Tim Stoddart on why apologies mean nothing without changed behavior. He talks about how addiction damages trust and what actually matters when you're trying to make things right.
It's crazy how it impacts your decisions, how you can show up, how you can support people. Because even like flying sometimes when I was traveling, I used to try to time it so I would get to that city before the liquor store closed. And that was always the thing. Like, holy cow. Like, how am I gonna, you know, survive in San Antonio without getting some kind of beer before I go to sleep? So the way that addiction can control you is. Is. Is amazing. And. But we don't have to feel that way anymore. You know what I mean? So you mentioned earlier having some kind of, like, you know, guilt or whatnot. And I always say, like, the best apology is change behavior. So you and I don't have to worry about that stuff anymore. Like, we're done apologizing. It's just like, all right, just don't do that anymore.