A father realizes his own dad's greatest lesson while changing his son's diaper: his father, usually silent, says he just saw himself in his grandson. The wisdom is simple but shifts everything: you're never younger than you are right now, so cherish it.
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And I think the biggest thing he would probably tell me is just to appreciate being young, even at 40, because this is the youngest I'll ever be, you know, ever again, you know. And I think, you know, I would watch my dad sometimes watch the kids play, and he would be a little bit stoic, you know. He wouldn't really speak, but he would be watching. And, you know, he'd watch whenever I would, you know, like give my, you My oldest son, who was a baby when he was a kid, I remember this one time he was just watching as I was, you know, changing him and doing all the stuff. It was just me, my dad, and my oldest son. And he was watching me and he kind of just like goes like this. And all of a sudden, you know, he shakes his head and just clears his head up. And I was like, what's wrong? He goes, I literally just saw myself.