A speaker argues that anxiety and overthinking aren't flaws but strengths for high achievers. Reframe the worry from "What if I fail?" to "This matters, I need to act" and use that edge to sharpen focus and drive instead of spiraling into fear.
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A lot of my clients are high achievers and they're all overthinkers and anxious, but that's what's made them successful in life. So it's not about removing those feelings. Those are a part of you, a part of your identity, and a lot of it honestly a part of your subconscious brain. It's about allowing that to come from a place of more opportunities versus this fear where you get so hard on yourself and you're operating in this survival mode. So for example, I'm someone who's more anxious, right? And when my anxiety pops up, I don't want it to pop up like, oh my God, how am I going to do this? How am I going to do that? I want it to pop up like, oh, I need to get this done. This is very important. This is a priority. So I want that anxiety to give me a boost. I want that fear to give me a boost. I want that even competitive side to give me a boost. I don't want it to drag me down.