Two people debate whether a man physically restraining his incarcerated partner during a prison visit is weak or protective. One calls it weak; the other argues it's attractive because female prisoners rarely get intimate visits, making the gesture stand out.
Why? He held her down.
You said that was weak of him? Absolutely. Listen, listen, Tashkay. Hey, I'm like, before they can close the cell, I'll be putting it in the street. Look, look, look, look. I'll be putting it in the street.
Okay, so why is that weak for him to hold his woman down? Because like, the stark contrast between the prisons, when it comes to the male prisons, the male visitors have women visit them all the time and hold them down, right? But in the women prisons, they say they— all you get is grandmamas, aunties, and kids. You rarely see men coming on the regular holding women down that are doing, you know, long periods of time in jail. So being that Papoose did that, how does that make him weak? To me, it's very attractive. I, I listen, I do anything for him. I will hold him down the same way he held me down.