Life looks tangled up close but has a straighter path when you step back. Stop trying to untangle everything. Follow where it leads, trust the underlying order, and let the mess teach you what you need to learn.
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My mission in life is understanding that the spaghetti noodle is in fact what it is. And it's so important that we understand that life should not be about trying to straighten out that spaghetti noodle, as you said, untangle it. I just think that's a waste of time when really we ought to just go where it takes us. Now, I don't mean become a victim of your circumstances. We all need to understand that there is a rule at play that takes us to these unknown, even sometimes backward paths to get to learn something that we need to learn for whatever is coming next. I love chaos theory and complexity and all that. I do believe very strongly that there is an order to the universe, even though we don't see it. When you look at us, the spaghetti, spaghetti noodle in between, it only looks like a mess when you're looking at it really close. The further and further back you go, the straighter and straighter the line looks. Only when we zoom in on it super close that we see all the curves and all that kind of thing. And so when you step back a little bit though, I believe you can start to see a more clear trajectory.