This is a YouTube video titled "How to Change Your Frame of Reference w/ Soli Cayetano #shorts" containing a motivational talk or interview from December 15, 2023. The content features Soli Cayetano discussing the importance of changing one's social circle to overcome hesitations and achieve success by surrounding oneself with people who have accomplished similar goals.
What would you say to someone to encourage them to make that leap like you did? Like, what would you say to kind of remove some of those. I don't call them excuses, but hesitations.
I would say it's really important to kind of break your frame of reference, I hear. I think Cody Sanchez says that a lot. And it's by surrounding yourself with people who have done the thing, a lot of people in their mind think that, you know, it's not possible, and there's a lot of reasons why you shouldn't be successful. But if you surround yourself with people who have done it and have been successful in it, then they can show you one, that it's possible, and this is the way to do it. So change your circle, you know, audit it. You know, if you're hanging out with people who just like to watch TV every single day, then you're going to end up not really doing much of anything at all. Like, you are the sum of the average of the five people that you hang out with the most. I think that's what the saying is, and so be very intentional with who those five people are.