then I went back into my home, but the kids was never taken away from me. Um, none of that. They never— CPS does not visit my home. None of that. Yeah, CPS does not visit my home. None of that. I just have a court case. Or are you fighting a CPS case? It turned into a criminal case. And they didn't get CPS involved? CPS, the reason why I'm in court, they the reason why they pressed charges and I went to court. Why not remove the child? They didn't, they didn't, because it's no bodily harm. It's really no real reason for them to to remove the child. So the child is still in your custody? Yes, it has been in my custody, never removed. Exactly. No. Why don't you have a lawyer? Because I can't afford a lawyer. Like, I've been a public defender. Well, that's the thing, I've been trying to contact one. I, I just worked through the week. I— my schedule is like crazy. By the time I get off Most likely they're probably closed. I left voicemails. You got to, you got to take off one day. You gonna work every day. This is your life. It was just hard to take off when I just started this new job. Like, it's hard to— I have been taking off for court. Can't make it today, or when you leave court, the public defender's offices are usually across the street from the courthouse. You go up in there and you get you one. This makes no sense at all. I know. How is it that a child was abused and you're facing 15 years and losing custody, but the child is still in your custody? That makes no sense. Exactly. I promise you I'm not hiding. I'm not leaving no details out. I promise you I'm not. I promise you. Email me unwildwithlatashakebe@gmail.com. Email me because I'm gonna get on the phone with you because This is not making sense. Like, a public defender should have been appointed to you. They should have gave you one. Let me write your email down. Okay. This is insane. I, I— yeah, it's, it's really insane because it is— no medical examination was never done to even say there was even probable probable cause for them to move it out the district court to a circuit court. A circuit court facing 15 years? Yeah, because I guess when I went for my preliminary hearing— What's your face in that state? That's like state charges, not circuit court, not traffic court. Yeah, when I went for my preliminary hearing, I had to questioned the sheriff who, I guess, got the report, the statement from my son. She never even came to my house. I don't remember the sheriff. She's saying she came to my house with CPS and a worker and I was very aggressive. Yeah, I was aggressive, but I don't even remember you. I remember who was there. It was two sheriffs and a CPS worker, and you was never there. So to get on the stand and actually sit there and lie, and I will say, yes, I froze up. 'Cause one of my questions was, when I had to cross-examine her, was, well, if all these— I had to, I had to, I had to. When I cross— when I cross-examined the sheriff, I had— I asked, well, if these kids are— well, if my son was in so much harm and all this, why the kids was never removed out the home? The state objected, the judge sustained it and let her answer. When she answered, she just said she's working with CPS. She has nothing to do with them being removed out the home, which doesn't make sense to me because if you're working with CPS, how don't you have anything to do with them being removed out the home but you're here being a witness over a statement that my son gave you, which technically makes you— it's hearsay. Okay, so here's the thing, here's the thing, okay, we got to stop being Matlock right here, okay? So these are very serious charges. Yeah, they are. If you get a lawyer, all of this will be rectified, okay? Yeah, where they could probably ask for a dismissal based off of them just not removing the child from the house, so there's no active, like You gotta get a lawyer. So email me, Unwind with Tasha K. Basically it's the show name, unwindwithtashak@gmail.com. So just remember at gmail.com, okay? Unwind, yes, like you're drinking wine. Yeah, this is crazy. W-I-T-H, right? Yes. @gmail. Okay, I got you. Email me and a public defender, please. Okay, across the street from the courthouse, they're right there. Matter of fact, you probably could have— you probably could have ran into one in the court in there. Yeah. Okay. All right, all right, all right. Bye, Mama. Oh my God, this is too much. All right, who's next? Let's go. Bamboo. Bamboo, how you doing? Bamboo. Bamboo. Hey, I can't complain. Tasha, how you doing? I'm good. Where you calling from? Well, I'm from Pasadena, but I'm in San Diego right now. Okay, shout out to Pasadena, San Diego. Okay, what's your question? Thank you, thank you. Pray for Pasadena, pray for Pasadena. Um, how did the baby get in the cut in the same place on his eye every time? Who did that to the baby? I was just wondering, Tasha, have you seen the new— the thing that goes, A-I-T-A-H, am I the a-hole? Have you heard of that? No. Well, basically, um, people will share a story. It's kind of big on the social media and Reddit, and they'll say there's something that they did, like, was I an a-hole, or was I rude or disrespectful or whatever for doing this? So I kind of wanted to ask you, it won't take long, but I was just wondering what you think. I did something, I'm wondering, do you think I'm wrong for this? Okay, so what happened was Making sure I'll make it quick. I'll make it quick. And you've been on for 2 hours already. So I want some, um, tickets to a concert off the radio. Okay. I want— I want 2 tickets. So it was me, it's my real homegirl, it was my current homegirl, and then there's my throwback homegirl. So my real homegirl was in a relationship. She wasn't coming outside with me and stuff that much. So it was my current homegirl who I was kind of kicking it with every single day. So once I— it was only 2 tickets that I won off the radio, so I told my current homegirl, okay, we going. So, um, we didn't have a ride to get there, so I called my throwback homegirl so we could have a ride. So it was only 2 tickets, so I'm like, forget it, I'll let y'all have the 2 tickets since I invited so many people. I'll just finagle my way up in there. I'm— I do that anyway. So then I had— so, so like I said, I really would have invited my real homegirl, but she was in a relationship and she wasn't coming outside that much, you know. Okay. So I ended up telling her— any— all 4 of us ended up going. It was 4 of us and 2 tickets. So I had told my throwback homegirl and my current homegirl that they could use the tickets, and me and my real homegirl would just go finagle our way up in there because we do type of stuff anyway, you know. So, uh, we about an hour late to the concert. As far as we know, it's only 15 minutes left on the show. The— my two homegirls who I told them they could have a ticket said, well, uh, we get it for the Nokia Club, they gonna say, well, we gonna go down the street to the Marriott and use the restroom. Well, according to the website, the show is gonna be over in 15 minutes. So I'm offering up y'all my tickets. I don't have no way to get in, but I invited y'all, so I was just gonna give y'all the tickets. Me and my real homegirl was just gonna finagle our way up in there if we could. If not, we'll stand outside the parlay while y'all wait for y'all to come out. So what's the question? Because it's kind of repetitive. So what's the— do you think I— well, I, I— they went down the street to use the restroom, like the No Kid Club didn't have no restroom. So me and my real girl use the tickets that I told them they could have. So we went to the concert instead of me giving them the tickets like I said I would. So basically you just— yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, no, I didn't— they— we— once we got to the venue, they said they was going somewhere else. So in my mind, I'm like, well, it's only 15 minutes left of the show, why are you guys going somewhere else to use the restroom? Like, it's not a restroom inside the Nokia Club. So what is your question? What do you want me to— what do you want to ask me though? Do you think I was wrong for going on using my tickets and leaving them outside? No, they're your tickets. Well, I told them that they was— that they could have the tickets. So you changed your mind? You know, well, no, I did— I didn't change my mind. What they left— well, they left when they were supposed to use the tickets to go in. They went somewhere else. You weren't wrong, because this happened when I was 19, Tasha. This was— this happened when I was 19. I've been wondering about this for almost too— a long time now. A long time. Next. Jasmine. Well, thank you, thank you. No problem. What the fuck, y'all? Please, please, please, please, please, please don't, don't, don't— these last few callers, please, y'all, just I feel like I'm being trolled. I really feel like I'm being trolled. Please, please, please, I got just a few more callers. Please, please. This was April Fools on me. I know, I know, I know. Okay, Jasmine, last couple people. Andrea, who's next? Hey, Andrea, where you calling from? I'm calling from Chicago, Lansing. What's your question? Well, Tasha, um, I have been emailing you, um, several, several times, um, in regards to a person that you had on your show. Okay. Um, a few months ago, probably, I think in October, Victor Bowman. I saw— yeah. What's going on? Well, Victor scammed me after your show, so I have been trying to reach out. Um, I sent Victor— well, I explained to Victor my situation. Now, I had saw Victor once before. I tried to communicate with Victor before when he was working with Lyrica from Atlanta, the little girl that had the brain, um, yes, yes. Okay, go ahead. So, um, a few years ago, you know, he was working with— he had taken over because his nephew— well, his cousin, because that's Dr. Sebi's grandson. Um, so they was feuding, you know, the whole family is against each other, you know, they're feuding back and forth who's got the, the proper, you know, Sebi's, um, regimen, and this one is not selling real herbs and all that stuff. Stuff, right? So when I reached out to him, he had taken over the grandson working with Lyric. And so when I reached out to Victor, at this time Victor had taken over, um, in the last stages of Lyric's life. Okay, eventually passed on. Um, God rest her soul. Sorry to hear that. And so, um, but Victor was bickering with the nephew who was originally doing Lyric and And so I don't know what happened, why he ended up not working with Monica, Lyrica's mom, anymore. But I reached out to Victor through Instagram. Okay. I connected with his assistant. Okay. Um, the Spanish guy. And so, um, Victor was too busy arguing backwards and forth every day. He was online arguing with the cousin. They were going back and forth. With his cousin, Dr. Sadie's grandson. Okay, which name? His name is Isaiah. You probably met him too. Okay, so they're both fighting over who got the real herbs and who don't. Yeah, exactly. Okay, so how did he scam you? So, um, so I left it alone because I could never get Victor, you know what I'm saying? He was too busy arguing and fussing online, so I kept speaking through the, through the assistant. So I just said, you know you know what, whatever, let me just leave them alone so he— they get their life together. So when I— so years went— a couple of years went by, I saw him on your show. I said, wow. First I saw him with, with, um, Wendy Williams first. That was the first one. I said, oh, so she working with Victor, hmm. So I said, okay, he's standing up and everything. I said, okay, so if he can help Victor, he can help truly help Sade. Okay. I said, okay. Me. So, but when I saw him on your show, I said, okay, boom, he on Tasha. I know, you know, we were talking about Wendy Williams. We were talking about, right, in a health segment, right? Exactly. So I was like, okay, I know Tasha not gonna really, you know, deal with nobody if they not legit, right? So, right, but if they got a story, we're gonna do that. But go ahead. I know, right? So I reached out to him again on Instagram. Instagram. Of course he hit me back and said, you know, can you do WhatsApp? Yeah. Okay. So I reached out to him and told him my daughter's story, told him I'm a single mom. My daughter took sick in her senior year of high school. She can no longer walk or talk anymore. She went into cardiac arrest on her roller skates. Okay. Um, so she suffered the brain injury. Yes. Um, so she can't walk or talk. So, you know, she deal with seizures and everything. So I told him all all this. I'm a single mom on a fixed income. I don't have a lot of money. Even if I have to borrow the money, can you help Shade? He told me, yes, if you do what I tell you to do, you know, um, we can, we can get her better. Okay, cool. So I should have known better after the first two transactions, right? So he had me to send him this money through Apple Pay. And so when I sent him the money the first time, I sent $500. So the next conversation, he was like, okay, as soon as you send me the, you know, the rest of the money, you know, I'll get you the herbs as soon as possible. I said, okay. So you never got the herbs? I never got the herbs. The last two payments— the last two payments I sent Victor, he told me he never got the money. If you go on my YouTube, you got receipts on that? I, I got the whole— well, I got my Apple Pay, but I got the whole conversation. Like, I told Victor, look, don't— you know, because when I— when I— when he sent me a different— he sent me a different number each time I sent him a transaction, when I should have known that, right? Because Victor— I've been to Victor's warehouse. Victor has a huge warehouse. I hope you were talking to someone— like, I don't know if his account was hacked or anything like that, you know. No. Did you ever talk to him on the phone? No, he wouldn't talk. He said he'd rather, he'd rather, um, talk through, you know, text. And I figured, okay, maybe that's not Victor then, because Victor gets on the phone with people, right? Because I figure, you know, he's Spanish, right? You know, he speaks Spanish, so his English is not all that great, right? So, okay, so that's why I figured— let me, let me stop you right there. Let me stop you right there. Because I can't let you continue on if we don't even know if it was Victor that you were speaking to. Because I personally been to Victor's warehouse and the man got herbs for years. I'm talking about he's got a whole crew working and they're sending herbs. I've seen his orders. I've seen how he does his orders. We were going to do a deal with Victor, but we couldn't get— we couldn't agree on a lot of the logistics of how it needs to be done. So we never did that deal. But what Victor does is legit. So I don't know if you were preferably talking to Victor, but what I can do, if you email me, I can stop you right here because I don't want you putting out any allegations against him because he does help a lot of people out here and it really wasn't him. Because there are a lot of people whose Instagrams are being taken over or they're mimicking Instagrams to look like other people's Instagrams so that you think that you are talking to the real Victor and you have sent money to a scammer. So here's what I'm going to do. Email me, put your information in an email. I am going to personally connect you with Victor yourself on the phone, and he will send you the herbs for free. I sent you an email. If you go back and check, Andrea Carson. Yeah, you got to— you got— I get— girl, I get hundreds of emails a day. Your assistant responded back to me and told me she would pass. I would have to go back in it. I don't remember because it's been since October, and she told me that she would pass it on to Victor. And we don't have a woman assistant. We haven't had a woman assistant in a year and a half. I can't remember who it was, but they— yeah, they responded back from your email eventually, and she told me that she would pass it on to Victor. And so I said, well, no, we don't have a woman assistant, so I don't I guess that was her name. I guess it was a woman's name. I could be wrong. I don't— don't— yeah, it was a male assistant, Jason. Yeah, don't, don't, don't quote me. I can't— I'm just, you know, okay, I'm just saying. But here's the thing, I'm gonna stop you right here. Re-email me unwindwithtashak@gmail.com, okay? And I will connect you with, with Victor, and he'll send you the herbs for free. Victor does that all the time. So it's not about money for him. He makes money. Yeah, so I don't know who you gave your money to, but I gotta stop you from putting those allegations out there against Victor. Yeah, well, because I did. I even did it on my YouTube channel. But, uh, you, you made a YouTube video about it? I sure did. Oh my God, I sure did. Because you know what I mean? Because like I said, it was— this is what it was. I went back to the Instagram that I was speaking to him 2 years ago, you know what I'm saying? So I went back and now if somebody hacked that particular, um, Instagram, then that could be possible. But that's where I reached him back to, the one that I was talking to him 2 years ago. And that's when he told me to tell you to send him an Apple Pay. He has a website. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You ain't got no website? No, no, no, that's what I'm saying. Victor has a whole website where he sells herbs, and he will send you to that website, and he will tell you to purchase through that website, and then they'll send you the herbs. But if you're in need of them ASAP, he will give them to you, but he's not gonna ask you to send him no Apple Pay. So honestly, somebody probably created a dummy Instagram. Wow, I feel bad now because I was like so hurt, so hurt. So I'll I'll take the— I'll take the YouTube down. But yeah, I don't have a real— take it down and I will get you— I don't have a real— whatever it is that you need, and we'll clear this up because I know Victor personally. Okay, I was really trying to reach you before I did the YouTube, so— okay, but I couldn't reach you. All right, no problem. So I'll be expecting your email, Andrea. Okay. Okay, thank you so much. All right, Mama, you're welcome. Thank you so much. All right, bye-bye. All right, who's next? Steph. Hey Steph, how you doing? Where you calling from? Hi, I'm calling from New York. Hey Mama. Hi. Okay, I have two things for you. Okay. One, um, I do real estate currently. I've been into it only a little over a year. But my passion is really interior decorating and design. Okay. And I'm trying to really figure out how I should really start to break into it and to kind of get away from the real estate. I really got into it just like so I can get the distressed homes and start flipping them and things like that once the money really start coming in. Um, but I'm starting to feel somewhat as if I'm helping fulfilling other people's dreams, uh, like the brokerage or whatever, um, and starting to put mine to the wayside. But at the same time, I'm not one of those that's really like the camera so much, into like social media, and I'm trying to figure out how I should kind What's the best way for me to really break out of that shell and how to really start getting it going, the interior decorating? So you're doing real estate, but now you want to transfer into interior decorating? Yes, that's really where my passion is, and I'm a retired correction officer. Okay, and so have you taken any interior design classes? Um, I'm— Also, I've taken some classes. I haven't finished it yet, but that's really more of design instead of interior decorating. The interior decorating kind of comes naturally. Like, everybody that knows me or know of me, um, basically calls me to help decorate their homes. I mean, sometimes I got rid of Facebook— I mean, not Facebook, iPhone— because people was even starting a video chat, you know, and they'd be in stores wanting me to pick out the flooring and tile and things like that. So I kind of got rid of the iPhone so it's harder for them to, you know, so they won't be just chatting, live chat, and calling me all the time like that unexpectedly. That was good customer service because a lot of times when your passion tends to take over what your day job is, which is real estate So now you're moving into what you love. People are already seeking you out for it, which means you can use those as references. So when you do solicit, you actually have clients. So you just cut off your clients. And so I tell everybody this when they're starting a business, your first customers, even though they're not really supposed to be your customers, are your friends and family. It's sort of like you opening up a corner store and you're not going to market you're in New York, you're not going to market your corner store to people in New Jersey, your corner store is going to service the people that are in your community, preferably your family, your friends, and then they go tell people. And so but your family and friends will receive free service that you can use to help market to say, hey, this is my portfolio, this is what I'm doing. So basically, you just put down your portfolio, and now you don't have anything really to sell to them. And so and it does give you more experience as well too. And they then they will go tell somebody. And when they do send somebody to you, you charge them for that. Yeah. Okay. Okay. So you got to get those people back to, to, to calling you and emailing you so that you can help them. And then if you want to charge them, hey, if you're in home, if you're in HomeGoods, I charge $30 an hour. So they pay you $30 to help them pick out pillows or curtains that match and stuff like that. You start small and then build, and then build, build your way up. Okay. And second question, um, I came in kind of late when you had already started your live, um, and it was during the time with someone with lupus, um, but I'm not sure like what, um, which one of your mushrooms you said to use. I'm assuming possibly the same thing you may have told her possibly because I'm also recovering. I'm in remission from stage 3 breast cancer. Oh, nice. Congratulations. Thank you. So I was wondering which ones that I should try for that due to the fact, you know, remission, you never get rid of it. It's just asleep. Oh, well, I could beg to differ, but that's okay. I'm not a doctor. All right. And the reason they don't tell you a hard yes or no is because if they tell you something, you can come back and sue, right? And so the thing about it is I recommend that everybody has some type of mushroom in their diet, whether it's dehydrated, whether you're eating them through food. And so it just depends on— a lot of people don't like mushrooms, they don't like the texture. So I typically usually use our Vitamix, but we're out of that right now. And so right now, We do have the mushroom blend complex, which is the mushroom extract that has every single type of mushroom that you need. Mushrooms are rich in antioxidants and they help to optimize your T cells so that they can fight off free radicals and things that are in your body. This is on the website. Or if you buy the combined mushrooms, which are a little bit more potent, which is like the cordyceps, the chaga and things like that, and the lion's mane, take them them twice, maybe 2 to 3 times a week. Put them in a smoothie. I just pop them here if they're gummies and stuff like that. Um, yeah, they'll help to optimize your T cells, but you do have to be eating well, you know. You do have to be taking your vitamins and minerals, and this is just an added herb. And you can look at the NIH, um, the National Institute of Health, and their research, and it'll tell you what mushrooms is doing for cancer therapy and things like that. And so it does tend to keep those things from, you know, cancer cells from, you know, turning back into cancer, you know, not cancer cells turning into bad, but cancer cells just coming back, you know what I'm saying? Or regular healthy cells turning into cancer cells. Because now they're coming, you know, with, um, this type of therapy. I just read a medical report— when was it? Last week. And they've learned how to turn a cancer cell back to a healthy cell. Remember, they said that you couldn't do that. Yeah, now the Chinese is doing it through mushroom therapies and things like that. So I was just like, you see, but in the US they'll never give you a concrete yes or no because of the liability and the lawsuits. Well, you said yes, and so you got my hopes up and I'm suing for this. And so they generally say, oh, this is a health practice and things like that. But look at the NIH. And if you do go to my website and you purchase all, if you use the coupon code TK10, it gives you 30% off of all of them. But if you just get 1 or 2, it gives you 10% off. But like I tell everybody, keep mushrooms in your diet the same way, uh, HIV patients keep them HIV meds in their diet. That is nothing but mushrooms, and it optimizes their T cells. And that's why you don't see a lot of people succumbing to it. You see them succumbing to other things that they're doing that affects their immune system. And so doctors only can do so much. And so, yeah. Okay, yes, I have shopped on your channel. I've actually got your mask, which I do like. Um, they be playing with my stuff because I'm like, I use this stuff. I'm trying to tell them, like, I'm not just— these are not— yes, people bring me products and say, hey, will you, will you solicit my products? I kid you not. Just give you an example before you give your review. Um, we got a lady that came to us with these pills, and she had lipo pills, and I was like, okay, what are these lipo pills. And she was like, well, they can help with your stomach being flat. They got BBL pills. And I was just like, baby girl, I know you're a wino and I know you love— but I'm not selling that shit to my winos. It's bullshit. Like, I get it that a lot of people don't like surgery and this may work, but I don't know a pill that can help grow your butt. I don't know a pill that can give you a flat stomach. You know what I'm saying? It's so like, I just don't tell people anything. So yes, um, this is my Dead Sea mud mask. And so what are your results on it, baby? Because that's— yeah, I have it. Yeah, I have it. Okay. And I just got the toothpaste yesterday. It just came yesterday and everything. We're sold out of the toothpaste. Y'all bought it all. Oh, okay. But I do like the mask because I was using the one that, um, was being advertised. Like, you see the little clippings from like, um, Cardi B that was coming from Korean Korea, I was trying that, but then when I seen yours, you, during one of your clips, I decided to try yours. And I like the fact that my skin feels light, fresh, and it doesn't feel dry. Right. You know, it doesn't feel dry. So I've only used it maybe about 4 times so far, 'cause I've had it about a month, a little more. So I try not to overdo it or anything. I mean, I'm 53, so, but I'm still, I'm trying to continue to look young or whatever. So I do appreciate and I, I want to congratulate you on all the things that you're doing. I think it's magnificent and being a Black woman, um, and it's definitely something that you definitely deserve your flowers. And I just wanted to express that as well. Thank you. You look gorgeous. I appreciate you and the best of luck in your new business venture. Thank you and have a good night. Thanks for taking my call. Bye. So just since she unplugged the mask, it's the Dead Sea mud mask. I've been using this for years. Okay. The reason I do Dead Sea is because when you go— when you typically see people who live by the water and live in the beach, that salt, the minerals, the magnesium, all that stuff extracts all the impurities from deep down in your skin. It helps to exfoliate. And so what this does without over-drying, it does have natural coconut oil and it also has vanilla oil that's in the skin. So it doesn't over-dry your skin. Because what happens with a lot of clay masks, a lot of silic masks and things like that, they tend to dry out your skin and you don't have that natural glow and shine. And so this leaves it shiny and just clean, especially if you don't go to a regular esthetician and things like this. And so it is available on my website, shoptkdeals.com. Use the coupon code TK10. It lasts for months. Okay, so it's not like you got to keep buying it. You know what I'm saying? You can keep this for up to 8, 9 months because you only need a little bit on your skin. And it's gonna pull dirt from 5 layers deep, okay? So yes, I'm only selling y'all stuff that I use or that I would personally use. They can get up out of here with that, you know, well, just because you don't use it don't mean nobody else ain't gonna use it. Out of here with that, okay? So moving on, let's go. Char, how you doing? We don't have time for any more, Tasha. We gotta go. We got— I gotta finish. They've been waiting. They've been waiting. Let me just give them a minute each, okay? All right, all right. Sure. How you doing, baby? Doing well, and I promise you I'm not gonna take up much. It's okay, it's okay. Where you calling from? I am calling from the Chicagoland area. I am the mother. Okay. Been sending you emails for quite a while and the one that kind of sent you the email, um, this evening that you read about bringing awareness to young ladies who are Considered Runaways, but in the Chicago area. Okay, I remember your emails. So, um, someone did try to contact me yesterday from, um, well, someone reached out yesterday through email asking for my phone number, which I did, um, send my phone number, but I didn't get a response back. But since I saw that your live was on tonight, I said, okay, let me put a voice— let me, um, call in so that you can voice to my email. I am okay, who have not seen nor heard from my daughter in 6 years. Oh my God. I'm not gonna, um, go into detail, but again, for me right now, what I wanted to do was put a— you to put a voice to the emails that I've been sending you for the past— wait a minute, are you, are you the woman that said you spoke to the Clarys? Absolutely. That's okay. We were gonna call you. I just, I just got across my desk this week. Yeah, so can we hold that thought and I'll call you? Yes. Okay. Yes, I just wanted to put a voice— and my team is listening right now too because we literally just got it and I sent it over to my assistant, um, I believe yesterday if I'm not mistaken. So you're queued up. Yes, thank you. So your daughter was around R. Kelly, correct? That part I'm just gonna say, I just would like for you all to just look into what I'm, what I'm, what I'm alleging. Okay, I got you, I got you. Yeah. Okay, all right, so we'll be in contact. Okay, thank you. All right, Mama, thank you. Okay, all right, Love Logic, how you doing? Where you calling from? Hi, I'm calling from New York. Okay, what's your question, baby? Oh my goodness, Tasha, I waited so long to, um, speak to you. I thank you for having me here. I just want to bring awareness and ask, how do you move forward after betrayal? After betrayal from someone close to you? Well, it depends on what type of betrayal it is. I mean, some betrayal— okay, so I, I actually DM'd you on Instagram. You did respond, but I know you're busy. Um, my mother slept with my ex. They both kidnapped my kids, fled to a Commonwealth, to Pennsylvania, and I've been fighting the Commonwealth similar to the other mom that was up here, only my kids were never removed from me from CPS. So I'm, I'm battling, um, the courts for my own kids against my mother who has laid down with my kid's father. What? Yes, this is a whole story. So this needs to be on Tasha K Live, actually. But yes, since 2023, for 2 years, I've been fighting against my own mother. I call her my egg donor for my own kids who laid down with my kids' father. She got my kids to Pennsylvania. That's a Commonwealth state. And it's a whole big cover-up. I was arrested wrongfully out there behind trying to get my kids back. It's been so much. So that's why I asked the question, how do you overcome? How do you bounce back from such a deep betrayal? Me, I'm an entrepreneur. I have my own vegan hair care, um, business. I make plant-based shampoo. How did— hold on for a second. Wait a minute, before you get into the, the product, uh, plugging. Yes. Um, how, how did your mother get your kids? So basically, she's always been what I thought was my support system. I've had a very, um— I've overcome domestic violence with my kids father. I thought I had her as a support system, and lo and behold, she was a, a catalyst. She, she played a role in the abuse. Um, she was basically pretending to be there for me when I thought I had her, when I needed her the most. And so she had custody of your kids while you were going through a lot? No. Okay, was she watching the kid? Was she taking care of the kids while you were going through a lot? She would have them like on weekends and school breaks, typical stuff. Not— but my kids never lived with her. I've always had my kids since birth. So this was basically a strategic, um, plot basically that they got together and put together, knowing my situation, um, and she went and caught up with my ex, got him involved, and they too were in cahoots, got my kids to Pennsylvania, and that's when the court filings began. But me and my kids' father was already in court. I was already, um, suing him for custody of my kids, which was never a problem because he's pretty much been absent. Okay, but there's something that, that's missing from this story. So what do you mean in cahoots? So what, she kept the kids during a school break or something and just never returned them, or she left the state? She left the state with my kids, not during school break. This was basically while she was coming to visit me and my kids in New York. She showed up, um, at my kids' doctor's appointment with me. I'm thinking she's just tagging along, not knowing that she had texted my ex, told him where me and my kids were, had him ask me for my kids uh, to take them out to eat. We hadn't seen or heard from him since the pandemic. He shows up, comes, and I thought he was taking my kids out to eat and dropping them back off home to me, not knowing that he was going to meet up with my mother. And they had this— you didn't call the police then when they took the kids? I— yes, I did. But because of how they, how they did this, because she got him involved, the law enforcement where I live has been giving me, um, basically the spill of, oh, that's the other parent and he has rights, but he's absent. But does he have rights? Well, he, he doesn't. My kids call him by his first name. They don't— I get you. I, I— okay, I get that. But did you ever have a court establish who has custody of the children? No, that's what we were in court for at that time. We were weeks away from a custody hearing when it happened. So this was basically to— or they, they put something in stone, he took the kids, and so now you have to fight with the courts to get the kids back. Yes. So how is— and how long has this been? This has been for 2 years, since 2023. And he's right now— yes, I, I just was reunited with my kids this past October, but because this, this order basically is illegal, and the court in Pennsylvania already established that in criminal court when I was faced with criminal charges behind this for showing up to my egg donor's house to get my kids back. Like, hey, what, what is this? So I'll go there to get my kids back, she calls the cops on me, and instead of them helping me get my kids away from her, I end up in handcuffs because that's a civil issue. So it's— and it's way deeper than this, Tasha. Like, it's to the point where the courts out there have covered things up. Um, they have violated me in many ways, like every right. Um, it's just gotten to the point where this is bigger than Now it's— I'm fighting my ex, my mother, and the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. Okay, so do you have an attorney? So I, I heard you asking the other mom earlier, it, it makes a difference when there's a public def— like when there's a paid attorney and when there's a basically a court-appointed attorney, which is what I have. That's not true. That's not true. It doesn't make it like— a good lawyer is a good lawyer. A lawyer is a lawyer just to help you to understand what your rights are. And so, um, I'm just— I'm— I got a feeling there's some details that's missing. I'm not saying you leaving anything out, but what I'm saying is, you know, when I really get the time to really talk to you, um, I'll be able to kind of grasp. Please do. Because there's so many layers and I don't want to get nothing misconstrued because this is a real big— and I, when I, when I was faced with this, I realized that I wasn't the only mom going through this. Like my advocate told me, um, this is a thing. Like on TikTok, Google like family abductions, you have people snatching, like child snatching watching, um, family members taking other family members' kids and trying to get custody, which is what I've been faced with. And, um, this is just devastating. It's, it's turned my life upside down. Like I said, my kids were never removed from my care. There's no CPS involved. This is my mother taking my kids from me with my ex's help, who showed up after 8 years for that sole purpose. And these two together, who have been sexually involved, got together and did this, and it's been a nightmare ever since. And I just can't believe it. And this just speaks to the, the, um, family court justice reform that needs to happen. Okay, cool. So what we're gonna do is, um, re-email me so I can see your story, because like I said, there's some details that I'm not picking up because I just, you know, and then we'll, we'll take it from there. But I do, you know, my heart goes out to you for what you're going through. I couldn't imagine, you know, having to, you know, fight to get my kids back. And so hopefully we can figure this out and point you in the right direction. Okay, thank you so much. I appreciate it, Latasha. Thank you. Oh, no problem. All right, so hold on for a second. Hold on, hold on, Jasmine. I'm confused. We have guests waiting to be interviewed on the next show. We told them 10 PM EST. It's now 11 PM. I thought you said 10 PM my time. No, you asked me what time. That's where I was confused at. No, it's our time. Okay, so yeah, we got to be more clear about that. So, um, ask if they still want to wait. It's going to be another 20 minutes. If not, we just got to do them tomorrow. All right, and we'll compensate them for their time. Okay. All right, cool. All right, so, uh, Faith, how you doing? Hey. Hey, Mama, where you calling from? Louisiana. Okay, shout out to Louisiana. What's your question? Look, I was in the hospital. They said I had a stroke, right? So they said you had a stroke? Yeah, uh-huh, I had one. And, um, but then they had unalived my mom like 3 years, 3 years ago, and I showed them the paper. They end up putting me in some kind of After the stroke, I had fell twice. They end up putting me into all kind of— try to PC me. And a white nurse choked me, like was choking me. What? Like I was like this. I said, I can't breathe. And he was choking me and they let him choke me. So I want to get that story out, Tasha. And the black security sat there and let that— that's why I need somebody overseas too, because they let that man choke me. Are you being serious right now? I know it's April Fools, Tasha, on my mama and my dad's sun grave. So what, what— okay, so what's your question? What, what should I do? Like, they— well, I called the people today and they say that's a big lawsuit. So what should I do? I mean, I never thought— I never thought a white— I mean, his name, I got his name and everything. I never thought that I would be choked by a white man, but I couldn't get to him, Tasha, because I would have been like you. You know how you were with them? You were hitting— you them hands was rolling. You was playing no games with them, with them he, she, she McGees. But yeah, okay, that's happening. All right, okay, I love you, Latasha. I love you too, baby. All right, bye-bye. Bye, my baby. Bye-bye. We got lion's mane mushroom here, it's 1,000 milligrams, supports memory, focus, and brain health. It is available now on shoptkdeals.com. Use my coupon code TK10 if you're having any sort of brain issues, memory issues, or anything like that. 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If you have problems with bloating and stomach problems and have energy problems combined with the energy strips as well as the, I believe it's the cordyceps mushrooms, it'll give you all the energy that you need. So watch me wake up for my interviews that are about to take place if the guests haven't, haven't jumped off right now. Okay. And so guys, you can get this on my website as well. Shop tkdeals.com. Use the coupon code TK10. Thank you all so much for watching, guys. We are casting for our dating show. So please email us, doyoulikemecontestant@gmail.com. We actually start filming this Sunday, um, and so we've got a lot of people lined up. And if you are looking for love, looking for a relationship, this is the show for it, okay? And so go to, uh, send us an email via your email at doyoulikemecontestant@gmail.com, and we'll be back with you to fill out a form. And then We'll let you know what show you're gonna be on if you make the cut, okay? I love you guys, um, and thank y'all for calling in. I'll see y'all tomorrow night for some White Wine Wednesday, again Friday with some Fuckery Friday. And with that being said, we're headed over to tashaklive.com right now for the second part of the show. Um, we got Kelvin's kids, Yo-Yo's husband's part of his 40 kids that he don't know nothing about, live and ready to go, okay? So, uh, Tasha K Live, I'll I'll see y'all right now. Let's go! Now we gotta go. Bye! Oh my God, oh my God, we get it. Times are tough right now, and the last thing you need is a long-term commitment with the wireless carrier for an upgrade with the same features. Congratulations, Rockstar Wireless has your back. Stay connected with America's fastest growing wireless network coast to coast. We have you covered with plans starting as low as $9.99, unlimited 5G plans start at $19.99. Yeah, you heard me right, $19.99. If you're paying hundreds a month on your wireless plan, you need to make the switch. 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