The speaker argues that chasing a single passion creates stress and guilt, often leading to overwork and burnout. Instead, follow your curiosity. It's a more sustainable path to growth than obsessing over one all-consuming goal.
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We hear so much about passion. Find your passion, follow your passion, pursue your passion. I believe that stresses people out. I believe people feel guilt. I believe some of them even feel shame when we start talking about what my passion is. And everybody says pursue your passion, and I don't have a passion, and I don't know. And I believe it's a mistake. Even for people who think they know what their passion is, it actually becomes narrow because then they're only talking about Do the things that make me what I think happiness is. That's my passion. My passion is to make more money. My passion is to, you know, well, if you want to do that, then you're working 20 hours a day and working on 4 hours of sleep. And that's, that's silly. But I do believe there's a way to find your passion in the midst of that spaghetti noodle, which I think is where we need to go. And I tell my clients and my students, don't pursue your passion. Let's put passion on the side. Let's not worry about that. What you need to do is pursue the things that make you curious. And, and that, I think, is a real game changer.