I’m crying…. thank you so much..2024🙏

You had this video? I was talking to you, bitch. You really do. I meant to do one today, but I forgot. My back was so big, bitch. Hey guys, hey, you want to be in a live with me? Yeah, you do. Yeah, you do. Jasmine, you gonna make— okay, I gotta get some tissue. I'm really gonna cry. Oh my God, Jasmine, God, listen, y'all, I'm making this live for y'all. Y'all don't— oh my God, I'm trying to hold back my tears. It's not because my cycle on, I'm really emotional, and I've been this way all year. I've been this way all day. Okay, all right, I know it's late. It's really not late, it's 10 o'clock. Um, all right, let me, let me straighten this up. Let me straighten this up because I don't do well with emotion. You know I don't have it. How many times you see me crying over me? I'm like laughing really tight to keep from crying. Okay guys, all right, all right, I gotta be vulnerable. I gotta be humble, I gotta be vulnerable. Hartford, Manchester, New York, Boston. Ah, Godly. Damn, bruh. Damn. Okay, I'm a G. I'm G. All right, I said I wasn't gonna cry. Okay, so here's the thing, here's the thing. Can y'all hear me? Okay, so I really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really want to thank you guys. Like, I was just talking to my. My spiritual counselor and I said in my live previous that, you know, I've always wanted, whether it was a radio DJ, but comedy was always secretly in my soul. I would watch comedians and get jealous, like ever since my early 20s. I would just get jealous. I used to spend hours— like, I would skip class and go to the gym in high school. I failed high school because I would be in the gym busting jokes. There's not a person in my hometown that don't know this about me. And I kept this buried because there was no school for comedy. You couldn't, you couldn't grow up and say you wanted to be a comedian or anything like that. And, um, you know, I know we started off with the news and I always did comedy. I would do skits and stuff. But guys, I don't think y'all know, and I like how emotional I am right now. I don't even know how to fake it. I'm trying, I'm trying to hold back. My heart is pumping fast right now. It's very emotional, and I'm holding my tears back. I really am. I'm really holding my tears back. You did it! No, we did it! We did it, Jess. I'm so proud of you. Where the tissue at? Goddamn, you got no tissue. Got napkins and shit. Thank you, thank you. I swear to God, I remember moving to Fort Lauderdale right after the case, right? And you question your life so much. You question everything that you work for, everything that you've gone through. I questioned it all. And I remember sitting on my beach in Fort Lauderdale, and I remember asking God in the water, I said, God, if you just give me, um, I said, you know, I don't know how I'm gonna go about doing this switch, you know, just not switching lanes, but like, you know, going into another lane, right? I said, I don't know how I'm gonna go about doing this because I built this, so how do I add this part, right? And, um, everybody that was around me was asking, why don't you do comedy? Why don't you do comedy? And I really wanted to do it, but I had built this lane. I really built this lane, and I was so fucking nervous. Like, I was just like You know, you just feel like something's missing. And, um, I remember sitting on my beach and I was like, God, like, if I will do— just please help me. I don't know how I'm gonna do it, but please help me. I will go to small comedy clubs. And my spiritual advisor was telling me that. And I said— and I remember my team going around with me. I said, I'll go to small comedy clubs and do open mics. I'll do whatever I gotta do to build it because I don't want to, um I didn't want to— I guess it was like called cheating because comedians would work their way from the ground up, you know, club to club. And I was like, I will do that, I will take that path if you want me to take that path. And I remember saying that, and then I called around to some comedy clubs and I met my comedy coach at the time. He was giving comedy classes in Boca Raton. And it was his last class. I went to a— I finally found a comedy coach and went to his last class, and he moved to New York, and we lost touch. And I was like, maybe this is not for me. I remember telling a really big comedian at the time, and she's still big, that I wanted to be a comedian, and she shot me down so bad. It was so bad. I'm not even gonna— it's not even worth saying who she is or what her name is or whatever, but like, it was bad. And, um, that's why you should never tell people what you want to do. You should never tell people your dreams or whatever, because that could have made me not do what I did today. Or I mean, you know, what we're doing today. But I remember asking— I don't know how to be emotional, y'all, in front of y'all, that's why I'm looking down. But I remember asking him and I said, I'll work my way, I'll do comedy clubs, I will build it. If I built this, I can build this. And But I don't want to lose this because this is so— this is us. And will they accept me? I used to ask myself, will y'all accept me? Yes. Um, they said crying comes with tears, bitch. They in the chat, they said crying comes with tears. Let me get close, okay? Let me get close, all right? Because I'm not a crier. All right, I'm not a crier and I'm not a boo-hoo crier and I don't really cry, but since we need receipts on me crying, that's fine. But, uh, they need receipts on the tears, like, for me to be crying happy tears, right? I can see if I was crying saying that I lost something, but I didn't. I'm crying saying happy and saying thank you. And I remember, you know, just asking God, and I remember taking my team and we would go to different small little comedy clubs. And I remember I got— it wasn't booed. Thank you, baby. It wasn't booed, but I remember going in front of this all-white crowd. They didn't know who I was. And when I tell you, they just stared at me. And then I bombed so bad. And then the comedian came in after me and was like— she started making jokes about my jokes. I was like, bitch, oh my God. You know, and then my husband, he literally sat me down. He's like, why the fuck are you going this way and you got millions of people that follow you online? Why are you doing this? And I'm like, because I want to do it the right way. I want to earn my keep. I want to earn my stripes. And I was so scared about entering a lane because that one big comedian was— she shot me so bad, so down so bad. Jason, it's loud. So, um, Just to make a long story short, guys, um, you know, we just ended up our first tour. Jasmine just showed me a video of, um, when we was in Naples, Florida, and, um, man, that crowd was like all like, will y'all be quiet please? I'm trying to be vulnerable and y'all fucking racking and throwing shit. I'm sorry, y'all, it's Shay. So, um, you know, I just want to say thank y'all for making this happen. Not only was it extremely successful, we didn't get booed, we didn't get no bad reviews. All we got was, when you coming back? When you coming back? When you coming back? When you coming back? When you coming back? And now I've gotten so many calls from big-time comedians to say, this is your lane. And I was so scared to do it. I'm scared every show. I doubt myself. I talk myself out of it. I have these crazy thoughts that come in my head to say I'm in the wrong lane. You know, there's so many things that just goes through my mind while I'm still trying to maintain what we have, because I'll never ever leave what we have. Comedy is just— it's really my passion. I don't have to make money at it, and we didn't make a lot of money, so I don't want y'all thinking that's what this was about, you know what I'm saying? But it's just the fact that we got a whole tour manager now. So shout out to Eric, shout out to Jason, shout out to Jasmine. Shout out to my whole team. Um, my husband that's being extra over here. Um, he likes to be loud. He want to talk, but he don't really want to talk. And, um, you know, and shout out to y'all and God for making this happen. So thank y'all. It's like I received an award tonight, like I'm giving myself an Emmy. To do— to be on the same stages as the greats that came before me, man. I'll never forget when we did Baltimore and we finished— we, we came on right after Sherri Shepherd, like, and packed that bitch out. Like, it was crazy when I— and there was— and like I said, there was some comedians that was like, what the fuck you doing? You're ruining comedy. You haven't even seen my shit. Like, I work with a comedy coach. Like, I really, really do this. And to see New York New York was, man, like, you don't know. Like, there was big people that was trying to shut down my shows, and they got a couple of them shut down, but we just moved them to other venues. But like, you know, regardless of the hurdles, we did it and we were successful. And that's why I'm extremely excited about our experience in Houston, for us coming together, spending time. You will get a comedy show, but you will also get other things that we'll be doing And that's why it's called Wino Weekend, okay, in Houston. So, um, I'm coming to Europe next year. I love you, but like, um, I just, you know, I just wanted this to be just a pure, sincere, humble thank you. And, um, yeah, like, I'm trying to go for the special. I'm trying to go for the special. So yes, I am, um, there's a lot of people going through it this year. A lot of people going through it. A lot of people. And just to see doors open for us is crazy. Damn, damn, damn, damn. I can't even fathom this. Thank you, DLo. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. So, um, how was Phoenix? I would like to know what your experience was. Phoenix was absolutely amazing. Um, I ain't gonna give y'all my top 5 cities because I don't want y'all talking shit. Why does he have to be so— hold on for a second, y'all. Hold on, hold on. I'm sorry, y'all. Um, I'm gonna call y'all. I'm gonna get off. No, I'm gonna get off. No, I'm gonna get off. I really am. No, I'm gonna get off. I'm gonna get off. No, no, you're not talking to Jasmine. No, check for— doesn't understand that I work and he still thinks I'm wife all the time. I'm just talking to Jasmine. Yeah, but like, no, it's okay, it's okay, it's fine. It's fine, we're good. Should we do a vote? Vote for what? So why not? Why stay on? Why don't you just stay? No, my husband wants me to get out. I know when he's wanting attention. I know it. I— am I lying, Slay? Exactly. You know what I'm talking about, Slay. He knows what I'm talking about. Like, for real. At least give them a few more minutes. Look, so thank you so much, Intimate Memories. They said, bye, Shaq, fans come first. Thank you, thank you. Yes, so, um, uh, that African king wore his queen. I know, I know. You just received $50 million, wonder. Okay, uh, who's received $50 million? What you talking about? Who got $50 million? I know, right? Tasha wears many hats, wife is important one. Yeah, um, script say your husband come first. That why I was trying to end the live. I I was trying to, y'all. This is what I go through, really. This is what I go through. So I don't use condoms. What, model? What the fuck, McNeil? Okay, um, yeah, I'm not gonna get off. I'm gonna wait about 10 minutes. Yeah, so when he come on the road with me, he be trying to take over. But, um, see, I can't even do my show right with him sitting right here. Anyway, okay, I know, I love him too, I love him too. Um, but, uh, I just wanted to say thank you guys. Um, it was, uh, even when I told Jasmine, I was like, Jasmine, we doing comedy. She was like, huh, what for? Who's doing comedy? I was like, me. And, you know, It was funny because like when they found out who my comedy coach was, they was like, this guy? I was like, yes. And, um, it was, um— but I did have this. I knew comedy was for me. This is how I knew, even though I knew it in my heart. When I finally hit the stage for the first time doing comedy, I'll never forget it. I looked up this open mic place, it was called the Akava Bar, and it was in like Tarmac, Florida, somewhere. And I— it was at 9 o'clock, and they told me open mic is at 9. And I go in there in this blue dim light fucking comedy club, and these kids are in there, and they didn't serve alcohol, but they had a bar, which was real. Everybody was sitting at the bar talking, and they didn't serve alcohol. They said they're for recovering alcoholics. I said, what the hell am I doing here? So then, you know, by that time I figured out they didn't serve alcohol, I had already put my name on the list. And then the next thing you know, they called me. They was like, Tasha K! And I was like, Oh shit, I, I, yeah, I'll be right back. They was like, all right, fine. So they went to somebody else. And when I saw this, this white boy go up there, and he was not funny at all, and nobody laughed but me. Even though he wasn't funny, he gave me the courage to go up there. And when I went up there, even my husband was like, I don't think this is a good idea. I don't know about this. I don't know about this. But he still came. And when I start look back there and saw Sheck like, I was like— and the whole room was like, they was just in tears laughing. It was like, you're the funniest fucking comedian we've been— it was like beginner's luck. That's how I knew. I was like, that was God's sign. I knew. But then the next time I got— I bombed. I— they just didn't laugh. They just was like— I think it was when I had called the white folks crackers and, and they, they was crackers and they didn't like that. They was— I was like, oh, they're not my audience, so they don't know me. Thank you so much, Ginger Rose. Thank you. But, um, so yeah, that outfit done turned your man on. Now he anxious. Lord Jesus. Um, but yeah, I just, I just want to thank you guys. I really do. And I want to thank my team: Jazzy Face, Slink, Jason, Chic. I want to thank everybody, Eric, and thank y'all because y'all, y'all gave your girl another lane. Y'all gave your girl— really, y'all gave me my dream. This is, this is honestly my dream. I could do this and not make no money at it. I just want to be in a room with y'all busting jokes. Okay, you said your husband and I enjoy both shows, Boston and Connecticut. Dang, we brought family out tonight. Thank you, Miss G. Look at y'all. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. So Uh, yeah, it did take a lot of courage, Lee Clark. It really, really, really did. So he gonna get some business tonight. I don't know, he in the comments over there. He finna start talking shit in the comments. Watch, he finna start talking shit. Y'all won't be knowing. Shaq be wanting to— I, I told him, I said we should do a very— a limited series podcast on relationships. Limited series, it's 8 episodes, it's done. No, y'all really need to get a— y'all need— because a lot of people feel like, how that man with her? Y'all don't know Shake. Y'all don't know Shake. Shake is with the shits, okay? Like, for real. You are inspiring. From a YouTube show, interview, app, comedy. Um, I love you guys. The plant just got a show. Who's a show? Who's the plant? Who is the plant got a show? What are they talking about? Okay, um, let me see. Anniversary time or something? No. You said interview, check at the table. I'm interviewing them during the wine cellar. I really am. Shit had us hollering saying you ain't his wife. See what I'm talking about? See, see. Okay, but, um, any questions before we get off? But I just want to say thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. And I pray for y'all at every show. You, that you get to the show safe, that you leave the show safe. I pray for y'all even when we do the online shows, that y'all have a good time, or whatever y'all going through, y'all forget about it. Because if I'm going— if I'm going through my problems and I damn sure forget about— forget about them, so can you. It's just all a thought, and if you erase the thought, you good. It's called the same thing they do in Scientology. I was reading about it because I read about all the religions. They literally sit down, hook people to these clocks And then they ask them these questions and they tell them they delete thoughts and he'd be like, you deleted it? Yeah, I deleted it. You can't think. Yeah, so, um, Sheck got two honey packs in his wallet. What is honey packs? What are the hymns? What? I don't know what the hell y'all talking about. Viagra. Shake tried Viagra one time, it made his dick soft. I kid you not. We was in Mexico, he wanted to try it. I was like, why? You don't need it. I just want to try it. I was like, that's crazy. He tried it, dick was soft. I was like, what the fuck is this? And it said that was adverse reaction to that. It was like, I was upset too, cuz I thought we was going to go in and nope. I was like, yeah, I'm gonna get round for round, pound for pound. We're gonna go 12 rounds like in boxing. No, we went to sleep. Because you know, in Mexico they got a pharmacy on every day, every other store. Just like here in Hartford, there's a church every other house, right? Y'all got churches in your house? Y'all really gotta let me know the secret. I need to know the secret here in Hartford, okay? Why y'all got churches in the house? Do y'all get a tax write-off? What the fuck going on? Y'all don't pay no taxes? They can't tear down the land, they can't come take your house, I don't know. But like, they got a pharmacy every other fucking damn block and they selling them Viagra pills. I was like, it must be a lot of men out here with soft dicks. Like, why do they have so many Viagra pills in every store? Yeah, I was like, they must— I said, the cartel, they selling cocaine out here? Because I thought cocaine was like— I thought cocaine was stronger than Viagra. What the hell? Seriously? Yeah, Shake disappointed me that night. He had an adverse reaction. He said that— look, he over here talking about never again. I'm trying to tell you, I really was excited. I was like, yeah, I'm gonna get some round, round, round. Nope. You know, we over 40. One and done. That's it. One and done. Okay, she said— oh, cause Calista said she gonna beat you if you talking about him. What are y'all talking about in the chat? How are we reading these random messages? Let me see. Uh, hello Tasha, you're amazing. I pray for you as well. Thank you so much. Thank y'all. Uh, listen, okay, um, let me see any more questions before I get off and eat my food. Um, you ain't— what'd you say, Keith B? What's going on? Tasha, I want to see you in some red highlights. Okay, okay, that'll be cute. I think that'll be cute. Huh, you don't think red will look cute on me? I look good in red lipstick. Um, you got gold in your mouth. You got gold in your mouth, Jasmine. Shit, talking about ghetto-ass shit, but she got a whole gold grill at the bottom. Yeah, let me see. Thank you so much. Um, is bubblegum pink or talkie red? Louisiana next. Y'all, the only show I'm doing next is Houston. And then after Houston, we will roll out our shows for the year, okay? And so, um, they're gonna be cities— we'll probably touch 2 cities that we've already been to, but then the rest will be cities that we haven't touched yet. So yes, but thank y'all so much, and thank y'all for all the good reviews, no batty old reviews. And thank you for supporting a sister and her dreams and taking me from my bedroom of my house— and Sheck was just telling me, get the fuck off the internet, what are you doing, you're embarrassing, what the hell— to He quit his job and everybody quit their job. Oh my God, look at this! Everybody quit their job to do this, to do their dream. It's like, what was you doing before? I've always been filming. Always? But you, you left Atlanta. You left Atlanta to come work, and he worked for us full-time filming movies. Them trailers y'all was watching tonight That was all Slink and Shake. Shake, you quit your job to pursue your career. You quit your job. You know they say you ain't got no job, right? You know they say you ain't got no job. They say you work for me. You say you live off me. Jason, you retired from trucking, huh? How long you been off the road, Jay? Big Jay? Y'all, please stop saying this is my husband. He is not my husband. This is my husband, okay? Yeah, he said, I don't know this woman, never seen this woman, wouldn't know if I saw her on the street. But this is not my husband. This man got a whole wife at the house. Shout out to Claudia. But they still think Jason is my husband. That's crazy. I said, no, Jason. Jason over there. Yeah, and this is Jasmine. Show them the grill, Jasmine. Go, go, go. Look, but Jasmine, you, you left your job too. Everybody, has y'all checks ever bounced? Never. You lying. When? I want to see the receipts. How long you been working with us, Jasmine? I don't know, over 10, about 10, over 10. Girl, they said your checks was bouncing when we got sued, child. You wouldn't— I got to go, okay? Listen, I got— since you got here? No, I don't even get a check during the podcast. Oh, oh, Slay! Hey, what about you? Never. Never? You better be quiet because you know your baby mamas is watching this. Yeah, you know your baby mama's is like, oh nigga, never? You told me last week you ain't got it. Now he don't get paid, he don't work, he's just a house husband. He stay at home and he cleans and takes care of the kids. Yes, and that's it. He cooks, he does, um— they said Jasmine is so gorgeous. He cooks and he supports me. So I'm the man, I'm the husband, this is the wife. Listen, so I'm straight, but Jasmine can get it. Damn, Jasmine, not you turning them— not you turning up to the other side. But that's the team. We still got some other team members, they ain't here with us, okay? But shout out to them because I don't want them like, yo, What about me? You know what I'm saying? So it takes a whole team to do this. I would— we would not be able to do this alone. And so they work very long hours. They should really be getting paid more. Look at them. What? Look, look, look! Then y'all better ask him. He the check man. Huh? They said they need— they should look— they work very low. How many hours you work, Slay? 16 a day. 16 hours a day. Jason, how many hours you work a day for the company? At least 16. For real, 16. Jasmine, how many hours you work a day? About 12 to 14. 12 to 14. And y'all think y'all need more money? Do you think we need more money? I, I didn't add y'all. Didn't ask. This is not about me. It's not about me, okay? It's about them. Of course they deserve way more than what they're getting paid, okay? Everything's alleged, even my name is alleged, okay? So, um, but they work hard and, um, it's priceless. And I think they love what they do, um, they love working with me, not for me, even though I'm crazy as fuck, um, but they do it for you. What you— hold on, wait a minute, what was that? You, you was agreeing with me when I said I'm crazy, huh? They said, 'I don't be a slave driver.' Now y'all trying to say I'm the white man? What is this? Nah, nah, they, these people, they manage their own schedules. They met— I, I, I'm— I just literally meet with them once a week, couple week, couple times a week. They manage their own schedule. These are grown people. The only one that ain't over 40 yet is Jasmine, so we still gotta baby her a little bit, you know what I'm saying? She the baby of the crew. You really are the baby, about to get your own assistant. Look at you, girl. Yay! Okay, so, um, they gonna need to go back and get a second income. Damn, who is this? Look, I love working with these— who the hell is that guy? Once again, thank you so much, Passion for Life. I bet they're all on salary, which sucks when you Damn, I like to think, okay, that first of all, I don't like working hourly. Do you like working hourly? Do you like working hourly? So, okay, y'all ain't gonna blame me like I'm around here like Elon Musk and shit, okay? You, you like working out? You prefer hourly or salary? You just got a check? Shake just cut the check. Uh, do you prefer hourly or salary? You prefer hourly or salary? Okay, these are professionals. Bye. I was waiting on you to leave. Bye bye, grumpy. Look, he was waiting for me. That's what it was. You saw that shit? Look, that's all. He can't go to sleep without me, I swear to God. He can't go to sleep. See, Shaq, he trying to be talking shit in the, uh, comments. When I go out of town, when I go out of town, what does Shaq be doing when I go out of town? Oh, he's not missing. I miss Tasha. We should go back home. What he be doing? Yeah, he'd be walking around aimlessly trying to find some shit to do. Yeah. He don't know what to do with his time. What he be doing, Jason? Look, now he coming back down and trying to talk shit. What he be doing, Jason? Look, he cannot go to sleep unless I'm— let him be walking around because I'll be giving him instructions. I was trying to tell the winos that men need instructions, right? Look, he be trying to Somebody go ahead, Taj. He get mad now. He'll be all right. The way we talk about our husband when he leaves, I swear to God, we all be talking shit. Like, wait till he leave the room, I'm gonna go in on this nigga for real. Then we come, hey baby, how you doing? You hungry? You good? Tell me why your haters coming for Jasmine? Always hating for you. Who coming for Jasmine? It's a few people in there. What they say? What they say about you? They must be— they must not be winos. Real winos don't come for Jasmine. They only came for the other one, not you. And they celebrated too. You saw, ain't nobody miss a beat. That was bad. I was like, damn, that lets me know I should have— yeah. Um, let me see, let me see. Your husband is handsome. Thank you so much, Tasha. I heard your teeth ain't supposed to be that white. You cute though. My teeth is shade. No, they're not supposed to be this white. I made them white. I bought them this way. Yeah, I got the number one white, the pure white. They call it the Tekashi 6ix9ine white. Uh, let me see. Slide this way, don't sue. Okay, why you— hold on for a second, looking at y'all comments before we get all— but I just want to say thank you again, guys. Y'all made my, my dream come true. Jasmine believed in me even when she didn't. Uh, Jasmine was like You going, you gonna like go on stage and do what? It was so funny. I was like, Jasmine, just, just— and then when I was losing my shit, she was like, I don't know what the fuck we doing here. It was in Atlanta. She was like, I don't know what the fuck we doing here, but Tasha did say— I was like, we did it, we did that shit, we did that shit. So man, we sold out Atlanta twice, 3 times, 3 times, packed it out. Okay, what show is this? I was just about to go make your tea. Thank you, Tasha, you're beautiful. Thank you so much, Phoenix Love. Okay, Jasmine live with y'all. I live in Miami. Mama Tasha has been here 2 years. Let me be an assistant. Okay, all right, let me— Jasmine, they want you as an assistant. They want you. All right, listen guys, I'm gonna go ahead and get off. I'm gonna eat my food. I could be here with y'all forever. Okay, um, I would love to hear how you keep your journey with your husband. I know y'all been married for a long time. You have a show on that. I talked up— didn't I talk about that tonight? How you keep a man? Should I give him a little— yeah, I ain't gonna talk about how to keep no man in Houston. But yeah, y'all still need to come to Houston though. Tickets on sale for Houston, Tosh. I'll ask— I'll answer that question. Men— okay, so the viewer asked, how do you keep a man for 20 years? Well, uh, I don't believe they're dogs and they be kept in fucking cages and on leashes and stuff. But men like to feel like they running shit, but they not, right? They don't like to be asked. They don't like to be nagged, okay? Um, he's blinking the light. He blinking. He— Sheck was just blinking the light, bro. Like, seriously, men like to feel like they're needed. Okay, and that's something that I've— I'm a Southern belle at heart. I was raised by married couples and stuff, and I was raised by women who served men. Now I know in today's society that's unheard of, but my husband serves me too. And, um, but I love serving my man, especially a man that serves me daily with respect and love and caring. And I didn't— I don't have to work. Like, I chose this lane Okay, well, God told me to do it, and then I said okay. But when I met him and he asked me what I wanted to do, I said I wanted 10 kids and I wanted to be in the house. He said okay. I swear to God, that was a conversation with me and Shay. He said okay, and I was like, you good with that? He was like, I'm good. You good? You good? We good? So we get married? Yeah, we get married. It was no talk about me doing this or doing that. It was nothing. I just wanted a bunch of kids. And I didn't want to work, and I told him that, and I wanted to be married, and he said okay. And but that quickly changed after a year when he put me on a budget. It was like this, like, because I, I was managing the money. Like, he would make it and then I would manage it. And, um, yeah. And so at the end of the month, when I saw how much money we had left, I was like, uh, God said you need a helpmate, so I'm gonna help. Our bills was covered. We had no debt or nothing like that. But like, one thing that I learned, and I learned from my mom and my aunties is that, and from the men that were in my life, is that men just want respect and they want to feel needed. If they're not needed, why are they there? It's like, we go to pick out the houses, right? We say, hey, we want this house, I want it to look like this, but the man assembles and builds the house. So if you're going to pick out the house and build the house, what the fuck is he there for? That's why a lot of them ain't doing They riding shotgun in the passenger seat, you know what I'm saying? So they, they're not needed, they're, they're not wanted, and they usually feel useless. And so that's why they tend to pay for a lot of services from people, because they want to feel needed, they want to feel wanted, you know. So, um, and so that's kind of how you treat anybody. You don't have somebody in your life and you don't need them So why are they there? I need somebody. I want somebody to lay down with me at night. Like, my husband waiting on me right now to go to sleep. He'd be like, I can't go to sleep, please hurry up, I need to hold you. Listen, listen. And so yes, that's how you keep a partner And I don't, uh, in front of my team we argue because we're, we are a partnership, so we have to work. But we never argue about, um, things that go on in our marriage or in our relationship in front of the team or nothing. It's always about work, and we always kept it like that. So yeah, I respect that man. I love him. I love— he's the father of my children, both my children. I was like, they trying to say that Tatu was somebody else. Well, who's her daddy? He was trying to say Tashaq one time. I was like, who's her daddy then? Who the fuck got me pregnant? I guess because the kids so far apart in age, you know what I'm saying? And they figured I had a child at 16. I'm like, no, I got married, then had a baby, and then wasn't gonna have no more kids. I went from having 10 kids to having time to— about to celebrate The top's about to be out the house. I'm about to celebrate. No, I ain't. I ain't about to do it. She probably watching this anyway. But, um, yeah, men just want to feel needed. That's all. That's all. Tasha, we ain't about to play with you. I want to rest in my femininity. If a man allows it, we good. Yeah, and there's a lot of men— you gotta understand, America doesn't allow for women to rest in their femininity. It's just not the economic climate for it. There are other countries where you can go get men and you can rest purely and peacefully in your femininity. And how well he knew how to budget and live alone. We have never missed no rent payments, no mortgage payments, no nothing. It didn't matter filing bankruptcy or not, we always made sure our— he always made sure a roof was over our head and everything. So like Yeah, if you want to rest in your femininity, you're gonna have to leave America because America requires 2 people to work now. Apartments used to be 3 bedrooms, $700, $500. Now 3 bedroom is $3,000, $4,000. The average person make what, $30,000, $40,000 a year? It's not the, the landscape for it. So I'm sorry, or you're just gonna have to be a nomad. You have to go somewhere cheap. Okay, they're talking about what countries? Everywhere but here, because over here you're gonna have to work. It don't even matter, you gonna have to work. Hell, Elon Musk baby mamas work the fuck. You gotta work. All right, so— Sheik's so cute, you're embarrassing him. Do you see how they feeling sorry for him? And then Sheik probably did it. All right guys, I love you. I'm gonna go ahead and get off, okay? I'm done, it's been 40 minutes. I'm gonna eat my food, Jasmine gonna eat her food. And we out. Okay, I love you guys. Bye!