An overachiever describes the two voices in their head: one celebrating wins, another fixating on what they missed. This constant comparison makes even small spending decisions feel fraught, turning accomplishment into anxiety.
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There's so many parts of me. There's the part of me of like, woohoo, you did it! Like, you did it! Look at everything you've accomplished and put your mind to and set out to do. You accomplished it! And there's that overachiever part of me that sneaks in a little and is like, you should have done more! You know, you remember all those times you wanted to travel or take that risk or take that chance? You should have done it! And I'm, I'm actually faced with a decision I'm having a hard time making right now. And it's not like this life-shattering decision, but it's, you know, there's finances involved and such. And I'm like, I feel nervous about— it's something I really want to do, but I feel nervous about spending the money on it. And but wait a minute, like, what is this going to get me?