A sharp critique of couples who broadcast their relationship before marriage is solid, with a warning that babies disrupt partnerships for years. The speaker cites postpartum and health issues that can devastate new mothers, and calls out public figures like Ashanti, Kirk, and Rasheeda for pushing the wrong advice.
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before they start throwing their relationship out to the world and you are not solidified. Being married and being a couple is two completely different things. And then you got— you throwing a baby in the mix that is going to interrupt everything for the next 3 years. Everything. Especially with her being a first-time mom. I'm sorry, I'm just not supporting this. Protect your marriage. He got $50 mil. You don't need no reality show. And be a kept woman, Ashanti. Carry your baby weight in private. She don't even know if she gonna hit postpartum. That's what I'm trying to tell you. She don't know if she gonna have thyroid problems. None of that shit. I'm telling you, it's gonna eat her ass alive. She has no clue. And I bet you it was Kirk and Rasheeda's old ass that done told them, yeah, it's good. Look at me and Kirk. When is Kirk gonna come out the closet? When Kirk gonna say the only reason he won't leave Atlanta is because he got, he got a dick buffet.