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He Lost Almost Everything at 20 He Chose to Keep Going | Ken Kunken | The IgnitedNeuronsPodcast

16 Sept 2026 · 2 min

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Ken Kunken was paralyzed at 20 in a spinal cord injury. He got two degrees from Cornell and a master's from Columbia, mailed 200 job applications, and became a prosecutor for 40 years. His worst day wasn't the injury itself, but when he felt he was taking help away from his grandmother.

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October 31st, 1970. He ran down the field, made a tackle, and never moved his body again.
And when I hit him, I broke my neck and severely damaged my spinal cord.
20 years old. The same morning he felt invincible, untouchable.
I thought I was invincible.
2 degrees from Cornell, a master's from Columbia, the very school he was playing the day he got injured. And then he mailed— not emailed, he physically mailed 200 applications for a job.
Everybody seemed to feel that I was just too disabled to work.
One person gave him a chance, and he spent 40 years with them as a prosecutor. And during that journey, he also became father of triplets. And he says the worst day of his life was not the day when he was injured, but it was—
And I don't think I ever felt worse than the day I thought I was taking help away from my grandmother.
And today in the conversation, his wife Anna joins us too. She flew from Poland to the US to learn English, answered one of his newspaper ads, and never, never went back home. I asked her, how do you build a marriage that holds so much weight? And her word, her single word answer was trust. By the end of our conversation today, you'll understand what is left when everything that you're chasing, everything that you're wanting gets taken away from you in a single moment. Let's dive in.