Utkarsh NarangFounder, IgnitedNeurons · Your best doers become your worst managers as you scale. I turn them into leaders so your best people don’t leave.

Feeling Stuck in Love? Try This First and Work on this Relationship

17 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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Your sense of self-worth, or self-score, determines whether you can build a healthy relationship. If it's low, you'll accept unfulfilling partnerships and struggle to leave them. Fix yourself first: build confidence and raise your standards before trying to fix the relationship.

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The analytics showed that the people who were currently together had a strong self-score. If you have a low self-score, you're likely going to not be in a sustainable relationship. So if you feel like you're not finding the right person, if you feel like your relationship is extremely unfulfilling and you're just miserable, if you feel like you can't get over a breakup, it actually has got nothing to do with the other person. Yet. The first step comes down to the self-score. If you have a low self-score, don't expect anything from anyone else. Just don't. Don't expect you to feel healed. Don't expect you to find the right person. Don't expect that you and your partner will come into alignment. You are not even in a position where you're lucky to have yourself. Why would anyone else feel lucky to have you? And I don't mean to sound harsh. We've all been there. But you have to feel lucky in terms of how you show up as a human, and you have to feel confident. And once you do, believe me, your standards will be good and positive and solid. Then you'll be in a position to ask your partner to step up. Then you'll be in that position. Then you'll be in a position to finally shed that relationship that no longer served you, that was just anchoring you down. And now you're looping in your mind, why didn't they love me? If you don't feel lucky to have yourself, they're not gonna feel lucky to have you.