Terry RiceCreator of The R³ Method™ | Transformation Coach | Keynote Speaker

What's Your Primary Dictum? When You Feel Safe in Your Own Skin with Dr. Michael Gervais #shorts

Name: What's Your Primary Dictum? When You Feel Safe in Your Own Skin with Dr. Michael Gervais #shorts
Uploaded: 2024-04-23T12:00:39Z
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Description: This is a YouTube video titled "What's Your Primary Dictum? When You Feel Safe in Your Own Skin with Dr. Michael Gervais #shorts" containing a monologue…

23 Apr 2024

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This is a YouTube video titled "What's Your Primary Dictum? When You Feel Safe in Your Own Skin with Dr. Michael Gervais #shorts" containing a monologue or talk by a single speaker named Solara, discussing emotional responses and personal security in social interactions, recorded in April 2024.

I can sense a bit of contempt, let's say if that there's a pinging that takes place and you've, you've now sent that signal and then it's coming back to me. But if I don't care right about like pleasing you as my primary dictum and if my, if my primary dictum. So let's say it's not survival and it's not now pleasing you because I have a sense of I'm okay, I feel okay in my skin and then that information is more information about you. So if I'm a kind, gracious, purpose driven person and I'm seeing some confusion or contempt in you, I don't have to swallow and be like, oh shit, I'm not okay in his eyes. What do I have to do now to win his favor? I can say something like, oh, it looks like that was difficult for you as opposed to having to protect me. I'm now here for you.