Why Divorce Isn't the Answer #relationships #marriage

Even the most perfect marriage is going to have crises, whether they're monetary or becoming a parent or employment and in-laws. There's all kinds of, like what you're getting at, you know, dislike. And, you know, so we have to work on those and accept that that's part of life. Why is this important? Because many people, one thought comes to mind is, I want a divorce. I don't like this person. And so we have to learn to develop unconditional love. In fact, when you talk about hypothalamus, great article, I Love You from the Bottom of My Hypothalamus, and it debunked fight or flight. Fight or flight was like, oh, hardwired into the brain. That was what we thought. That's what we were told. You know, that it's debunked. The brain can develop unconditional love. Loyalty is a good name. Loyalty is through thick or thin. And so one thing to tell couples is, yeah, you're staying with me even though I'm like this. I'm staying with you even though I have these issues. I'm loyal. You work on these different traits. We don't just have an ego, we can develop character. Character means you have strengths, we have depth, not just an ego. And one of the great traits is loyalty or commitment.